Need to gain big on a small budget.

Two words:

Little Debbie.

A few more words:

Half-price day-old baked goods.

Of course, you can always "punish" her for not reaching her goals. And that can be fun fantasy as well.

He is one lucky guy -- and you are one lucky gal!

Surely, you can see how unrealistic that wedding day goal is. I think you both should enjoy the fantasy of all this because I don't think you have seriously considered all this.

In the meantime, enjoy feeding her and watching her bloom into a huge beauty!

Best to you both.

Looking through the responses here from the last 7 years or so, anyone can see what a strong fantasy this is for many of us.

It will take a long time to get to that goal, but just be patient. If you check into this, you can find that the most remarkable long-term gains are generally no more than 3-4 pounds a month. Don't let that discourage you. You are young. Time is on your side. And you sound serious about this, so just take it one bite at a time.

Since you don't have a feeder yet, I would suggest you do something a bit naughty:

Do everything you can to combine weight gain with sensuality and sexual desires. Do this, and you can't go wrong. The more eating and gaining arouses you, the more you will eat and gain. It's that simple.

If that also means reading erotic weight gain stories and viewing feederism/weight gain pics and videos, do it. It will help you feel happier as a side effect.

Also, don't go for quick fixes like weight-gain powders or appetite stimulants. These may work in the short term, but what you want to do is just tuck in to some nice fattening comfort food.

Keep your belly filled and stretched to the maximum. The bigger you stretch it, the more you will eat.

Best of luck to you.

If this is a problem for you, you need to let him know. There are those who enjoy an aggressive feedee who demands to be fed. If you are of that mind, let him know, so he can please you.

Almost everyone gains in their belly first -- or at least that's the perception. It may be because of our clothes that we feel this way or that a belly is the truest way to see one's weight gain.

It takes a lot of weight to get a belly to drop. From your comments, I think you are in this for the long term. Don't worry. It will happen probably when you least expect it.

In the meantime, just enjoy eating.

Life just keeps getting better and better when this happens.

Think how wonderful all that insulation is going to be this winter.

In the winter, you can help keep your honey warm with that big beautiful hot bod.

During the summer, perhaps your lover can benefit from the shade you provide on a hot sunny day?