Yep, just checked, still there!

becomingoverweight:
That would just be a transfer of mass from the liver to adipose tissue though. The body wouldn't get heavier.[/quote]

I believe when the body stores dietary fat as "fat" it is bonded with lots of water. Some 90% of the weight is actually water. So when fat temporarily in the liver got stored in fat cells it would weigh more and take up more volume.

Ditto

becomingoverweight:
Just remember that according to the conservation of mass you can't gain weight from nothing. I'm a bit skeptical that heavy cream causes a gain days after it was last consumed.[/quote]

I think the theory is that some of the fat from the cream stores in the liver and gets stored as fat over a few days.

I certainly noticed that the gain from cream did not start right away and continued for days after I stopped.

You have not indicated that your husband has not tried to feed you or encourage you. If he has actually done so, then my comments are not all applicable.

Consider, he finds you attractive and you hate that because you don't find yourself attractive. Do you imagine that he would have been attracted to you and married you had he not found you attractive?

You say you are ok with him having his fetish, but you don't like him imagining you as part of it. So you seriously want him to imagine being with others, but not you? Have you thought this through?

Imagine this were turned around and every picture he looked at were model skinny and those imaginings of you were disgusting now and passable when you were only chubby ... do you WANT to be unattractive to him?

To my view, you are unhappy with yourself and you actually seem to want him to be unhappy with you as well. Well, if you achieve that you may find yourself alone, because that is where that typically leads.

If you are unhappy about your weight, you need to either lose weight or accept yourself at your current weight. He seems to have found you attractive when you were "chubby" and now. It is not really about him, it is about you.

I don't say this to be mean. You need to seek a councilor to help with this as it is horrible to be as self critical and miserable as you seem to be. Don't continue to suffer, get some help.

At some point your councilor may well want your husband to attend so he can understand and be supportive. I imagine he is pretty confused and probably feels that he can't say anything right to you right now ... and that is probably true.

I do hope you can get some help and feel better.

Buuutttt, isn't that what you wanted? ;-D

I think you will find that the rate of increase, improved in the second and third weeks. This is why I regularly encourage gainers interested in using heavy cream to achieve gain to commit to a longer program.

In general, it is necessary to maintain your increased calorie intake for a week or more before the gains you are looking for really begin.

Easy, continue the heavy cream and let the fat accumulate.

Often, your first new gain is swelling the fat cells you already have. As you continue new fat cells will be created. THAT fat will stick!

So just plan on 6 or 8 weeks of heavy cream. If you like it, do 6 to 8 weeks more.

Communication IS key. Note my comment on consent.

But AFTER consent, I don't think it needs to be repeated every hour either.

If it is ME being fed, once I consent ... I WANT her to enjoy being the feeder and if it gets to be too much I will say so. Otherwise she can carry on!

I don't even mean just for today, or this week, consent is "until further notice".

I assume if you can say 'Yes Please" you can say "Please stop" as well.

It is very difficult sometimes. Remember that there ARE women who want to play the denial game. "I don't WANT to give in. I don't WANT to get fat. But I just CAN'T say no."

For them, dinnercall is just perfect. For me, I would avoid this dynamic and those who want to engage in it. You know that she can turn on you in a NY minute right?

It can certainly work in a context of broader consent, but at some point I need the admission it is actually want she wants ... and what I want for that matter.

But once the consent is given, it can continue until revoked in my opinion.