Hedonistic_Purity:
I've definitely come to find enabling more of a turn on. It's almost a type of force feeding in its own right, because even a very hopeless pig of a person would likely stop or slowdown when left to their own devices. Either fear, pain, laziness in getting ones own food, or the minor activity involved in talking care of oneself will keep most from falling off that left.

But if you're an enabling feeder, then at some point you've actively taken control while convincing your poor lover it's their own fault. At some point you insisted that your partner eat more food even though they wanted to stop, and they kept going just for you. Now they can't stop themselves as long as you put more food out, even if you insist they should diet.

At some point you began jumping to do every menial task for them that they could easily go themselves. At first they felt awkward because of a natural sense of Independence, but then they convince themselves they are doing you a favor by letting you feel like your being a caring partner. Now without realizing it they are useless and helpless without your care.

Now as long as you enable your love by leaving out more food, no matter how much it hurts, how much they want to stop, even while you tell them they should because it's killing them, they are physically and mentally incapable of controlling themselves. Even while they beg you to stop supplying good, you won't have to force or even insist on a single bite.

GrowingConcern:
All of this is so dark and dangerous. But so desirable somehow? It is crazy but all so addictive. And reading your description makes me even weaker.

MissLucie:
I have one to share. It may not get much credibility as this is my new account (I deleted my previous one, Lucia, because I got a job and didn't want anyone such as Google image search picking up on the pictures posted there)

Either way -- the reason I'm back is also at the same time my darkest fantasy. Back when I was looking for "something new" I started to experiment with dominance/sadism/massochism, and it didn't take me long to develop very new and very strong urges in that field.

One man with whom I had been talking on FantasyFeeder at the time has witnessed the whole thing from afar; and I made him part of my fantasy by encouraging him to give in to his wife's desire to feed him.

Except I didn't just want him to get fat-- I wanted him to go too far, to a point where both him and his wife would regret the weightgain yet he'd be completely stuck with it.

About five years later, he could barely walk and his wife hadn't paid any attention to him in ages as he'd grown repulsive to her; so he asked me what new and exciting things were to come for him. I told him his journey was complete-- that he'd soon get bored with no way back, and when that happened he would hate me for talking him into it.

This too happened. Or at least ... *allegedly*. For I have never seen a single picture of this man throughout the years. Perhaps he gained weight, perhaps he was a bag of bones getting his kicks from the fantasy.

My deepest fantasy, however ... is that it really happened. That somewhere on this earth there is a man who curses the name of Lucia-- the woman who urged him to gain weight for no other reason than to experience the kick of making someone ruin himself for her so thoroughly he'd end up hating her for it.

Soon after I deleted my account, so did his' disappear ... the question remains: did it really happen, or not? This, my friends, is my darkest fantasy.

rUfatyet2:
This was soooo hot.

Plumpy1:
Here is one of my favourites
As punishment for being a naughty glutton I�m taken away for a demonic feast.
I�m force fed all sorts of fattening foods and wine over days and weeks until I�m huge! On the day of the feast I�m lain on my back on a large platter, arms tied behind my head, ankles tied and legs spread to my side.
Then I�m stuffed to the point of bursting my stomach super tight it�s large dome making it hard to breathe. Then while attendants rub me all over, especially my bloated gut and breasts, with oils, I�m being stuffed in other areas.
The standard apple in my mouth, but my womanhood is stuffed with the biggest cucumbers and even my ass is stuffed to the brim with grapes.
Now I�m ready and complete stuffed to the brim I�m taken to the table, which I hear creaking under my mass.
I prey for a demon to quickly eat me and end it, only to discover I�m just for show! All night I�m played with, poked and prodded, and teased. The court seem happy but demand that I be much bigger for the next event!

Sorry that kinda got very long!

burgerqween:
What would they black mail you with?

What if they forced you to gain or tell everyone you know about your fetish?

SpookyD:
Disclaimer: I am not a nice person. I manipulate piggies who voluntarily overeat and grow. Consent is necessary IRL, but ruins the fantasy.

