Stretches for sleeping with bigger guy

Button Popper:
You could try heat pads


Heat pads soothe the pain, but they do not make you more flexible. That's what stretching is for.
1 year

How can i get so stuffed i fall asleep after?

MrCupeKe:
I’ve tried stuffing myself beyond my limit, sometimes I run out of food, other times I’m literally too full to continue. I want to be literally struggling to stay awake after and feel incredibly full and satisfied. Idk if I can eat maybe thicker foods like but burgers or something, but is there anyone that can give me advice?


It's not so much how much you eat as it is what you eat. When you eat something, your body diverts blood to your digestive tract to help process the food. And the more help your body needs in processing the food, the more blood gets diverted there. This is why many people have warm bellies and feel sleepy after a stuffing.

What do you normally stuff yourself with? And how much?
1 year

Adderall is ruining my gain...

BlackBarbie108:
Hey all,

I have a rare sleep condition and recently was prescribed Adderall to help me function during the day. It's been incredible for that and a total life changer. But I think I underestimated it's impact on my appetite.

My appetite was low-ish before, but I was still able to get a solid gain by eating extra and stuffing from time to time. But now my appetite is like nonexistent. It's doubled the effort it takes to eat past the point of fullness and decreased the desire to eat at all.

I'm starting to feel hopeless against it and don't know what to do. Forcing myself to eat when I'm not hungry results in nausea and stomach pain. But I'm desperate not to lose weight. I'm at a loss with this...

Any insight or advice would be super helpful right now 😭


Dry mouth is a common symptom of Adderall. You may not be hungry, but you might be thirsty. Consider drinking your calories while you figure out your medication situation. If it's working, I don't want you to stop taking it just because you are losing weight.
1 year

Looking to make a milkshake that’ll make me feel really heavy and bloated

MrCupeKe:
I know there’s the post on here for milkshake recipes, I tried digging to find what I was looking for but couldn’t.
I want a milkshake that I can funnel chug and can sit really heavy in me and make me feel bloated af. Something I need to know is how fast should I chug it, will it make me sick past a certain point, and how often can I have one? Also how much weight can it put on me?
Thank you!


Here's the post. Have fun: fantasyfeeder.com/forum/posts

As for your other questions, use your best judgement. General rule of thumb with kink is that if it causes you pain and/discomfort outside of your comfort zone, don't do the thing.

As for how often you can have one, it depends on the shake. Some people do it daily, but that isn't sustainable. Maybe try a few times a week and go from there.

How much weight you'll gain depends on the shake and you.

Have fun!
1 year

Personal training combined with feederism. crazy or genius?

BloatedGymGuy:
What if there was a feeder who would provide you with exercise plan to maintain health and build muscle, and diet plan to bulk up the weight.

In return there could be some content of growing belly and booty?


That's called a personal trainer.

Some of y'all have never heard of a hard gainer and it shows.

Ever see one of those absolute massive units? Super big guy - not lean at all. They goes to the gym and eats a crap ton of food. They're overall great shape, but are clinically overweight or obese.

This is a hard gainer. They are obsessed with gains, but they are the more socially accepted kind of gainer. And they usually don't gain for kink.
1 year

Thinking about transitioning to a female and becoming a bbw

Curiousv:
In this case what would it even mean for you to be a BBW? Just identifying as such? You would still be a biological male, so if it's mostly the body of a BBW what you're after, you won't get it merely by identifying as such. You could do extensive and risky plastic surgery, but even that won't give you the body of a BBW (proponents of such surgeries often over-exaggerate its effectiveness, because it's a lot of money for them in it, so of course they hide the drawbacks and present it as "perfect" ), and it's almost impossible to undo if you later change your mind.

Your fat distribution won't change by just identifying as female.

Would roleplay be an option instead?


For the record, this is what you said. There are trans people in this community who hear things like this all the time.

Again, there's no problem with you telling OP to figure himself out. It's the best piece of advice to give him. It's all the extra things you said that creates the problem.
1 year

Thinking about transitioning to a female and becoming a bbw


Munchies:
Please ignore the transphobe.


Curiousv:
Trying to understand what one really wants is "transphobia"? Not instantly and blindly recommending full-on transitioning when the first thoughts appear about the topic is "transphobia"? Recommending people to first study themselves and their desires a little deeper before they make changes to themselves they later can't undo is "phobia"? Do you even know what that word means?
Don't be a such a jerk!


