I have no hard data, but it seems to me that feedees these days are less hesitant about gaining than in the past. As soon they have the opportunity they start gaining and don't look back.
Anyone else notice this? Or disagree with it?
4 years
I recently chatted with a woman who is starting to gain...she says the frustrating part is she gets really into eating, but then gets too full to eat any more and has to stop and impatiently wait until she's hungry again the next day.
I predicted this'll be less of a problem when she gains more--her appetite will return faster.
Has anyone felt this frustration and noticed it lessening as they've gained? Details please!
4 years
BBWcreator82:
There is no reason to "Make it more popular"
It's been tried before and it didn't do anyone any favors.
If you want to tell others what you're into, fine, do that. Don't force everyone into the spotlight, especially if we don't want to be there.
I'm of two minds on this one.
Certainly it's no one else's business if you practice feedism and if it were more mainstream it might be harder to keep it in the closet; but at the same time it might be easier to find a feedist partner.
4 years
Have you gained less than you want to for fear of getting too fat? Or for fear of the risks associated with getting as fat as you'd like?
If you could get obesity insurance, that would help you financially if your gain caused problems, would you buy it?
If you did buy it, do you think you'd get fatter than you expect to now?
4 years
JoacoBusse:
I really want to find my feedee, but barely anyone know about feederism, what can we do?
If more of us came out of the closet (I can't myself, and won't judge anyone if they don't) it might help. You could just go on a regular dating service, label yourself as a feeder and ask people out. They would doubtless ask about the feederism thing and you could explain it. If enough of us did that it would certainly educate the public.
4 years
Mariomario:
Maybe a reality tv show?
The participants in reality shows usually end up being made to look bad. Could be fun for us feedists to watch, but I don't think it would help the cause!
Best thing would be a TV show where there was a feedist subplot. Maybe one character gains over a series of episodes and then there's an episode where it comes out that she's a feedee. And there would be some drama about that but eventually everyone accepts it and moves on.
This was sort of done on the Drew Carey show but the feedee character couldn't handle it and left Drew because he was too accepting of her weight gain! Ultimately it was not quite the message we'd prefer.
4 years
AskDrFeeder:
Perhaps feedism needs its own Caitlyn Jenner. An openly feedist famous person or couple. Ana Faris and Chris Pratt came close but not quite.
eatingtherich:
Have you asked trans people what we think of Caitlyn Jenner cause ***.
Arame:
Thank you!! I swear I about to say that cause I have plenty of trans friends who despise her. And with good reason
Like her or not, I think she made being trans a bit more mainstream.
4 years
Perhaps feedism needs its own Caitlyn Jenner. An openly feedist famous person or couple. Ana Faris and Chris Pratt came close but not quite.
4 years
Many fear gaining weight because of possible social consequences. If you've experienced such fear, what are you worried about exactly?
1. your appearance
2. that people will think you're a glutton
3. that people will think you're weak and undisciplined
4. that you'll have trouble finding/maintaining a relationship
5. other
6. some combination of the above.
Details welcome.
4 years
Site is back up! Go figure.
4 years