Its surprisingly easy to make a glutton overeat by encouraging them in a platonic way, like they should eat more if they're still hungry, or saying "here try this" while I cook and spoon feeding them something fattening. Rewarding a piggy with attention every time they put on weight tends to get them attached to the attention long term. My favorite is when they get greedy enough that they don't notice the food in the corner of their lips that drips onto her shirt. That's when the glutton finally has enough bad habits that she gains recklessly.

But I would be cruel in a fantasy scenario. Personally feeding them while saying mean things like "There's no reason to stop now, you're already past the point of no return" or telling them they're worthless and their only purpose is to eat. I would lean my elbow onto her belly like a table while feeding her. Or sit on their lap so I can feel their belly swell as they eat. I would move on to straddling their belly while feeding them so I could feel their round gut rise with every bite, but I don't think any woman's belly can take that much pressure.

I've got a few darker ones than that but I'm afraid to post those publicly for fear of scaring away a potential sub.

jboabfe:
Really wasn't interested in gaining myself, but as time progresses, I'm getting more and more turned on to it.

otherland78:
Well i can`t really relate so much to the part of someone rella! Likrs to eat me if i am fat enough but if you knew this before in some teasing and roleplay kind of way being told if you reach a certain weight outgrow some special clothes or just got a belly to fat to do cerzain things or got to chubby do reach certain tight spaces or you got defeated by your gf in some fun wrestle she will eat you that could be a hot play if she tries to fatten you up while you can t resist her and know there is a certain threat ahead if you maybe let your little feeding frenzies out of hand and your gf is using all you desires against you to push you over that special line of chubbiness....

otherland78:
Mhm i would love a vety sweet and smart srductive girl to make a gamme between teasing fattening and comparisions with her fitness while she secretely uses every trick to get me addicted to her seductions and combinations of food and reward even making me hornier by gaining a few of her own maybe ...

She would lure me into thinking even my strong willed girl is letting go only to bring me to the point i am so addicted to her sex and food games that she can easily tell me to slim down with her together in our gym room only to lure me into a competition i join cause of my manly arrogance about beeing always stronger and fitter than a girl......

Secretly monitoring my efforts of slimming down in our gym she likes to show me then by coming down with food and her seductive sexy clothes to show me again and again how easy she can control me by making me gain even when trying to keep fit enough to not be overpowered by her in our sport competition we have on the side of all the stuffings and normal sweet lovelife with so much food and sex lately ^^.

Oh i would love little bets or kinky games on the side where she knows that i cat win them with the added 10lbs of last week where we had all those dinners and sexy lingerie games i can t remember anymore with all the alcohol she was giving me and asking me things about whatever knowing so well how honest i am beeing drunk..

Using all this knowledge later on to make me horny and tease me more effective about my softer exjock shape only to sweetly seduce me into our next rough sex adventure after i ate those ten donuts with milkshake that is while she is stripping down out of those really tight underwear ....

Hmmm..can anyone relate to such a fantasy if you understood my grammat ....

Pig farmer:
There's no vore as such in Hansel and Gretel but the tale appeals to some of us on this site because of the fattening and the witch's intentions. Her taunting is also arousing.


giantjay:
Part of the appeal of Hansel & Gretel (which I adore) is that, although they've managed to trick the witch by making her think he's not fattened up, in reality he is still unable to resist, loses control as it were, and does in fact grow fat. Something about the inevitability and unavoidability of it is so enticing.

GrowingLoveHandles:
I really agree with this, giantjay! It's that he can't stop himself (and obviously Gretel can't stop feeding him either -- or giving in to his desires)....

closetfeeder8:
God, yes. All of this. ^^^ I'd be that witch 24/7 If it were possible.

Ghouliette:
I love the idea of playfully teasing a feedee about eating them, or some food play (Apple in the mouth, tied up, that kind of thing.)

Another thing that really gets me is the idea of a feeder having perfectly innocent intentions, but the feedee/friend of feedee suspects the feeder of fattening them for a meal.

closetfeeder8:
^^^THIS^^^