johniav:Have any of you attempted to gain weight and then suddenly get freaked out after realizing that you're actually getting really fat.
canuck:several times!
gaining from my pre-fat weight of 150-160 lbs to 200 or so was the hardest to come to terms with. a couple of times i panicked, and went back to the gym to try to slim down. but clearly those attempts were not successful, lol!
sometime after i had passed 200, i can't remember when (maybe 225 lbs?), i made an attempt to get back to the gym and get back in shape. it turned out to be my last (failed) attempt. by then i was just too out of shape, too big, and too jiggly - my ego couldn't take being there, to be honest!
i am living proof and warning of the slippery slope! but i don't regret it - eating chips, pizza and cupcakes is way more pleasurable than running on a treadmill!
You are for some a cautionary tale, for others you are an inspiration.
4 years
Fridgey:
Started as just 6,7
But now It's also 1,2,3,4
GrowingLoveHandles:
The reasons seem to grow as your belly grows.
That’s been my experience.
Fridgey:
Yes!!!
GrowingLoveHandles:
Your belly is not all that’s expanding.
I find that you can find more delights in gaining as your waistline thickens.
Fridgey:
I've definitely developed a new appreciation for food since I've started gaining maybe too much of an appreciation lol.
"Too much" is a phrase which is not allowed here at ff.
There can never be such a thing as too much. Haha.
On this scale, though, 6 seems the first choice for many. Food is delicious and tempting, of course, but fattening is just so damned erotic.
4 years
Fridgey:
Started as just 6,7
But now It's also 1,2,3,4
GrowingLoveHandles:
The reasons seem to grow as your belly grows.
That’s been my experience.
Fridgey:
Yes!!!
Your belly is not all that’s expanding.
I find that you can find more delights in gaining as your waistline thickens.
4 years
Fridgey:
Started as just 6,7
But now It's also 1,2,3,4
The reasons seem to grow as your belly grows.
That’s been my experience.
4 years
Raises hand and jumps about wildly in the midst of a large fantasy feeder crowd.
“Me, me! Choose me!”
4 years
EIIe:
When my bf goes down on me it’s very typical for him to also finger my belly button while he is at it...
Another great way to start that association.
He also does it when he sucks on my nipples, which are hella sensitive.
Wow. What’s great idea. I’ve got to try this out.
Thanks, Elle
4 years
Moobs is a genius term, shortening “man boobs”.
I also like the term “he-hooters”.
4 years
A more natural way to change your body chemistry to grow moobs, soy products can help. Soy milk and tofu and soy cheeses may help.
Google “moobs” and “soy” for a lot of research on this.
4 years
You write it.
We will read it.
Cause you’re good at this.
stevita:
I'm usually the same way...which is why I wanted to reinvent the trope. Instead of "impersonal and dominating FA running a farm to fatten up feedees who will be known mostly through statistics and body descriptions" I want to be like "Hi, here's four feedees who end up at this camp and become best friends for life. One of them is a longtime feeder and his partner/feedee just came out as a switch so he's gonna try to put on some weight for her. One is on the run from the law and just trying to distance himself from his mugshot, but falls in love with the kink. One is a cocky celebrity gainer who's going to learn the meaning of friendship and solidarity. And one didn't really read the pamphlet but he's gonna have a good time anyway."
Featuring supporting mentors and on-site classes such as cooking, hunting, and golf; blackjack and darts in the rec room, characters dealing with and overcoming troubled pasts, vices, and personal flaws, and maybe a cute hurt/comfort plot where the career criminal falls for a sweet chubby on-site nurse.
4 years
Your health can — and perhaps should — include writing, whether you work on this project or simply keep a journal of your struggles. You are on a hero’s journey. Record it for yourself and others.
"Writers get a nice break in one way, at least: They can treat their mental illnesses every day." — Vonnegut
lydsville:
Well, with the type of game I wanted to make (an FMv game) the lines do actually cross over, and I was looking into how would I make the fully CGI scene we'd need for the game.
That and as you said, they have a team, something of which I've felt I've needed this whole time, a group of people who might have the answers and maybe I can better communicate my ideas to.
I've always had issues communicating with people and I'm not sure if that would help either but at the least they may know how to bring my idea to life when I don't.
I agree that less is more, I was trying that in my project and basically felt it needed more, so I don't know how to apply it to me other than to do something easier instead.
My problem isn't I'm actually trying to aim for perfection, it's that my brain won't leave anything alone until it's perfect and therefore I have to make to something perfect or else it's just not something worth anyone's time. I can't help it, it's an actual problem that I have.
Yes, I do need to focus on my health. I'm not sure how far into details I can go but I worked myself to the point of having to fight passing out just the other day but this time it was because I felt if I passed out then that was it, no more me. I decided I didn't want to die for this project and started frantically looking for answers from people on forums and in videos on YouTube but alas I finally looked at what I was doing and decided that working on this project was just painful in various ways.
So I had to ask if it was really worth the pain, I finally decided that it wasn't. So, thank you for the understanding but yes I need to go take care of myself. Thank you, sorry if I bothered anyone with that one but I felt some context was needed.
5 years
