Me and my fiancée are in a criss crossed situation. She has gotten fat and wants to lose but she knows I do like her gaining. I haven't gained as much as her but I want to be fatter and she isn't a fan of me getting too fat.

It's tough exactly on how this will play out over time. She isn't telling me to start losing weight yet, but she told me she doesn't want me to to have a big belly. She seems to be worrying more about her weight mostly though currently. So I'm concerned if or when she loses the weight that she will start expecting me to go back to being skinny like her.

I care about her happiness so I am supportive about her weight loss, but for me I am happier getting bigger. I will probably gain another 30lbs and see if it bothers her. If not I'll try to make that my set weight.

It kinda just hit me today how different my body shape is. I'm only 30lbs heavier than I was before but looking.at myself today I realized how much I've changed.

For one my love handles are now wider than my chest. My ribs no longer show and are covered in a layer of flab. My upper hand of my body used to bee larger, but now I'm getting more bottom heavy.

I feel like I have a whole new body now and it's honestly really motivating to gain more

I'm going through this right now. I switch from gaining to trying to lose weight again. I've lost 15 lbs which is still 15 lbs above my weight was before I started gaining again. Though the past couple days I've been wanting to stuff myself and I caved today and bought dominos for myself and over indulged.

I've done this now 3 times in the past 5 years and I've always rebound bigger than I was the time before.

My girl was disgusted by fat stomachs. Then she got fat unintentionally, it changed her opinion of fat people quick. She still wants to be skinny, but the perspective helped her be less appalled

I've been stuck around the 205 range for a couple months now, but I still feel like I've gained. My jeans are getting more tight, plus my stomach jiggles more than it did a month ago. Anybody else have a similar situation?