How do you telecommute to Burger King?

No, it's not all scams and there's plenty of real users here. To be fair there's a real risk of scams, but that's kind of par for the course when it comes to any kind of Internet platform that involves communication between users.

We try to do our best to remove scammers, but sometimes it's not always immediately obvious and it can often be a case of he said/she said. Last thing we want to do are false positive bans/removals by mistake.

It does help if multiple users report a scammer we haven't seen before, to feel more certain and confident about it. That it's not just retaliation because of a grudge or disagreement.

If I can ever overcome my current plateau and difficulty in eating enough calories, I'd like to finally reach and exceed 200 lbs by the end of May.

It's been frustrating lately, though.

Can't say that I ever have. Though it's good in the sense that it's achievable, probably right now though if not, eventually and it shouldn't be too hard to work your way up to that point.

Occasionally I have fantasies about clearing an entire buffet table or traditional medieval "King's feast" or "Viking warrior feast" intended for dozens, even if that's an impossibility in real life.

Another fantasy that may be more realistic is to go to some sort of all-inclusive resort (with the drink package) for virtually unlimited food and as many drinks as I could ever have. Between the 3 full, heavy meals, near constant snacking, almost always having a drink in my hand, naps, lounging around, and partying at night combined with what would probably be north of 6K calories a day.. after maybe 2 weeks or so, I'd get to leave the vacation a good bit heavier than I was going in.

I suppose you can mix the two if you want. Not sure where the weight would go since Boost VHC is expensive enough it's a bit beyond my budget to use with any regularity.

I used to sometimes make drinks from 1 cup heavy cream, 1 cup/bottle Equate Plus (Wal-Mart knock off brand of Ensure Plus, found near the pharmacy) but so far, never managed to keep it up long enough. I'm sure I'd see more results if I kept at it.

Though so far, consensus seems to suggest dairy fat is more likely to go to your limbs rather than just your gut, but there's also often kind of a limit to how much dairy fat you might be able to have at once. You'd have to experiment, since results and tolerance appear to vary from person to person. Overdoing it might result in.. hopefully this isn't TMI but.. a lot of it passing through as #2.

However, I would definitely avoid heavy cream alongside something like pizza (the cheese), pasta if you have alfredo sauce, or if you were to eat the entire carton of ice cream in one go, or the entire 14 oz. container of Haagen-Daaz. Or have a much smaller amount, maybe 1/4 of a cup.

You may have better results if you mix it with carbs and/or protein, too. Should be able to eat some carbs like thick slices of bread, and then it might be able to soak up the cream.

But yeah, experiment a bit. If it's too hard to keep up consistently, that won't do. I know that's what I struggle with so I don't want you to struggle with that too.

How likely you are to find this nearby, likely depends a great deal on cultural norms.

I can tell you that here, most of the time when I see a fat woman in a couple, the man is also fat. Also that in size contrast couples, the man is nearly always the fat one.

Now that said, I have on occasion witnessed size contrast relationships where the woman is the fat one. That may also be more common in other countries and areas.

I don't know what's typical in the Czech Republic, but I'm sure some large women there will find that attractive. Whether most do is irrelevant, because well, no matter who you are, you aren't going to be attractive to most of the population. Just got to find one, and I'm pretty sure there's enough population there that some will go for it.

Building upon something someone else said.. I could be wrong but I get the impression the majority, maybe even the vast majority of women are less finicky on physical appearance and are more interested in who or what you are. That's the feeling I get. And no, it's not money either. By contrast, some women might joke about liking a Chippendale or whatever, but I've never met any woman who actually, ultimately wants that at the end of the day.

Also, this thread doesn't look like a Personals Ad, so I'm gonna move this to General.

Weight in '19 - Around 140 lbs maybe? Way, way too small, and I'd rather not get into how that happened.

Current is about 170ish. Trying not to slip below this.

Heaviest so far as been around 176.

Here's some nearer term goals/hopes, though I keep either plateauing, or experience set backs. So far it's been a challenge to eat the way I'd like to, as scheduling, obligations, sleep, and getting full too quickly seem to be holding me back. Hopefully soon I can get a job and scheduling situation that's more amenable to gaining more.

180+ by the end of this year.

200+ by summer. I've heard it's around 200-210 (and average height) when a substantial increase in appetite is experienced, though this likely depends on the person.

