this interview that was conducted with a gainer for a mainstream publication:
metro.co.uk/2020/08/12/meet-gainer-bull-500lb-13117251/- How go you feel when people from the community go mainstream with feederism?
- My personal opinion is that they do more harm than good by oversensualising the subject, and realistically, even if the world started to become more accepting of fat and fat people, it would always be harsher on people who try get fat on purpose, portraying it like some sort of extreme mental manipulation. That's why I prefer for kinks to stay within kink communities.
5 years
So, I've been browsing some feederism Porn (quarantine life) and I've noticed something... there is a very noticeable lack of male feedees in the industry, and the ones who exist usually are fake feedees and almost all of them cater to gay audience!
I understand that Porn in general targets men over women (doesn't mean I agree it should be that way) .. but how about straight make feedees, how do they get off?
5 years
wanttobefat600:
I've never been typically attracted to men, however, I find myself taking interest recently in obese men. I would never want a serious relationship witb a man, however I have been recently considering sex with obese guys and find their bellies cute in their own special way from a cute female belly
Well your profile says that you're very much into being as big as possible, so maybe you're projecting, you're turned on because you want to be them, not because you want to be with them ... some straight identifying guys are even turned on by the idea of being fed and fattened up by other male feeders fat or thin, I suppose they just love the dynamics of that relationship no matter who's on the other end of it.
But sexuality is fluid and is changing all the time, I encourage you to try new things as long as you feel comfortable and safe.
5 years
thiccbell:
This is a good topic as I hate sex as a concept and find the act horrid and I can't understand people who are turned on by intercourse during porn.
But I do feel that tingle when I see a big belly instead but nothing about it makes me say "I want to go to bed with them". I just don't want to do it. I would rather feed or be fed than having any sort of sexual activity.
Interesting, you don't even like to be touched or have your fat being appreciated? (sorry if I sounded too ignorant, I'm just trying to understand intimacy from the point of asexual people, if that how you like to identify yourself)
5 years
so for those who think their fat affects their perception of their own gender, does it also affect your sexual orientation ?
5 years
I'd love to fatten up a guy as big as he wants as long as he's not immobile, it might be hot in fantasy but in real life it's not!
A) I'd feel so guilty about it
care taking 24/7 is hard and not realistic
5 years
on one hand sexuality exists on a scale and it's a spectrum, and not all sex has to do with genitals and yada yada... on the other hand your "attraction" to fat men, seems to me more like a projection! I'm completely gay and sometimes I find myself watching female feedee porn!
also seems to that many straight feedees like the Idea of having a same sex friend to gain with and or contrast with and they don't seem to mind even some form of body contact or even feeding sessions, I think they are more attracted to the dynamic of a feeder/feedee relationship rather than the gender of the person!
5 years
more and more people postpone their gaining until they are older now, which makes sense to me (children moving out, more financial stability, slower metabolism, nobody is expecting you to run a marathon at a certain age) ... if it is something that you always wondered about, I'd say go for it, better now then when you're dead!
5 years
as a gay feeder, I encourage you to experiment, a lot of guys would be happy to show you the ropes, even if you weren't into something physical passed the occasional feeding, you just have to tell them the limits of contact that you're comfortable with, and maybe with time you'd feel more comfortable with the idea of being fattened by a guy or not! but you should at least give it a try!
5 years
as a gay feeder, I encourage you to experiment, a lot of guys would be happy to show you the ropes, even if you weren't into something physical passed the occasional feeding, you just have to tell them the limits of contact that you're comfortable with, and maybe with time you'd feel more comfortable with the idea of being fattened by a guy or not! but you should at least give it a try!
5 years