I do know what it means. My issue isn't with you telling OP to figure out himself before making a choice. Well all told him to do that.

My issue is with you using anti-trans talking points to do it. Do you realize that people say these things to trans people all the time to negate their gender identity. Whether or not OP is cisgender or transgender is besides the point.
1 year

My obesity effects my family

Tellmeimfat:
I was always over weight and put on diets, sent to boot camps/gyms, and dieticians growing up. Well when I just couldn’t keep off the weight and I got older my parents gave up. And I let loose, I used to be maybe 15-20 pounds over weight. Well because of all the restricting over the years, I fattened myself up real good when I had freedom. I’m talking about getting stoned and eating past the point my body begged me to stop. Filling myself up with fast food and just junk. The weight caught up to me, and in 2.5 years I gained a little over 100lbs. It’s all fat, I know it. I’m so lazy, my stomach is never full anymore because of all the stretching as a young adult. I eat on average 3,200 calories a day. I don’t work out whatsoever and my average daily step count is 400 steps.
I’m just a very lazy, unhealthy, obese 21 year old still in college living at home. My parents are disappointed in not my laziness but my weight.
Anyways what I wanted to say was tonight I took a 1L tub of ice cream into my room, I let it melt a bit for 10 minutes then practically inhaled it. I’m still not full. Anyways I went to throw out the tub, and I walked past my parents.
Dad: “Is that the tub I bought two days ago?”
Me: yeah sorry did you want some?
Dad: guess not anymore, geez (my name) you ate it all in one shot though?
Me: I was hungry..
Dad: *clearly disgusted and upset
I throw out the tub and hear my mom say “God look at her jiggling with every step.”
I’m eating a bag of chips in my room now.
Part of me feels bad they are so upset by how fat I’ve gotten, the other part of me doesn’t care, because I know I’m going to get fatter than this, and this is just my life. Maybe if they didn’t restrict me I would have my goal weight set to 150lbs not 400lbs. Anyways I’m not going to stop eating til this chip bag is empty so I can throw it out in front of them.
If you like my content and want to encourage me to get fatter and fatter, than fat shame me under any of my posts🐷❤️


Good luck with your situation.

I will say that, as a courtesy to your parents, do not eat all the community food. That is rude.

Instead, leave enough for the others and get your own pig-out stash.
1 year

Thinking about transitioning to a female and becoming a bbw

Loudsecret123:
I have lived my whole life knowing and being comfortable with my gender as a cisgender male, but this fetish has confused some things. I have eventually come to realise that I may not just be a feeder, but maybe a feedee as well. Though the idea of gaining weight as a male doesn't intrigue me at all, the idea as a female does. I do not experienece genderdyphoria and this experinece of emotions is purely gender envy fueled by sexual desires. I've spoken to many of my trans friends and they say most people don't transition just on the basis of gender envy but also gender dysphoria. But my friends don't have this fetish, and like a lot of people say about feedism 'this isn't a fetish, it's a lifestyle'. So does this fetish make an exception for transitioning without gender dysphoria?


Please ignore the transphobe.

Gender envy is a complex thing. It sounds like you are still figuring things out. My advise is to experiment for now. You already know that femininity arouses you, but you aren't sure if you are trans. Try being girly when you aren't horny.

Start small (growing your hair out, shave your body hair, dress like a woman in your home and go about your day), and move onto bigger and bolder things. As you socially transition, you can decide if you are actually trans or if it's just a kink and go from there.
1 year

Can exercise make it healthy to have a ton of weight?

MrCupeKe:
I just heard from a friend that I could be incredibly healthy if I exercise, even if I have tons of weight on me. Is this true? I wanna gain and grow a huge belly, so would I be able to maintain good health by exercising, and just go home and stuff myself silly? I definitely don’t want to lose any weight, I just don’t want it to be dangerous to gain.

Whitemalehunk:
It’s the fat around ur organs that is unhealthy do cardio to prevent any issues from being overweight


This is only part of the picture.

Yes. Subcutaneous fat (fat under the skin) is healthier than visceral fat (fat around the organs). However, this isn't the only indicator of health. Depending on how you can, you can negatively impact your blood sugar, cholesterol, blood pressure, etc. You can also develop joint issues if you get too heavy.

This is why you should also be mindful of your diet and at least get an annual check up with your doctor to monitor your vitals
1 year