30"+ thighs - I don't know when this may happen, but I predict I'd have to exceed 200 lbs to do this. This would be the point where my thighs are as big around as my waist once was.

222+ afterwards. Sounds arbitrary, but 221 lbs is 100 kgs.

Hopefully by this point, the large size pan crust from Pizza Hut will be my personal size pizza, or at least can be.

After that, I may like to settle around 250 or even 300. Can't see going larger than that right now.


Optional, though a lovely fantasy would be that sometime in the future, I'll have a wife and when she gets pregnant, I gain a pound for every pound she gains because of the pregnancy.

If you're telling the truth, then I'm sorry to hear that because that's horrible. It was not my intent to belittle your situation, and I hope you can get out of somehow. You're absolutely right that I don't know your situation, or the circumstances that led to it. I was however, offering a perspective of what others may be thinking.

The broader point I was making is that trust is quite difficult to establish and it doesn't happen overnight, and I listed possible reasons why others may be slow to trust.

Some good responses so far.

There are, or used to be Kik groups of various sorts, of varying quality with most being quite toxic, or more dead than Disco. You need to have a very thick skin.

Whisper in general is a big mess, and your posts won't show up half the time because of overzealous spam filters, but there's a few groups on there. But again, Whisper is toxic and you need a very thick skin.


Probably dating myself somewhat, but..

I've looked around on various IRC (Internet Relay Chat) networks. Very little/almost none that refers to feederism, though on occasion I might see a channel that refers to BBW. One such Feederism web site used IRC for their chat, but that didn't last long and they moved to Discord, unfortunately.

Not an option anymore but I remember the old Yahoo groups. Never really used UseNet, but there were probably newsletter groups. But as a protocol, it's so niche now that I wouldn't recommend it.


I'm not just saying this because I'm staff on here, but so far I think FF has done the best job so far with a welcoming, accepting feederism community. That's in spite of various quirks, or that the chat is web based which isn't what I prefer. It's the only online community I've kept coming back to for nearly 16 years, and that's saying something.

For reference, the other post is here: fantasyfeeder.com/forum/posts

Maybe you have unreasonable expectations, or ask for too much? I can't be sure but I kind of have that impression.

I did see your other post, and wow, just wow. To be clear, you do have the right to state any preferences and non-negotiable requirements you want. But the longer or more stringent the requirements, the shorter the potential list is. You also have to consider that not everyone who does in fact fulfill the list of requirements and most preferences, will be interested. You also framed your requests in such a way that you'd spend virtually nothing, while the potential suitor has to spend a lot on something very risky.

I also think that maybe you're being impatient? You posted this, less than a day after you posted your other post. Even if there is someone who might be willing to do what you ask, what makes you think that someone will jump in right away?

As a man, I already know that I'm pretty sure I will not even remotely consider the mail order/long distance bride thing for a LOT of reasons, and these are reasons why someone who might consider it, may still be reluctant anyway.

- Catfish / scammers, a common problem with mail-order/overseas/across International borders. But we'll assume that doesn't apply to you.

- What expectation is there, that you'd even get along, much less actually enjoy each other's company?

You just can't be sure. For the same money as the plane ticket, I can go to the bar multiple times and talk to random women there. Even if they all turn out to be a bust, that's okay. I still got good drinks, live music, and talk about whatever silly thing with the regulars there.

- I must also emphasize, that online v. in-person interaction is very, very different. The cost to make an in-person interaction has been made far too high.

This is coming from someone who has been on the Internet for a very long time, and over the years, there are some individuals I first spoke to this way, that I might be willing to meet in person. However, this process took many years and was by no means guaranteed. Oftentimes, meeting someone in person is nothing like the online interaction.


Realistically, I'm unlikely to consider driving more than 2 hours one way, and I really want something within about an hour or so. Money, and especially time flexibility makes this a challenge. But even if I was compelled to travel so far, I'd make arrangements to travel there in person, with the expectation that she will do the same, including paying for whatever transportation arrangements she uses out of her own dime. Much in the same way that with someone local, I expect she'd regularly make the drive to my place, and do so on her own time and dime.

My advice is to either try to find someone local, or if you really do wish to leave El Salvador, to hold off on looking for a relationship until you do so. And, you're 21 years old.. you still have plenty of time.

Also, this post is not a Personals Ad, so I'm moving this to General.