Poet2:
I’ve been with my gf for around 4 years. When we met she was around 5’4” and 140 lbs. I recall her saying at that time “Can you believe that I was 180lbs?” I think that she was subconsciously telling me that I was meeting the thin version of her.
That is completely sexy to think about, she was trying to let you know it may not be long till she is back at 180lbs. or heavier.
She started to gain weight a few weeks after we met.
Thus why she told you because she knew she would be packing th lbs. right back on line a good fatty does.
Having had gained weight in the past myself. I’ve done a body recomposition since but at one time it was all in my belly. It took a long time to get rid of the belly because I wasn’t actively trying to. I warned her to take care of it now or it’s going to become hard much later.
Do you want her to get fatter or were you trying to tell her in advance she may become really fat at the rate she is going?
I mention this because there’s a cognitive dissonance there. On the one hand she wants to be skinny and on the other hand she’s not actively trying to lose weight.
She is a good gaining girlfriend, that is a big + in my book.
If ça i had to guess I think that she’s probably around 190 lbs now. I think that she looks better and I’ve told told her so but I support her either way.
Im 5’ 9” and 185 lbs up from 174 lbs at the end of last year. We’re moving in together in a few months and I notice that she’s been ordering out Pizza a lot more then we have in the past and orders one for me. She’s also been cooking for me a lot more. The other day I mentioned on purpose that I’m at my heaviest. I don’t have a gut and if I had to put a label on it I’m chunky.
The reason why I post this is because she didn’t like that her ex husband was over weight. I feel conflicted because I feel better when I’m heavier. I feel more grounded like I like having a larger behind, legs, arms etc. feel less tired, I enjoy my gf’s cooking but I recall the comments years ago when I had a belly. Some people and not all commented that I put on weight or that I was fat. I’m posting this for advice on how you deal with similar comments.
I wouldn’t put much weight (pun intended) on the fact she mentioned her ex was overweight and she didn’t like it. Most ex’s are not liked for one reason or another and usually more stuff gets piled on when they are an ex. My wife alluded to the same thing but as we had been married for many years and I grew the biggest gut she seemed to be not only turned on by how big I got but seemed to want to fe me even bigger. Not to mention she couldn’t stop making love to me all the time. Make sure your Gf feels like she is the one that is feeding you Fat and she will love it. Not to mention if she will feel much more secure with you having a big ole gut if she is getting fatter and fatter at the same time. Believe me, I would have never thought my wife would have desired me more with a 55” belly sticking out in front of me then when she met me with ripped abs….but she certainly wanted and initiated sex all the time when I developed my huge gut.
4 years
issabelly:
Yeah, as someone who has gained a noticeable amount of weight over the past few years, I've encountered some of the same behavior. If anything it seems like since I'm bigger men are more willing to show interest and hit on me, but I think part of that is the assumption that I might have lower self esteem and reciprocate their interest. I'm not complaining, because in many ways I like my life better since I gained, but it is harder to find a partner who seems like they are more interested in a serious relationship. I definitely think there's a sort of paradox between men finding curvier women to be sexually attractive and those same men having been conditioned to what they're told to think is attractive.
This is well said! When my wife gained to her highest weight at the time a couple years after having our three babies. She seemed to get hit on way more than ever before. For reference she is 5’ 3” and was just over 200 lbs. at the time. But it seemed everywhere we would go if I left her alone for a minute: at the mall when she was just leaving a store a guy would try and talk to her, or even a new UPS deliverer would stay and try talking to her after handing her a package etc etc. I witnessed this and totally understood but I didn’t think she noticed until she commented to me one day that there must be a lot of guys like me out there because since she has become so fat, guys continually chat her up and hit on her all the time now…..she them said “I guess I look really hot as a fatty”.
4 years
Difficult, but try heavy cream to all her dishes. It should accumulate more soft fat in her butt, thighs, hips & lower belly. Don’t be surprised if her breast grow a lot also.
4 years
I have a feeling she may get into it more than you think. Women are genuinely kind of like this…..my wife has always had a slight weight problem in her eyes, but the funny thing is how she talks about her friends to me after they have gained a bunch of weight. Obviously I like it but it is kind of funny, women like to see weight gain and talk about it unless it is on them most times.
