Well I don’t think that is all that uncommon. A lot of FA’s and into weight gain have been shut down over the years with the majority of women not like you and even though they gain they don’t like it. So I could see why he may shut down....he may feel a diet is around the corner.

[quote]Getting chubby:
Not trying to gain but gained 3 lbs last week[/quote

I definitely know what you mean...for the last 3-4 months without trying just naturally happened was eating more and more every week. I have t weigh d this much for 2-3 yrs. when I was intentionally gaining. This past week I have been away for business and have absolutely had such a huge appetite and craving food all the time. I literally have been eating 3 times as much as I was just 4 months ago. I will be coming back home after not seeing my wife for a week and I am sure I have gained close to 7+ lbs. I just went to grab a quick bite on my rental car.....Taco Bell. Last time I had a chalupa cravings box finished it and was still starving on Thursday. So I just grabbed two of them .....I wonder if I will finish them or struggle with finishing.

I wonder if my wife will be in shock seeing my over indulgent fattening week of work away.

Sometimes as long as you are gaining us FA’s sometimes might not want to verbally discuss it. It sounds like that would really get you excited for him to discuss it....so you should have a soft open discussion about how fat you are getting when you are I timent

Whoops saw your profile after I posted this. I would say yes he is definitely an FA and And maybe an encourager to get you to gain more weight.

Well many of those things if not all definitely go in that direction.....but it is not 100% definite.

Would you like him to be on?

When he wants you in a bikini or tiny underwear .....does he want them to small and love it when you barely fit in them?

I would love to k ow a few more details about what you like and any other reasons you can think of why he might be?

It is kind of easy to do. For some reason when I get fatter I crave fast food also.

A lot of Doctors seem to be pretty hyper sensitive about weight gain during pregnancy.

Years back my wife had our three babies one right after the other. “Stress” ....right! She gained fast and like 40+ lbs. with our first if I remember correctly and was slightly reprimanded each appt. during her pregnancy. Her next pregnancy was so quick didn’t lose much of the weight other than typical birth weight. Her appetite was still big ok huge being that she was caring for the first baby ....her and I both not great sleep and obviously pregnant again. She gained even quicker this time and more weight. She actually received lectures from her doctor. The doctor even threw out one statistic saying that X percent of women that gain a good amount of weight and then are pregnant right after tend to keep the weight and even have a weight problem even if they have never had one before. This obviously was very scary to her....but to me it was very hot...”sorry” but what can I say. She is shorter 5’ 3” and the weight always looks more on her than how much she actually weighs.....very curvy, voluptuous and now fat....which I love. She only weighed just over 200 lbs. and got these lectures. Then again she came in at 130 lbs. She ended up maintaining and even gaining a bit higher after our third baby....and stayed heavier for a few years.....so I guess the Doctor was kind of right but she is only around 160 lbs. now.

Doctors and I guess mid wifes can really make you feel insecure or bad. If all your vitals are good like the other post mentioned I have hobo you shouldn’t worry about what a mid wife says or even a Doctor that much. Doctors have an intense way of being over dramatic when they don’t even take care of themselves correctly from my personal experiences. Also you can find a lecture of tapes somewhere called “Dead doctors don’t lie” of something to that effect.

Take care and have a fun and good pregnancy.

Whoops from my mobile it now makes me hit topics under the heading of weight gain when it used to pop right up. I am all good

I have developed a dark line underneath my gut. I believe it is from the waist band on all my pants that digs deep all day especially sitting and driving which I tend to do most of the day these days. Have not been to the gym in 3+ months and no will power to stop from eating huge portions all the time.

Has anyone else got that dark line than doesn’t go away under their belly? Is it from what I described?

This title: exactly what always happens to me. Going through this currently for the past three months. I probably have gained 35 lbs. I didn’t even realize until I gained like 20 lbs.