Weetabix:
Make choices you can stick to and want to stick to. Accept the consequences of your decision. Make it your decision rather than feel like you have no control.

So either you decide to do what you need to do to stop your weight gain and slowly get fitter OR you decide that you love eating more than anything else and you've accepted that the price is compromised health and a shorter life.

People make life and death choices every day, like the man who chooses to become a soldier. That comes with some honour, at least until he gets shot and injured, then he's just a burden on the state and becomes homeless. Harsh but if you talk to a former soldier you'll know that's what happens to many of them.

Your dangerous choice is no where near as bad as the consequences of some people's choices.

So rather than fight what you clearly want, decide that it's what you want and you're adult about the consequences.

I hope that helps you figure this out.

Curiousv:
As a FA, what is your favorite attitude in those who are gaining weight?

1. completely hating weight gain, trying desperately to become thin but failing, being miserable about it, comfort-eating, and inevitably getting fatter.

2. accepting that they will never become skinny, but trying to lose just a little bit of weight, not to become thin but just to be a little bit less obese. Occasional short and half-hearted diets here and there, which are not enough to stop the weight from continuing to pile up.

3. having accepted their fat bodies and being comfortable, just trying to maintain. Like, "OK, if I gain another few pounds I'll start a diet", but after it happens, pushing out the boundary again.

4. not wanting to gain per se, but loving food enough that they accept gaining as a consequence or as a price to be payed. They have no worries about it and they accept the weight gain, being confident with their bodies, but if they could eat more food while magically not gaining weight, they would choose so.

5. actually liking and enjoying the weight gain itself.

6. weight gain becoming the main drive, wanting to get as fat and as fast as possible.


What's it in fantasy, and what's it in reality?

For me, in reality I like 4 and 5 the most (if I had to order them from most to least favorite, it would be 5, 4, 3, 2, 6, 1), and in fantasy it's for someone to go through all the stages from 1 to 6.

Munchies:
I prefer a 5. I need enthusiastic consent to enjoy things. Even the passive consent of a 4 just doesn't do it for me.

On the other side of things, I refuse to deal with a 6. I had one of those as a feedee. Lemme tell ya, it did a number on my psyche.

Never again.

Xlbellabearlx:
Is there anyone (preferably a woman) who's looking for a woman feedee? 🥺 However I truly don't care about gender so long as we get down to business. 🥰

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FattenedByCirce:
I think my snacks end up being more than I’d anticipated and that’s why I’m so stuffed all the time. I like the idea of given the internals a rest, just need to develop some willpower to stop all the snacking between feasts

SumoSized:
Honestly I'd do some experimenting if I were you, one day do big feasts and stuffings and count up all the calories you eat as the day goes along, and then the next day eat your meal like normal (maybe give yourself slightly bigger servings but nothing to extreme) and just do light snacking throughout the whole day. Then after both days compare how many calories you've eaten

Feedeeshore19:
ive been eating 7500 kcal a day for 5 days now since back of holidays. all from junk food and heavy cream. i eat healthy foods to for "some" balance. so far its been too easy. i feel hungry even after stuffing all day. why is this?