It might not be to long before she is stuffing you, admiring your gaining and teasing you with how fat you are getting. I also wouldn’t be surprised how it ramps up your sex life.
4 years
windfarm27:
Honestly I have had similar experiences with my partner. She doesn't want to gain for me but if I don't bring it up or bring attention to it and just quietly buy more snacks and food she tends to gain.
This is exactly the way my wife is. When things really excel rates with her gain was when I accidentally put on a big gut as well from eating along with her. Women love company. We become eating buddies with huge appetites and she never complained a bit about becoming the fattest she had ever been while I was fattening up right along side her.
4 years
So, I am currently intentionally gaining again….stuffing my self at breakfast and lunch followed by trying to get down all the dinner my wife serves me.
Today for lunch I picked up a nice fattening Italian pizza with extra cheese and pepperoni and a large soda. I went and parked back in the parking lot which had a nice elevation looking over the road below me. As I am stuffing the biggest gut I have ever had I noticed a truck pull a few spots down with a Fat guy as he parked and turned off his vehicle I saw him start chowing down on some sort of fast food from his bag. All I could do is think about how much food he was stuffing down himself. Another fifteen minutes go by and I notice him still pulling from his bag and eating after the two burgers I believe I saw him already eat. All of a sudden an SUV pulls in right next to me hindering my vision of the guy in his truck. The SUV that parked right next to me had a huge guy, big arms on the steering wheel with huge fat fingers, huge double chin Fat face ….and as I looked closer a massive belly sitting out in front of him pushed against the steering wheel. He then started pulling food out of his bag. I started thinking how much this guy is going to eat for lunch.
I started thinking about so many things as I finished my last piece of my extremely filling Italian style pizza. Do these Fat guys or husbands get huge fattening fast food lunches in them while they are away from their wives? Are their wives shocked that their husbands keep there huge guts even though they serve them healthy small meals for dinner? Or, maybe after quarantine some of these guys just went hog wild and can’t stop now…..and are using the quarantine as an excuse for there extra 50+ lbs. they potentially gained and can’t co trip their appetite anymore. Then I started thinking as I struggled to get through the fattening pizza I just had and how I had to push and push to finish it and in another week ir two I may be plowing through this pizza and finishing off with desert and several milkshakes and still not be full. Holy shit I see 300 lbs. coming and zooming past in no time as I sit her with my bloated gut still quite a distance from my steering wheel but soon my wife will be looking at me and scared how she will make me feel bough food to keep this huge gut husband of her satisfied.🤭
4 years
Start out with a pint a day along with a sugary snack. Do it for 4-5 days per week with 2-3 days off and then start again the following week. Try it for 2 weeks and rest without for a week. Then start again for the same time period. If by the end of the month you don't see a lot of difference of fat on your body or on the scale....you can try moving up to a quart. Obviously I accounted for the delayed fattening....but I am pretty sure a month at this amount of intake will have you gain faster than pretty much anything else you have ever tried. Don't shy away from eating plenty of other calories....this should be on top of you regular big eating. Best of luck and let us know the progress.
4 years
After weighing myself a few days ago I have been on a rampage eating close to 7,000 calories the last two days and today by lunch I have already had 4700 calories. It is tough stretching out that belly again by stuffing but once it is there it is easy to pile on the lbs. again.
4 years
I have been eating good for the past month or so and noticed my shirts have been feeling a bit more snug around the gut, more than usual anyway. Hopped on a scale and realized I have gained somewhere in the neighborhood of 18 lbs. I have now hit my all time high. I am wondering if I should go for 300 Lbs. this time and see what kind of a shock or excitement it puts on my wives face?
4 years
Possibly some delayed gaining will be going with her. If she has been eating a bunch and not noticed a gain….it is a good thing because she probably just will keep eating the same or more….and these delayed gains have a way of just all of a sudden showing up. I feel that sweet spot is about 2 weeks. By this time she may not only have increased her appetite and capacity but she will keep eating more out of control….best of luck keep us updated if you see this happened.
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