Conditioned to associate sex with food?

Munchies:
... But they say that you can make anything a habit within 21 days. So there's that.

MickRidem:
...But if in some way, doing even more intense training than I could realistically do, it's awesome to see that a month is *possible* to achieve results.

If I ever did this, I would track it and keep a record. Pavlov training is just SO COOL. 🐖🍆🤣🔥

Munchies:
You could eat every time you masturbate. Or you can tell your husband what you want and see what he comes up with. Considering how the game went, I think he'd be on board.

MickRidem:
🤔🤔🤔
I don't want to be seriously caught getting horny *every time* I eat, there are many situations, including at work, where this would not be ideal. LOL! If I could keep it to stuffing (and tbh that may have already started) and a specific food, that's more manageable and realistic for me. I still want a LITTLE control. 🤣 But yes, the game went very well. I'll have to have a chat with him soon about this kind of training. 🔥

Munchies:
My partner doesn't get horny every time he eats. I'd say 99% of the time, eating doesn't arouse him. It's the other way around. He gets horny, and then he gets hungry.

Think of it like this. If you see a sex toy, most people will not get horny. But if you see a sex toy in the context of sex, you get horny.

These days, the link isn't as strong as it was. He is capable of getting horny without the desire to stuff his face. But it's better when he's stuffed.

MickRidem:
Discussed it with my guy, he came home with donuts. 🍩🤣🐖

Today was Training Day 1, and that was... nooooot horrible.

😉🥴😳
🍆🍆🍆🍆🍆🍆🍆🍆
💦💦💦💦💦💦💦💦
🤣


I have all the best ideas.

Some advice. If/when the time comes that you want to stop, just have him give you mind-blowing orgasms without involving feedism. If you can achieve sexual satisfaction without it, the link will weaken.
2 years

Take it off?

Karenjenk:
Anyone wish the could just take all the blubber off, like a suit, and have a normal day?


There's a number of people like that in the community. Pretty sure that's why padding became a thing. Who knows? You might enjoy something like that.

That said, I'm sorry you don't feel like you can have a normal day because you're fat.
2 years

Gaining, avoiding metabolic disorders

Tudduogg:
ALCOHOL
Alcohol usually lowers blood sugar (why, and also this is opposite in some individuals, but who and why??), but excess alcohol worsens liver function (eventually can lead to fatty liver) and can have brain damage in excess. Excess alcohol is well-studied, so this macronutrient has that plus. Alcohol makes you gain weight, many gainers know this.


I can answer this.

Your liver releases glucose into the bloodstream to keep your blood glucose levels where they should be. However, when you drink alcohol, it stops doing this so it can process everything. In fact, drinking too much can cause low blood sugar.

Of course., not every alcoholic beverage is created equally. Many are chock full of carbs and sugar. Too much leads to high blood sugar.
2 years

What do you look for when making a friend on here?

Enas:
Friend?
Okay! Well, one of the things I'd like on a person, is the ability to discus in a calm sense about politics! (yes, im that kind of person)

Munchies:
Is that even possible? I've had political conversations with people where we agree with each other about everything. I can promise you that neither party was calm.

Enas:
Of course, so long as that particular version of "calm" is relative to the topic! 😂

But i did have an experience where i was talking from an anarcho-communist stance, with someone who labeled themselves a fascist, and it was surprisingly calm! (Im sure i put them into some thoughts)

2 years

What do you look for when making a friend on here?

Enas:
Friend?
Okay! Well, one of the things I'd like on a person, is the ability to discus in a calm sense about politics! (yes, im that kind of person)


Is that even possible? I've had political conversations with people where we agree with each other about everything. I can promise you that neither party was calm.
2 years

Consensual... abuse?

