Either two people are compatible or they're not.
Some people thrive on pain, others on comfort, others on being left alone.
If a partner's behavior is abhorrent, and they refuse to accommodate your preferences, leave.
If you can't leave due to fear, involve the authorities. A situation this bad will only get worse.
There are billions of people in this world. It's insane to waste one's life in a bad relationship.
4 years
It's mostly genetics. No amount of targeted exercise or dietary changes will turn an apple into a pear, or vice versa.
To put noticeable weight on the hips and thighs, the OP will need to accept a bigger belly to get there.
Which unless health, comfort, or relationship issues arise as a result, should not be a bad thing.
4 years
NakaiLovesBlubber:
yeah the me still living with my parents is the biggest reason for me not letting myself even try gaining weight to experiment, let alone just blow up
It is a personal decision of yours to make. If your family situation precludes your goals, then the solution is to seek self-sufficiency (work, save, build credit, apartment...).
Nothing good comes from complacency. I made a similar decision around your age, except it was that my BBW girlfriend at the time was not welcome by my family.
It was a decision that changed my life, hers, and my parents' ideology for the best, successful still, nearly 20 years later.
4 years
Xpandedprincess:
I’ve been overweight my whole life and about 4 years ago I lost 40 pounds and actually started looking skinny. I received praise from family. Then I stopped working out and started eating more. And I kept filling out and gaining more. The heaviest person in my family is my fat uncle who weighs 250lbs but now I outweigh him by 50lbs. Can’t wait to see everyone’s reaction at Christmas when I stuff my face and let my belly hang out a bit. They will not be expecting me at over 300 pounds.
Keep us posted... You're looking great in your pics and videos. As long as it feels good to carry the weight, why not? After all, it's YOUR body, not theirs!
4 years
sweetfattie:
With me it depends on the food in question. I can’t eat a ton of sweets without being overwhelmed with sugar. Savory snacks though? I can go through a party size bag of barbecue chips in one evening! Aged cheeses, nuts, pretzels, crackers and dip, cured meats, arare mix, dry ramen noodles crunched up and mixed with the seasoning packet... I can eat so much when there’s savory snacks around.
I too greatly prefer savory over sweet! And can easily go through a bag of Wise cheese doodles in one sitting.
4 years
One woman I knew had gastric bypass surgery and lost about 150 pounds. She was really cute as a BBW and her loose, flabby skin looked absolutely amazing even following the bypass. Sadly, she hated everything about having gotten fat, the loose skin resulting from bypass, and how her once huge, perky tits turned into deflated balloons. Now she looks quite literally like a Barbie doll after numerous cosmetic surgeries, and I no longer find her attractive.
4 years
In my experience, with just one exception, the biggest women I have been with were the wettest by far, both leading up to and during sex, cumming far more and achieving the strongest orgasms. I don't know if this was due to a physical difference in their bodies, a stronger sexual compatibility, or some other factor. Embrace it, there's no downside!
4 years
NakaiLovesBlubber:
sometimes, I'll eat food to gain weight, or something of that nature. And then later that day I masturbate, and hate the thought of gaining and really want to shed pounds. Is this just post nut regret? I think I'm at the point where I've realized getting big may not be for me. but hey, I still like big girls
The thought of the gain arouses you more than the reality. It is precisely "post nut regret" (great term BTW) which can happen when a source of stimulus becomes far less desirable post climax. For me it's usually women I can't and/or really don't want to have. For you it happens to be the weight gained.
4 years
This is something I didn't realize until having been with BBW, since a slim woman has no equivalent. I love to rub and caress the Fupa while fingering and working the clit and before going in.
4 years
newenglander:
More importantly than "when" women get fat is that society is accepting obesity like never before. Now that Covid-19 has changed many people's lives, they have become more lazy and sedentary, working from home, having food delivered, and it shows when they go out!
Jazzybella:
If only that were true where I am from. Fat stigma here is still a daily occurence. The USA has so much more to offer when it comes to fat acceptance.
I have never been to the Netherlands, but have noticed in my travels to other parts of Europe, the only fat women seemed to be the tourists. Eating habits and culture are totally are different in the EU vs. the US. Also food is taxed more heavily in Europe, making it more costly.
If you came to America, you would be amazed how abundant and inexpensive food is, and probably would gain more weight than you wanted to. Plus the Euro is strong compared to the dollar, so you would absolutely be amazed how much food your money can buy.
American women can be fat nowadays with much better acceptance than ever before. Bullying is out of vogue, tolerance and acceptance is in, especially with Millennials and Generation Z.
4 years
