Tomas:
Hi everyone,

I wanted to share a bit about my journey and ask for some honest perspectives from people who’ve been through similar situations. I’ve been going back and forth in my head about this for a while, and I figured this might be a good place to open up and hear how others have handled it.

I’ve been chubby for most of my life since childhood, really. For a long time, it made me feel uncomfortable and self-conscious, especially around friends or in social situations. In 2022-2023, I finally decided to go on a diet and managed to lose some weight. I dropped from around 96 kg to 82 kg, and I stayed at that weight for about two years.

But lately, I’ve started to slip back into old habits. I’ve been eating a lot more fast food pizza, McDonald’s, Burger King, and all that stuff. I’ve noticed my belly getting bigger, and some of my clothes have started to feel tighter again.

Here’s where it gets complicated: even though I still feel uncomfortable in public or around people, I’ve also noticed that I’m starting to enjoy how my belly feels. I’ve caught myself playing with it without even thinking, and I’m definitely craving greasy food more and more. It’s like part of me wants to lose control, while another part of me still feels pressure to stay slim or at least “under control.”
To add to all this, I’ve always been into fat girls and I really believe in body positivity. I admire people who embrace their bodies confidently, regardless of size. But when it comes to me, it’s not always that simple. There’s also a lot of pressure from family and sometimes their comments make me feel even more conflicted. I don’t know how much of my desire to stay slim comes from myself versus how much is just me trying to meet other people’s expectations.

I’m not necessarily looking for someone to tell me what to do, but I’d love to hear your stories, your thought processes, and maybe how you found peace with whatever direction you took.

JN_TumLover56:
I have a theory that goes something like this: Whatever kind of strange and weird shit that you might have sexual interest too, there’s a possible chance that there’s a kink to that.

As for the transformation kink itself surrounding about body weight. Back before when I discovered this particular fetish and when I found out that I liked bigger people full-time I used to watch a lot of weight loss content on YouTube at the time. And I mostly found the transformation fascinating even though I mostly cared about the before stuff (now I can barely watch this stuff anymore unfortunately). I even remembered seeing art stuff on DeviantART too with how a character takes a certain potion or gum and ends up a completely different person and body!

Also here’s another example - Reiinapop. I still remember her old content when she was just a little bit chubby, but then got stick thin, and eventually BALLOONED to her peak weight before she backed off again. I don’t know if she personally has something like that, but it’s a good possibility.

So yeah I definitely think that it’s possible to have a kink that involves body transformation. Sometimes that’s how you discover other one too!

Marvelhero88:
Hey bro hope we get an update on this soon ! Hope all is going well

Munchies:
Dude, OP will post when he is good and ready and not a moment before. Stop begging. It ain't cute.

Beachside Farmer:
Thank You. Bumping threads like this should be against the rules. Oh wait..we don't have many

Marvelhero88:
Hey bro hope we get an update on this soon ! Hope all is going well

Biggzv987:
Has anyone ever heard of a sugar momma feeder, especially one that loves fat guys weighing over 600 lbs? I definitely want one

FertileFatty:
There’s this girl I work with who is so much bigger than me. She was talking about ordering food and the enthusiasm she had. She also kept eating popcorn with extra flavoring (I work in a theatre) during our shift. She was talking about eating meatball subs in bed and everything. It was hard for me to focus lol. I’m so jealous but also kinda excited to see if she gets bigger. Does anyone else have a bit of gaining/fat envy like me?

Tinyguy:
Hey you guys!!

I’m new to this site but not new to the lifestyle. It’s almost been a year and I haven’t put on any weight…

Does anyone have any tips to help me? I’d love to get some insight on if I’m doing anything wrong or how I can adjust myself.

Enas:
One thing you can do is make 1 or 2 huge sandwiches a day! Really big ones, like half a loaf of bread big!

Munchies:
American bread tends to come pre-sliced. And while you can buy uncut loaves, it's often not economical to do that frequently.

Enas:
*sight*

Tinyguy:
Hey you guys!!

I’m new to this site but not new to the lifestyle. It’s almost been a year and I haven’t put on any weight…

Does anyone have any tips to help me? I’d love to get some insight on if I’m doing anything wrong or how I can adjust myself.

Enas:
One thing you can do is make 1 or 2 huge sandwiches a day! Really big ones, like half a loaf of bread big!

Tinyguy:
Hey you guys!!

I’m new to this site but not new to the lifestyle. It’s almost been a year and I haven’t put on any weight…

Does anyone have any tips to help me? I’d love to get some insight on if I’m doing anything wrong or how I can adjust myself.

Dunnowhatimdoinglol123:
So, lately I've noticed that there is a large amount of body types for women, than there are for men. I mean, I know about the hourglass, apple, pear etc shapes, but do you notice people's belly shapes? Like there are huge bloated bellies that look like a beach ball, there are double bellies, bellies with a roll etc.. and most of the men I've seen have just beach ball belly, which is pretty cool, but I'm also wondering why is it the only common type?

Munchies:
You might not have noticed because you are straight, but as a life long lover of fat men, there's a lot more belly options than beach ball belly. And there's a lot of body diversity in fat men's bodies. In fact, every body type you seen in women also exist in men - even an hour glass shape.

It is interesting that where you live, most men have big ball bellies. Where I live, fat men tend to have flabby bellies with no clear shape. Might be a lifestyle thing.

Dunnowhatimdoinglol123:
Really now? That's so cool! Good to know honestly.. to me it's interesting what causes a certain body shape.. is it genetics? Or is it based on what and how you eat?

Munchies:
Genetics, hormones, and lifestyle choices.

Dunnowhatimdoinglol123:
And thanks for answering btw! I really appreciate it.