Enas:
How do i even call it?
(also trigger warning)
I have this fantasy of being in the hands of a really strong feeder lady, and in it i love the aspect of her, playing around with my weaknesses in order to make / keep me gaining without asking. So that she can make me so fat that i end up being trapped with her.
For example, she can force me to have sex constantly, in ways that will make me incredibly addicted to her f*king me. Then she starts abusing that addiction by making me drink weight gain shakes everytime she's about to ride me, so much that i end up passing out right after sex. I even like the aspect of her low key threatening to beat me if i dont keep eating enough.

I know this is crazy, and i somehow ended up in a place where it turns me on a lot, i just wanted to know how realistic whould this be to play out in real life. (and what whould the safest way be)

Munchies:
This is feedism-based BDSM. Looks like you got a mix of sado-masochism, bondage, and consensual non-consent.

All of this is fine so long as you have clear boundaries between play and reality. If you don't, you are going to end up in a place you don't want to be.

Enas:
How could consensual non-consent work on this? Im really curious

Munchies:
It's a little different for everyone, but there are some general guidelines.

Clearly discuss boundaries beforehand.

Have safe words and/or gestures for when things get too much for you or your partner.

Understand that both parties can revoke consent at any time. Make sure this is respected.

Do not skip the aftercare.

Enas:
This seems to be oriented per-session. Do you think it whould be the same if it were to be contunious? (24/7, until one of the two wants to break out of it) so that it could have the possibility of going on, indefinetely?


Oh, no. Not even a little. That will mess both you and your domme up mentally.

If you're in a relationship with someone you trust enough to do this, it's because they care about you as a person. If they care about it, it will be hard for them to be hard core sadistic 24/7 for an extended time. Even though I am a sadist, I've stopped scenes before because it was too much for me.

If you are the sub in a hardcore consensual non-consent lifestyle, you will forget that this is a kink. One of the most important part of BDSM is aftercare. It strengthens the bond between domme and sub as well as keep the sub mentally sound. If you keep the intensity at 11 indefinitely, you will feel like you are actually in an abusive relationship.

There are some people in the BDSM community that life the 24/7 lifestyle. A lot of them are able to live a fulfilling life doing that. However, not ever flavor of BDSM translates well to lifestyle kink well.
2 years

Eat addiction

BlubberButt:
I have severe food addiction and it's a living nightmare every moment I'm alive. Would not wish this upon my worst enemy. When I was young and slim I wanted to be fat and lardy. Now I am so hugely obese I can barely waddle the 30 steps from my big chair to the kitchen and back without being doubled over from stabbing back pain. Be careful what you wish for...

Munchies:
Sounds like you need to put on more muscle. It should make things more comfortable for you. Your profile said you weigh just under 200 lbs and you're 4'8". Seeing that you are an older gentleman, you should start doing that before your joints really betray you.

You're an American. The hospital bills are not worth it.

As for the food addiction, have you tried Overeaters Anonymous?

LeFerrellV:
I have been training for strong man... Hopefully that will help me to be more mobile when I get fatter


Good luck!

Just make sure you maintain some level of activity. And don't forget to stretch.
2 years

Consensual... abuse?

Enas:
How do i even call it?
(also trigger warning)
I have this fantasy of being in the hands of a really strong feeder lady, and in it i love the aspect of her, playing around with my weaknesses in order to make / keep me gaining without asking. So that she can make me so fat that i end up being trapped with her.
For example, she can force me to have sex constantly, in ways that will make me incredibly addicted to her f*king me. Then she starts abusing that addiction by making me drink weight gain shakes everytime she's about to ride me, so much that i end up passing out right after sex. I even like the aspect of her low key threatening to beat me if i dont keep eating enough.

I know this is crazy, and i somehow ended up in a place where it turns me on a lot, i just wanted to know how realistic whould this be to play out in real life. (and what whould the safest way be)

Munchies:
This is feedism-based BDSM. Looks like you got a mix of sado-masochism, bondage, and consensual non-consent.

All of this is fine so long as you have clear boundaries between play and reality. If you don't, you are going to end up in a place you don't want to be.

