FattyAva:
There was this moment as I stuffed myself with pizza, and I fell off and I needed assistance getting up. But I didn't care and ate all that pizza on the floor while I was on all fours.
Didn't care? Or were you kind of proud that you'd gotten that fat and were still committed as ever?
5 years
skinnylookingtogrow:
But I guess more than 12% would be more ideal
It's all about making up your mind. If you gain 12% and you make up your mind at that point, there's no point in experimenting further.
If you're still undecided whether to gain or lose after gaining 12%, stay there until you do decide.
If you gain 12% and are undecided but HAVE decided not to lose the experimental weight, why not do another experiment? Gain another 12% and re-evaluate.
5 years
The main thing is to eat healthy food as well. You can still eat junk food, but ideally have one meal a day where you eat healthy. This will not eliminate health risks but should mitigate them some.
5 years
Gaining people have moments where they realize they can't gain much more and still do something that they used to enjoy (running, hiking, fitting in theater chairs, etc.). Have you had such moments? Did you just shrug and say "Oh well, I guess I just won't do THAT anymore" and put more butter on your bread? Or did you stop gaining? Or pause? Or try to stop and fail? Or...?
5 years
I have chatted with women who consensually gained weight for their spouses even though they weren't feedees themselves. They did love the freedom to eat all they want though. I think that's fine.
5 years
I think a proper experiment would involve gaining enough that others notice. Probably at least a 12% gain.
5 years
AskDrFeeder:
Don't be a "Kyle"!
NameIsnt59:
I am nowhere even close to being a “Kyle”.
I am an FA, but videos like that can really question my liking to bigger girls.
Why?
5 years
Don't be a "Kyle"!
5 years
Transcend:
Educate us all about how to keep community engagement ongoing because I think you've kinda killed it off the fun. Along with the other fella which compares feeding to a unexcuseable terrible crime.
Of course it's fun, but sometimes it actually IS an unexcuseable crime. It's possible and indeed important to draw a line between the two. In fact, for me, if feeding is done in an evil. non-consensual way, it kills all the fun. If you want to have Evil Feeder fantasies (I kind of like them myself)--great, go for it. But as soon as you do it irl I'm 100% opposed.
5 years
fatchance:
ALL of this is playacting and we need to dial back the moral outrage.
Unless you are being imprisoned and force fed, you are choosing to eat ... and if you are gaining you are choosing to gain.
You CAN say no. You CAN leave.
But it is a wonderfully sexually stimulating play isn't it? Even the the standard story line of teaching the feedee to become sexual aroused by eating and/or being stuffed is ultimately by consent. It is not as if the "victim" isn't fully aware of what is going on.
Even if your feeder is sexually stimulating you while you are being stuffed in RL, you KNOW that conditioning you is part of the game you are both playing. For the game, pretending you have no choice is all part of it, but it is not the reality.
Let's just climb down off our high horses and our bold moral statements and remember, in truth, every bit of this is done with consent.
AskDrFeeder:
Hopefully it usually is playacting. But if it's an abusive relationship the victim may not truly be able to grant consent. There are also subtle techniques to fatten people without their knowledge.
boundandfeed:
What are these subtle techniques???
Sorry, I'm not gonna educate people on this one!
5 years
