Ethics

LuvsChub04:
for me yes.. id never encourage someone to be imobile, theres no quality of life there. like on my 600 pound life, those people have no life, id never say hey your 550 pounds cant walk to the mail box, go eat another cake just doesn't seem right...

Jiggle Junkie:
1) Your numbers are far from universal. I’ve met and hugged people (mostly women) in the mid-500s who have enough mobility for their purposes. I know people in the 200s of pounds who are immobile or close, and can’t walk to the mailbox. I was totally immobile in 2003 for close to 3 months, around 6' tall and 155 pounds—not from fatness. There are all sorts of reasons people can be immobile/have limited mobility/have substandard qualities of life.

2) I’m grateful to have had the opportunity to get to know one immobile (mostly from fatness) woman in our community (but not on FF) very well. She’s well below the arbitrary 500 or 550 or whatever pound mark. tl;dr: it’s nuanced.

3) I’m grateful to have had the opportunity to meet IRL someone in our community who’s a feedee who loves being fat so much that she’s been willing to take things to where the OP and others so far in this thread consider extreme. She’s living her life on her terms—who are we to judge?

4) Some people want to be encouraged to immobility… or at least make that claim (i’ve not personally interacted with them enough to establish veracity). If they have full agency, why can’t they pursue what they want? Why would it be bad for an encourager in that context to encourage them?

First thank you for the reply. I was talking immobile only due to weight gain. Not an injury, illness etc only weight gain. Yes people can encourage them to be immobile i just my self won't i don't feel its right, n well think its sick.Im not judging anyone, to me personally plumping up someone who cant function normally just isn't right. To need help going to the bath room, bathing,cooking a meal, thats no kind of life, so for me ethically thats where i draw the line..
2 years

Ethics

LuvsChub04:
for me yes.. id never encourage someone to be imobile, theres no quality of life there. like on my 600 pound life, those people have no life, id never say hey your 550 pounds cant walk to the mail box, go eat another cake just doesn't seem right...

Biglunch:
Thanks man… I’m glad some people still have a heart.

Like I totally get loving fat bellies because I do too, OBVIOUSLY, but when someone is 800 pounds they don’t even have that nice round look to them…

There is no actual defined shape anymore at that point because there is too much flesh for the frame to support…

We should at least be able to admit at 800 pounds… that is unhealthy.

i like my beer belly, n i love a good big muffin top n thighs on a girl.. Yet when you cant function normally to me thats the cut off point..n ya 800 is way to big
2 years

Ethics

for me yes.. id never encourage someone to be imobile, theres no quality of life there. like on my 600 pound life, those people have no life, id never say hey your 550 pounds cant walk to the mail box, go eat another cake just doesn't seem right...
2 years

Swallow a stick of butter - difficult?

Biglunch:
Do not try this, you can die.

LuvsChub04:
Really?Was with someone who would munch on sticks of butter, long as its not to cold no issue

Munchies:
I think he means the choking hazard aspect. While I wouldn't recommend munching on stick of butter for ... other reasons, that isn't a choking hazard.

she use to let t sit out til it was room yemp then break off pieces with a fork n eat it that way
2 years

Swallow a stick of butter - difficult?

Biglunch:
Do not try this, you can die.

Really?Was with someone who would munch on sticks of butter, long as its not to cold no issue
2 years

Slob

for me no, yet id adore a partner who's a slob, never bathes, drinks a ton just sits around n eats n drinks, doesn't even change her clothes in over a week..
2 years

Added an ending

finally added a fitting ending to my story. Its somewhat based on a relationship i had with someone.
X rated, slob,hygyne fetish,food sex
fantasyfeeder.com/stories/view
3 years

What is it you value (most) in a serious relationship?

shadowddr:
Actually, hygiene is really important so... to be ure we both are clean, let's take a bath together "DOUBLEFROSTED"

doublefrosted:
I just want to make it clear that I find suggestions and propositions like this from complete strangers unappealing and, frankly, cringy. Please stop.

in shadowddr profile in his about me, he sounds like a total creep
3 years