AskDrFeeder:
Don't be a "Kyle"!
NameIsnt59:
I am nowhere even close to being a “Kyle”.
I am an FA, but videos like that can really question my liking to bigger girls.
Why?
5 years
Don't be a "Kyle"!
5 years
Transcend:
Educate us all about how to keep community engagement ongoing because I think you've kinda killed it off the fun. Along with the other fella which compares feeding to a unexcuseable terrible crime.
Of course it's fun, but sometimes it actually IS an unexcuseable crime. It's possible and indeed important to draw a line between the two. In fact, for me, if feeding is done in an evil. non-consensual way, it kills all the fun. If you want to have Evil Feeder fantasies (I kind of like them myself)--great, go for it. But as soon as you do it irl I'm 100% opposed.
5 years
fatchance:
ALL of this is playacting and we need to dial back the moral outrage.
Unless you are being imprisoned and force fed, you are choosing to eat ... and if you are gaining you are choosing to gain.
You CAN say no. You CAN leave.
But it is a wonderfully sexually stimulating play isn't it? Even the the standard story line of teaching the feedee to become sexual aroused by eating and/or being stuffed is ultimately by consent. It is not as if the "victim" isn't fully aware of what is going on.
Even if your feeder is sexually stimulating you while you are being stuffed in RL, you KNOW that conditioning you is part of the game you are both playing. For the game, pretending you have no choice is all part of it, but it is not the reality.
Let's just climb down off our high horses and our bold moral statements and remember, in truth, every bit of this is done with consent.
AskDrFeeder:
Hopefully it usually is playacting. But if it's an abusive relationship the victim may not truly be able to grant consent. There are also subtle techniques to fatten people without their knowledge.
boundandfeed:
What are these subtle techniques???
Sorry, I'm not gonna educate people on this one!
5 years
fatchance:
ALL of this is playacting and we need to dial back the moral outrage.
Unless you are being imprisoned and force fed, you are choosing to eat ... and if you are gaining you are choosing to gain.
You CAN say no. You CAN leave.
But it is a wonderfully sexually stimulating play isn't it? Even the the standard story line of teaching the feedee to become sexual aroused by eating and/or being stuffed is ultimately by consent. It is not as if the "victim" isn't fully aware of what is going on.
Even if your feeder is sexually stimulating you while you are being stuffed in RL, you KNOW that conditioning you is part of the game you are both playing. For the game, pretending you have no choice is all part of it, but it is not the reality.
Let's just climb down off our high horses and our bold moral statements and remember, in truth, every bit of this is done with consent.
Hopefully it usually is playacting. But if it's an abusive relationship the victim may not truly be able to grant consent. There are also subtle techniques to fatten people without their knowledge.
5 years
FrecherTyp:well i would find it sexy when my gf would make me drunk enough so i would give her permission to secretely fatten me up and forget about it later.... i bet that would marally ok?
I suspect this is playacting on both your parts and thus morally okay.
5 years
AskDrFeeder:
This is the logic of rapists and child molesters.
allgrownup:
That makes what he said sound very dark and almost singularly bad.
Maybe it's more along the lines of "this is also the logic of rapists and child molesters"
Just because something looks like something else doesn't make it equal to it.
I'm not saying stealth feeding is as bad as rape or child molestation. I'm talking about this particular argument in its favor. It's the same argument a rapist or child molester might use and just as morally bankrupt.
5 years
It seems to me we can divide feedees into these two categories:
Pusher (not to be confused with drug dealer!): You can't gain unless you push yourself (or are pushed by someone else). If you just eat what you feel like your weight will stay about the same.
Letting Goer: You have a good appetite and simply allowing yourself to eat all you want is sufficient to gain.
Which type are you? And has anyone started out as a "Pusher" but later became a "Letting Goer"? Or vice versa?
5 years
AskDrFeeder:
I don't have any hard data, but it seems to me the ones who go out of control are those who stuff to the absolute maximum once a week or more. Even if they stop stuffing like that they keep gaining without trying.
looker:
Uh-oh...
Ha! Unfortunately, for some, stuffing like that is the best part of feedism.
5 years
I don't have any hard data, but it seems to me the ones who go out of control are those who stuff to the absolute maximum once a week or more. Even if they stop stuffing like that they keep gaining without trying.
5 years
