So she is much happier with you letting it hang out and showing off your gut. She must be very into it?

Me....NO that would put me at 353 lbs. (which is a little more than I can envision myself with)

My Wife.... YES YES YES....that would put her at 275 lbs. and if I couldn’t be happy with that weight on her 5’ 3” frame I would have to be crazy.

Plus having her at 275 lbs and me at 253 and maybe more would be pretty cute considering she is about.a foot shorter.

I have not heard of this but sounds pretty interesting. I happen to be a pretty big eater....and have accidentally gained quite a bit over the last several months. I decided a few days ago to intentionally gain partly to get my wife gaining again because she always seems to start eating a lot more with me when I completely over eating.....all of our times together are centered around eating big meals, snacking and the pantry and the freezer is very well stocked during these times. The other reason is I want her to notice and tease me or scold me for putting on such a big fat gut....this really doesn't happen so I just end up getting much bigger along with her and she seems to not only enjoy making me get fatter but is fine with herself packing on a lot of lbs. during these times. All of this isn't discussed it is more intentionally gaining on my part and mutual gaining on both of us that isn't discussed either but she really seems to like it a lot.

So, the last several days I have been counting my calories and stuffing a bit more than usual....and I have had anywhere form 5,000 - 5,700 calories.....which hasn't been real tough and I have not even had any milkshakes or liquid calories but I think 6,000 for 6 weeks may be difficult.....but I would say you could I could probably gain close to 30 Lbs. with that.....I will try and see.

Yes role reversal and Mutual is pretty hot. A while ago this role reversal happened to me by accident.

I was buying the groceries and doing the cooking and would constantly buy my wife favorite snacks and ice creams because she has a huge sweet tooth and try to refrain from getting her favorites. Well I was buying all her favorites ben n jerrys, cookies chocolate, chips etc. and it obscene quantities...she even got excited and thanked me. I happen to be the type that likes my meals but have never really had a sweet tooth.....its not that I don't like ice cream or cookies I just don't crave it after I am done with my big meals.

So this went on for a month or longer and I noticed her gaining weight but I was so fixated on how much she was eating and it didn't seem to compute to as much weight as I thought she would be gaining. I would return home with a an even bigger stock in the freezer and pantry until the next grocery store visit. Same thing we would have a huge meal either I prepared or she would and I realized when she made us dinner she would serve me seconds even before I was finished with my first huge plate.....then we would retire to the couch to watch some netflix or television and she would bring me over a huge bowl of ice cream and she would have a ben n jerry pint for herself.

All of a sudden it I realized i had been eating a huge bowl of ice cream or cookies directly following our massive dinners for a while now and as if I was totally oblivious to the fact that I had a big belly sitting out in front of me. The next day as I went into the gym that I didn't realize I hadn't been going to but maybe once a week for the last several months I weighed myself to realize I had gained 19 lbs. I decided to intentionally gain just to have her tease me or scold me for getting such a big gut. She never said anything.

I would come home after work while pigging out all day to some huge fattening dinners she would make now being that I had more daily travel in my job and was getting home later than her every night. I became her secret feedee while she became my secret feeder even though we didn't talk about it. Although she was eating close to what she served me at dinner until my third helping appeared on several occasions and the dinners became more and more fattening and carb laden. For once she didn't seem to care that she was packing on the lbs. so fast I guess because I was fattening up even faster than her.

This was several years ago but I am thinking of doing this again just to see how big she will get this time.....the only thing is at the way things were going last time I would become huge just to get her over 220 lbs. She just called me to the table just now for our second lunch because we are going out for a late dinner with friends.....here it goes again...as I type this I can barley breath sitting in my office chair with my pants cutting into my big gut still stuffed from the huge fattening Lasagna and italian bread first lunch.

My wife tends to use generic saying's when refers to herself getting fatter which I really like....for example.... "I am getting heavy again" or "I really have put on a lot of weight" or when referring to another friend I have heard her say "She is becoming a big gal".

So maybe when using it toward your husband you can try ........ "You look like you have put on some weight honey....and I love it" or a little playful "I guess I am a pretty good cook...while you softly palm and pat his gut". I know this will be the thing I say if I am ever confronted in front of my wife by some of our friends about my new big gut....."She is a fantastic cook these days."

One thing that surprised me or I should say shocked me is one time years ago after a huge gain she came over to me after we had just ate a restaurant on vacation we were both a bit intoxicated and I was still bloated from overdoing it at dinner as always and I mentioned that the restaurant reminded me of another place we had been to and she said I am not sure and as she came in softly and close to me as she palmed with both hands my chest and gave a slight shake and said "I don't remember these either".....referring to my once firm and muscular pecs which were now thanks to her I noticed soft and jiggly.

hahaha ....especially " I probably do the latter to help me see what the scale says". By the way sexiest belly ever!

on a lighter note:

I wouldn't mind my wife fattening me up without permission as she has done in the past when she realizes my appetite has increased so much I don't say no to her bringing me seconds and sometimes thirds of her fattening dinners she makes us.

Likewise as her appetite grows and I buy all her favorite ice creams, cookies and chocolates and continually stock the freezer and pantry with some obscene amounts. She actually thanks me....and after several months the 20 lbs or so she has packed on shouldn't seem without permission.

I mean this is on the lighter side to be funny but I mean this topic gets carried away at times in both directions.

Not sure if my wife is fattening me on purpose but I do know several times that I have accidentally packed on the lbs. and intentionally (secretive from her but to get a reaction from her) her meals had become more fattening and the plate sizes were huge not to mention serving me second and thirds on occasion even before I finished that plate....almost so I couldn't say No. Not that I would say No because not only was I trying to impress her but my appetite would get huge. One time I packed on 40+ Lbs. mostly all to my new huge gut and she didn't flinch or slow down any of the meals and portions they only seemed to get bigger and more fattening. She only commented on a couple occasions when we she was slightly intoxicated (teasing me).

There is quite a few posts on here so I am not sure if any of this has been mentioned.

1. If you gain enough weight and Fat it will be tougher to lose it.

2. Re gain is very easy and quick once you have gained a certain decent amount of weight.

3. You create a new set point for your weight.
(wouldn't weigh more than 190 Lbs. then it was 210 lbs. then 230 lbs. etc. etc. your body never goes as low and if it does it climbs back up really fast to the new set point)

4. I know someone mentioned you get used to the lifestyle and laziness that comes along with gaining and not denying yourself. You allow yourself more things in excess than you would have done....and it makes you feel relaxed and happy. Also Muscle memory can relate to stomach stretched memory.

5. If you have the desire or kink to gain intentionally in the first place .....you will probably like it and be on the path to increase time and time again even if you lose a little for a bit.

It may be your age....and when you're body is ready to hold onto some weight.