AskDrFeeder:
One of the downsides of getting fat is the social stigma.
I've always thought the best way to deal with that is to make fat friends, and possibly to dump thin friends.
Has anyone done this?
Has it helped?
Is it easier to make fat friends than thin ones?
BigBallBellyGirl:
Ehhh, I've always been fat, and I was outgoing in school, so I seemed to find my crew pretty easily. I also had friends among the thin popular group. I think because I was so unabashedly myself, I wasn't too much of a target for teasing. It's hard to tease someone who either doesn't care or enjoys it
As an adult, I'm by far the fattest of our social group. One friend was probably 160-175 and got into fitness. She is now super lean. Another blew up when he got a desk job and now sports a big pot belly. They're still the same people they've always been though, and my weight doesn't really come up unless we are going somewhere as a group, and they want to make sure I would be okay in the physical setting.
Sounds like you are lucky to have such great and loyal friends!
2 years
Personally, having just ONE is good enough in my experience/opinion. š
2 years
JN_TumLover56:
So this might be sounding like a weird question. But let me see if I can explain more clearly:
Now I am still very much into women especially when it comes towards the belly stuff with Feederism as a side effect. However I have had moments where Iāve seen a chunkier guy who does have some flair. Or sometimes I see bellies from men where Iām like āMhm! Nice!ā.
Though at this rate it seems like everyone is fair game. Especially when weāre talking about the queer side of things. And who knows, maybe Iām actually bi-curious but havenāt confirmed it. š
So yeah hopefully people can understand what I am trying to say and look forward to hearing from what others would say!
FAMGM:
Iām attracted to fat - whether itās on male, female, or some other gender.
Having said that, Iām aware of some slight differences in how that attraction works.
When I look at a fat male body, thereās a high degree of imagined ātransferenceā - I imagine myself in their body, experiencing what it would be like to carry their fat.
When I look at a fat female body, ātransferenceā is very limited, and Iām more attracted to interacting with their fat externally from experiencing *being* them.
Ahh very interesting way to think about that. But I can see where you are coming from! š
2 years
For me itās the subtle stuff. Like when they stretch out to a point where their belly button shows. Or if they even walk around with their belly button showing. That would be something that would me me going sometimes.
2 years
Well perhaps not the most random of strangers has asked me. But there was one person I went on a date with someone who did offered me to touch their stomach. Which is a first from my experience. š
But they knew about the fact that I liked bellies before the date and they seemed to like that. So I guess thatās always a great start!
2 years
My favourite position is pretty much being on the bottom. I like a nice view of oneās belly, especially when they play with it and I get to watch!
Iām normally open to trying out others, but being the the bottom is what I seem to enjoy the most. š
2 years
ContrastKing:
For sure. I'm straight but I appreciate a good gut on a fat guy as much as I do on a fat woman.
Yeah thatās what I think about it as well. š
2 years
Bigdoug:
Absolutely! I appreciate Male fat in a non-sexual way. I admire and an impressed by my fellow fat men!
Good stuff!
2 years
How about stuff like practice boxing or maybe even swimming? Nothing thatās too overly crazy in my opinion.
2 years
So this might be sounding like a weird question. But let me see if I can explain more clearly:
Now I am still very much into women especially when it comes towards the belly stuff with Feederism as a side effect. However I have had moments where Iāve seen a chunkier guy who does have some flair. Or sometimes I see bellies from men where Iām like āMhm! Nice!ā.
Though at this rate it seems like everyone is fair game. Especially when weāre talking about the queer side of things. And who knows, maybe Iām actually bi-curious but havenāt confirmed it. š
So yeah hopefully people can understand what I am trying to say and look forward to hearing from what others would say!
2 years
