WLS is very bad, and I have known so many people who have died from it. I never discourage my wife from dieting, but I would do everything in my power to talk her out of WLS. Also remember that WLS people regain the weight, so stopping someone from having WLS does not make them any smaller.
6 years
Watch your sugar intake, take your medicine.
6 years
A lot of time, these people just want to brag about losing weight. Anytime someone mentions that they lost weight, I reply with "I'm sorry to hear it." or "I hope you find it."
6 years
You can't tell her how to run her life, nor can you change her preferences, if she would rather be thin. All you can do is be honest and mention that you prefer larger women. You might lose her, but at least you're being honest with her. She can either pass on the relationship with you. Try to work things out, or choose to be less active.
6 years
Yes. once you start, it's next to impossible to stop.
6 years
Ciara with the Curves:
When you drop your pen at work and when you bend over to get it, the hooks on your bra clasp break! (Happened a couple months ago.)
That's quite an event for someone 38G
6 years
2cute2b4gotten:
I like the feel of my fat, and I like to eat. I struggle with how I look though, and find that the people I am attracted to do not find me attractive. Therefore I fear judgement. If it was a perfect world, I would just not care and eat what I want and revel in my weight. I have been hovering for a few years in an uncomfortable place between caring and not caring how I look. This is my take on being hesitant. I hope it makes sense.
Well, you can't please everyone, so you may as well please yourself. You'll meet people who are negative about your size, but you'll also meet some that like you for you, and some that like you for your growing figure.
6 years
For many gainers, they enjoy remarks from family and friends, because it shows that they have been successful in gaining weight.
6 years
You can't predict. My wife is not a feedee. She is average height and has never been close to 300 pounds. Recently, her knees and hip has given out and she is very immobile. Age has a lot to do with things. You may not have a problem being young and very fat, but add age to the equation, and you may become immobile.
6 years
As others have suggested, use a unique name. For example, my name is not John. I use it for privacy.
6 years
