Welcome to the club. Well, I think it matter of common sense, try it just to meet women, trying to know them as person. The fetish and your affection for fatter girl will come out eventually naturally. Just don’t push it.
2 years
cat:
What is it like to be in a fat female and thin male relationship where the female is much larger than the male? Are there any problems? Is the female side more of a leader as she is larger or is the male the leader?
modulo9:
I suppose it depends.
My wife has gotten more submissive as she's gained. I have an athletic build but not that skinny. My wife gained partly by her giving into her pleasure and me prompting her.
Sounds great, I wish I could meet a feeder, that would grow me to be her submissive feedee
2 years
Cyberfat:
Howdy there! I'm Nathan, I'm interested in finding someone to help encourage me and maybe buy me some food to get nice and big for them and them alone.
Online to start for sure, but then would be open to meeting irl!!
Preferably Looking for Women but if you're cute guy you can also hmu on here!
Love to hear from some of yall!!
Prepare for tribute fees, because that's what female feeders here are requiring...
2 years
My reminder is tight shirts and too small pants. Pre COVID all my clothes were fits. Not now 🙈 I can't wear my old shirts, they're way too small and I can't breathe while wearing them.
Also when i sit my newly belly roll gets pinched on the belt buckle. Never happened before.
2 years
SweetCaringBBW51:
I Never ask guys for food or money!!! I am not a gold digger and I don't use guys on here for anything! I am 100% Honest!! NOT like others on here!
Well put. A lot here asking for money before things got serious.
2 years
English feeder:
I would like to pass on my experience of being a FA and my relationship with my partner. My partner is older than me and the best way to describe her is she is a granny. When i met her she was probably around 300 + pounds and in her mid 30's. Big bellied, agile, she could also walk long distances. She would dance and party. Her weight was relatively stable maybe gaining a few pounds a year. She entered her 40's she still had good mobbilty but towards her late 40's she was starting to slow down, also developing a few aches and pains. She entered her 50:s then things started to change. Her knees were the 1st thing that started causing discomfort her hips were next then her lower back. She was probably 350 pounds. She stopped driving a manual transmission and went to automatic. The 1st sign of loss of mobility was she needed a crutch to walk. Which became 2 crutches. In her mid to late 50's standing or walking any distance was near impossible and she was registered disabled. She now had a mobility scooter to get about on when going out. She could no longer get up the stairs of the house, so a chair lift was installed. Also she could not stand to shower so a wet room was built where she can sit to shower. Into her 60's initially she kept enough mobility to keep her independence.
But that is when things started to change significantly. She was now around 400 pounds. Her legs became painful her hips hurt. Also lower back pain. She was 5 foot 5 and a half inches. Today she is a very different woman. The changing point was she had a fall. Fortunately nothing was broken. But it altered her physically and mentally. She was in hospital but came home a very different woman. She has lost about 3 inches in height her shoulders are rounded and she stands with a stoop. She finds using her mobility scooter uncomfortable and has just gone into her wheelchair. Which is used around the home and garden. Or trips out. When she does stand and needs to move she uses a walker. The fall a small moment in time has had a huge impact on her. She is now a very large elderly woman, with limited mobility. We have discussed mobility for many years. We both knew she would eventually become bed bound. Which we are currently planning for. But there are a few places and things she wants to do before becoming immobile. In short if anyone is on the larger side in my experience you cannot predict the outcome the only thing you can do is be aware of the risks associated with living large. As my lady recently put it ...
I can't complain,
I did it too myself.
I like being fat.
She is now looking forward to the next phase of her life.
Wow
2 years
Edxl:
Maybe you could try joking something like "With all this stuff you are baking for me you could really make me fat -- but I'm not doing it without you. Eat half of your own baking, kitchen-witch!" and goofily chase her with a muffin or whatever.
But that joking moment might just open up the conversation a bit more.
voluptuouslover:
Exactly this - But it does seem more like she is wanting to fatten you.
Tell her if she keeps baking like this she is going to have one Fat boyfriend.
Tell her you love her baking but pretty soon you might not be able to see you toes, while palming and patting and exaggerated bloated gut.
If she has feeder tendencies she should be dripping wet after you talk like this.
HHH that's correct. Enjoy while you can. Your gf is about to make you BIG
2 years
Well I still did not get to the point of really letting myself go, but I am not watching my weight so got a little plump. While living with family it's pretty hard to really let yourself eat and becoming fatter. Hope to find the right girl that will be a great cook and wouldn't be care about me gaining weight.
2 years
Potential feedees should be warned that it's involved a cost of some tribute fees of 100 $.
2 years