Enas:
How could consensual non-consent work on this? Im really curious


It's a little different for everyone, but there are some general guidelines.

Clearly discuss boundaries beforehand.

Have safe words and/or gestures for when things get too much for you or your partner.

Understand that both parties can revoke consent at any time. Make sure this is respected.

Do not skip the aftercare.
2 years

What whould you want fantasy feeder to have?

CuriousAmy13:
Being able to search users by height.


This is already possible. This search criteria is next to weight.

BlubberButt:
BMI would be a useful search tool as well 🐷


This seems like it should be relatively easy; it's basic math as a function of height and weight.

2seatsalways:
This site has so much potential but I don't want to ramble here.

I'll just list a few things off

- Chat complete overhaul
- Chapter finder for stories
- Faster and easier system for verification
- A verify members only forum sub section: like a perk for users to want to verify


Overhaul to do what instead?

Chapter finder? A very easy work-around is to change the number at the end of the URL, though a little thing at the bottom where you type a number and click "Go" may be better. Unless you mean something else?

Verification - I don't know how it can be any faster or easier while keeping the human element which is essential.

Verified Members only section? That should be okay, since it's not ultimately exclusionary (except to scammers).

MottiF:
Also, option to chat with members and not just send them limited emails. As a social network it not very social.

ILuvChubbyChix:
This is a very common pain point and has been for years. I don't know if the current system is the best way, but it's to help prevent, or at least reduce the following problem:

Scammers/spammers sending messages to everyone.

It also has the side benefit of encouraging premium memberships, the only viable source of revenue for the web site, since there isn't much in the way of viable advertisers. There might be other ways to encourage premium memberships, though it's not yet clear how that may happen.

2seatsalways:
I'll just make a point on the chat. It's not 2009 anymore, it's 2023 and chat is severely outdated. It's clunky, buggy, and the features that are part of it are less to be desired. No one shouldn't be bounced randomly out of chat, OR to someone's private chat where you are seeing an entire conversation.


You gotta agree that if FF could calculate the BMI for you, that would be easier.

As for the chapter finder, most story hosting sites have one. It's been a thing for decades. FF having one would just be bringing things to industry standards.


And on that not, I would like three other things for FF to include. It would also bring things up to industry standards.

I would like to have html and rich text support for the stories. Most story hosting sites have this. I would also like to have an exclude function. It's a game changer when looking for new stories. And lastly, I want the tags to be ungrouped.

What do I mean by ungrouping the tags? There are some tags that have more than one category. The logic is that they are similar, so we should group them. Or at least that's how it was explained to me.

The problem is that it limits the reader when they are looking for stories. Maybe they wanted to read a vore story that doesn't involve death. But since vore and death share a tag, they aren't sure what they are getting into. Or maybe they wanted a revenge story, but since revenge shares a tag with jealousy, they get a story that's about someone screwing over an innocent person.

Tag multi-select options would really bring it all home.
2 years

Consensual... abuse?

Enas:
How do i even call it?
(also trigger warning)
I have this fantasy of being in the hands of a really strong feeder lady, and in it i love the aspect of her, playing around with my weaknesses in order to make / keep me gaining without asking. So that she can make me so fat that i end up being trapped with her.
For example, she can force me to have sex constantly, in ways that will make me incredibly addicted to her f*king me. Then she starts abusing that addiction by making me drink weight gain shakes everytime she's about to ride me, so much that i end up passing out right after sex. I even like the aspect of her low key threatening to beat me if i dont keep eating enough.

I know this is crazy, and i somehow ended up in a place where it turns me on a lot, i just wanted to know how realistic whould this be to play out in real life. (and what whould the safest way be)


This is feedism-based BDSM. Looks like you got a mix of sado-masochism, bondage, and consensual non-consent.

All of this is fine so long as you have clear boundaries between play and reality. If you don't, you are going to end up in a place you don't want to be.
2 years