I can imagine. Even though I am strictly an FA and feeder, I still get messages from male feeders and encouragers trying to convince me to eat for them.

Let's just say I have no idea how feedees and gainers haven't completely gone insane.

Hey, man. You gotta do what's best for you. If you think that taking a break from gaining is best for you, then you hardly need our blessing to do it.

And yeah. It's really hard to find decent feeders. A lot of them feel entitled to people's bodies.

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This is your friendly reminder that you can only asorb so much nutrition at once. You will poop out the rest.

The amount of calories you can consume at once varies, but 1K is the average amount. However, the more fat in your diet, the less you can absorb.

If you want to try drinking more, feel free. However, I highly recommend taking breaks. It's not healthy to have your blood trygliceride levels elevated for too long.

Also, consider cooking or baking with the cream instead of drinking it. It will add a nice calorie boost to your foods, make things taste richer, and you won't go through the cream as fast.

After all, if you use dairy products to gain weight, they work best in tangent with other foods.

Nah, this is something different.

Subs submit because it gives them pleasure. OP wants to be used because he feels like that's all he's worth. That's not a power dynamic kink. That's self-loathing.

I'm just saying.

I feel a little bad for people who need to have body contrast. Life is weird and full of surprises. I've seen feeders unravel because they start to get squishy or lose their minds when their squishy partners lose their squish.

I remember a while ago - possibly before your time - a user had a long-time feedee. I think they were married, too. One day, she expressed a desire to maintain before eventually deciding she wanted to lose weight.

This culminated in a very public, very severe emotional breakdown. Watching was extremely painful, and there was nothing anyone could do to help. He eventually left the site.

I've also run into many feeders that spiral down a whole body dismorphia slide of despair when they start to become chunky. I've seen budding eating disorders, pushing their partners to gain weight past said partner's comfort, general hostility and more.

All I'm saying is be careful.

What would you do if you got chunky too?

You're missing the point. Stores like the ones you are brought up are so fatphobic that they will label you as too fat for their clothes without you even being fat. So, they cannot be a reliable benchmark for anything.

If you are going to talk about places like H&M and Forever 21, I wouldn't use them as a benchmark for BBW-dom. I'm a thick and curvy woman. I rock a size 12, and I have DD cups. I am too small to wear plus-sized clothing.

Yet I avoid those stores because I know the clothes will be too tight in all the worst places. My thighs are thick, my hips are wide, and I am one flex away from shredding some of those sleeves.

I don't think anyone would categorize me as a BBW.

What stores are you shopping at?

American clothing sizes at the mall are quite diverse these days.

Ignoring stores that specifically cater to plus-sized women like Torrid, you can find clothes for the size 18+ crowd. JCPenny, Belk, Kohl's, and Dillard's have clothes up to size 24. Places like Torrid have up to size 6X.