Fantasy Feeder

Best fa moments with your so?

OdieFFA wrote:

SLewTalks2U wrote:
I've had exes who while we were together and say sitting on the couch watching tv, I'd glance their way, just because I found them beautiful and I liked looking at them from time to time, and I guess they would notice, so after I'd look away, they'd pull their shirt up a bit so their stomach was completely exposed...

Oh man, I would love a BHM to do this for me. Pretty sure I'd die just a little.

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I've always been primarily an FFA and never gave much mental energy to the idea of feederism. But I discovered the most wonderful FFA feeder / BHM gainer couple on a different site recently. Seriously, they're beautiful.

I don't have a BHM to call my own at the moment, but all I want to do these days is cook ^_^ and give soffft, slow, loving belly rubs during and after dinner. I miss the ability to make someone feel really loved.

This is the essence of what I think so many yearn for -- someone to share, someone to cook for, someone to serve and love and love and love and love!

10 years

GrowingLoveHandles

Why do you love it? (fat, that is.)

OdieFFA wrote:
On a purely physical level... what everyone else said! It's just sooo luxurious to the touch and appealing to the eye.

But also on a more symbolic, archetypal level, there's a gorgeous... balance to it. For me, seeing a guy carry that softness well is amazing; and at the same time, his size gives him this really strong presence. I love that my attraction to fat has both sexual and emotional connotations.

Why more people don't see what we (F)FAs see is beyond me ^_^

That you used the word "archetypal" -- well, that kind of turned me on!

Haha.

And why more people can't see what we see:

Because like the watchers in Plato's Cave, they are seeing only the prevalent images in this society -- media, fashion, diet, exercise industries so propagandize that there is just one way to look and be!

We need to pull them out of the cave and into the bright beautiful light of love and fat and love and food!

10 years

GrowingLoveHandles

Female feeders

BeccaB00 wrote:
I am a female Feeder. I actually find it harder to find female feedees than male feedes. not that I mind too much, I enjoy feeding whoever's hungry.

An Equal Opportunity feeder!

Now, that's what I like!

Would love to chat, Becca!

growinluvhandles on WHY a. whoo

and

zonker25@gmail.com zonker25 for gmail IM.

Z

10 years

GrowingLoveHandles

Fifty shades of fat?!

easy_es wrote:
I think people are agree BDSM in the fictional way , because the actors are good looking and stuff ... People focus/fantasize more on the sexual part of the movie/book than the "hitting" because they do not realize the whole think ...

But writting a book about this will be worst because girl can "fantasize " of handsome guys slapping their ass but not to be fed or gaining weight in any glamourous way possible because it's just againt the society's view and even they are some anti-conformist people rather to be thin/chubby than fat

I think you may have hit on someething here, and perhaps this gives us a key to where such a project could start.

One thing that many women (and men) fantasize about is food -- good old-fashioned fattening food! So could we capitalize on this in some way to portray feederism in a loving relationship where one cooks for and serves the other? I don't know. The fetishization of food is all around us -- in advertising, in movies, so why not figure this as an "in" to making the kind of project the OP had in mind?

Again, I have no answers, but just thinking about what might turn on a general audience and make this acceptable -- and what the heck, we've all got to eat, and many people want that eating to be much more enjoyable than it is now. Instead of enjoying food, many people see food as punishment -- diets, calorie-counting, etc. Can we portray feederism in a positive light as a way to free our appetites and enjoy life without guilt -- much like the BDSMers in this current fad.

Like others, I have not read or seen 50 shades, so forgive me for anything I misunderstood, but I have read about this phenomenon.

10 years

GrowingLoveHandles

Forcefeeding/being forcefed

silverfox96 wrote:
I have wanted to be funnel fed for a very long time, really I guess since I first realized I liked this (odd because I remember instances of wanting this to a degree since I was 11 and now realizing it). This weekend I will finally tell my boyfriend of 7 months about my fetish. I've never told anyone about this and I sometimes feel ashamed for it but everyone here has shown me that I can finally accept it, and that maybe, its not that odd after all, so thank you. I really hope it works out, and that maybe he will consider funnel feeding me when I see him.

Best of luck to you. Even if he's not that into it, maybe he will play along since you are.

I hope so.

10 years

GrowingLoveHandles

Do feeders ever feel guilty??

Admirefromafar wrote:
I have this ultimate fantasy of fattening a guy up, and ssbhm's are my idea of totally sexy, the idea of him growing out of all his clothing and struggling to get out of bed excites me! Then I have these horrible moments where I think that maybe actually doing that to someone could put their health and happiness at risk, even if they're into it. It makes me feel so guilty, has anyone else experienced this?

We are given but one life to live, and we should live it in joy and fullness! If both partners consent, then this kind of fattening is not something evil or something you should be ashamed of.

Rather, you are fulfilling the pleasures of you both. At the most, you could be knocking a few months or years off his life, but ask him: Would you rather live your life in joy and a bit shorter, or live a longer life and never know the joy of this kind of fattening?

Life is risky anyway. We all take risks for the pleasure -- rockclimbing, biking, hiking, swimming! Why can't overeating and gaining weight be as pleasurable -- even if it is risky?!

10 years

GrowingLoveHandles

Pi(e) day!!!

Pie and pi are both infinitely wonderful!

If you can't get enough pi, go here:
[url=http://www.geom.uiuc.edu/~huberty/math5337/groupe/digits.html'>www.geom.uiuc.edu/~huberty/math5337/groupe/digits.html[/url]

If you can't get enough pie, mmmmmm, I have some recipes!

10 years

GrowingLoveHandles

Humilating men by feminizing

mistresslanax wrote:
I love nothing more than forcing my subs into perfect little sissys. They all love it in the end and its amusing for me to watch them in their female lingere.

Mistress, are you taking any applications for this opportunity to serve you so well?

10 years

GrowingLoveHandles

Kidnapped, forced to be a pig?

Kinky Pig wrote:
I would love to be kidnapped and forced to be a pig. Especially if i'm not the only one. ;3

Hmmm, maybe I need to build some pig pens?

10 years

GrowingLoveHandles

Into slobs?

Whoploc wrote:
I definitely find some aspects of a girl being kind of a slob very sexy/turn ons. I love the idea of her getting lazier and lazier the bigger she got and getting messier and messier as a result. Food/candy wrappers & containers spread around her after days of continual stuffing/gorging. Belching and slurping food down as fast as she can, caysing Her increasingly too small shirts to be stained with grease and crumbs, while sweating and breating heavily at the slightest exertion.

I definitely wouldn't mind a girl who didnt mind pigging out like this, i'd be happy bring the food to cause the mess and just as happily clean up all the empty wrappers

How about a slob feedee who is also a dom, constantly telling you to keep things cleaned up while she is messy! Perhaps making you clean her many times a day, and berating you for not keeping up with the "housework" of keeping her in a clean environment, all the while making huge messes all about?

10 years

GrowingLoveHandles