palndrm:
This really is the most erotic way. I've used them a lot with a feedee and she fell in love with the the pure gluttony of it while also being able to control the flow. I used half&half to thin out the high cal mixture. She got off knowing just how much she was purposely ingesting. Plus, it's not messy, like a funnel/tube.

MissPorker:
Lately, a kinky friend of mine has taken an interest in cementing my transition into a pig and forcing a slobby lifestyle on me. So far, she's made me wear sweatpants more often, shower less, use less deodorant and drink more beer. Is anyone else into being a total slob? What types of things do you do to feel more like a pig?

MissPorker:
Lately, a kinky friend of mine has taken an interest in cementing my transition into a pig and forcing a slobby lifestyle on me. So far, she's made me wear sweatpants more often, shower less, use less deodorant and drink more beer. Is anyone else into being a total slob? What types of things do you do to feel more like a pig?

alelectromigration:
Perhaps it's stating the obvious, but let's not neglect that fat itself is pretty much the ultimate BDSM gear. It's a restraint not so easily cast off, and a talented feeder can surround it with so many lifestyle changes, as to make it permanent.

A lot of "gear" can be simple things that highlight or portend the fat e.g.:
- tight clothes for humiliation
- bigger clothes, padding, and photo morphs for a feedee to internalize their future self
- super stuffings with the intent of creating stretchmarks to claim a feedee
- measuring tape marked with dates, goals, rewards, and/or punishments
- not being allowed to leave the dinner table until the scale hits a certain weight
- turning a fitbit against an overly active feedee
- special rewards for hitting particular levels on a new video game or making it through a show season on Netflix to encourage more fat-friendly hobbies
- fat associated Halloween costumes like Aladdin, a pumpkin, Humpty Dumpty, or a fat maid

paunchbunny:
I'm super into both feederism and almost anything BDSM, is there any good places to find gear that has references to feederism stuff?

TheWhipHand:
After punishments - or, when I want him to - I like the little butterball to eat something huge (generally a cake, as it's easy to consume) on his hands and knees at my feet. Sometimes he raises his head and shoulders, so I've attached a strap to his collar that keeps him from getting up.
In other words, it's best to repurpose things and change them. Leashes and collars are good to remind the Feedee of what their task is. You just have to get creative.

ForceFeedMeFatter:
The idea of a woman taking away the choice from me is really hot but then it's also scary.

TheWhipHand:
It can be freeing, though, as well. For a while my little butterball was so stressed out about losing control, but he realized he was more anxious making decisions and holding onto his weight. Once he started to fatten he became so content and at ease with himself. As long as you find someone whom you can trust, it will make you so happy to give up that anxiety you're holding onto.

Captain Cake:
Has anyone on here ever experienced being too fat to have penetrative sex with a partner, or their partner being too fat for it?

I'm curious as to whether it can happen and what that's actually like, as it's recently kind of been a curiosity/possible goal of mine. Something about reaching such a size that it just isn't possible is just exciting and something I'd love to experience.

Just interested to hear about other people's experiences!

alelectromigration:
What kind of feeder do you prefer?

1. Slow and sensuous -- softly, patiently conditioning you to savor each bite, taste the flavors, and relish in the sweetness. There's fancy dinners and tempting desserts. Everything tastes so good. The process is so subtle -- just a few extra irresistible bites here and there, a little snack before bedtime. They're a feeder alright and your growing waistline is proving it. But you wouldn't have even realized what was happening if they didn't warn you that you'd be getting fat if you date them. Gradually, quietly, but relentlessly, your body grows month after month after month of their influence.

2. Rapid and efficient -- funnels and stuffing at a whirlwind pace. You're constantly stuffed to the brim -- your feeder ensures there's never a spare moment when one more gram of fat could possibly be forced into you. You can't believe how fast you're blowing up. Weight is piling on. Pounds of new fat are spilling over your waist. Stretch marks seem to be appearing everyday and everywhere -- thoroughly and permanently marking you as a feedee. You seem to look a different every week. Friends' jaws drop after seeing you just a month ago with that WTF look in their eyes. "Oh my goodness, what's happening to me?", your mind and body exclaim as you sit back and submit to yet another stuffing.