[quote]MrCotyledon:
I believe my preference for fatter girls and becoming fat myself weren't necessarily innate, but certainly shaped early in my childhood. I had always struggled to gain weight as a young adult so I always preferred a partner on the heftier side.

My wife had problems with her weight since childhood and is now easily above 200 lbs, which is at least 60 lbs heavier than when we met. She easily gains weight and has blown up over the years, especially after our wedding. While she doesn't get turned on by weight gain and doesn't plan to gain more, I've noticed that the affection and encouragement I give her has made her much more comfortable and confident in her chubbier body.

Now that I'm older the possibility of being a gainer becomes much easier. I've been able to put on weight with less effort and get turned on by the idea of catching up to my wife's weight. I've always had the desire to gain myself but my life circumstances and body have changed to make it more feasible.

Now when my plump wife isn't around to squeeze and tease, I have a little back-up gut of my own to play with.[/quote


Does your wife like the bigger you? Does she know of your fetish with either her gaining? Or you gaining?
I was similar to you could never really gain easily a while back and them my metabolism changed and I was able to get bigger. A couple times I have accidentally gained at first and then intentionally to see how big I could get. The crazy thin was is my wife seemed to love it the bigger I got. She even was feeding g me extra fatting meals and more and more of them.

This is a great thread! I have thought about this as well... a lot.

I have had a girlfriend a while ago that was able to gain weight really easily. When she was a teenager and shortly after (didn’t know her then) she would try every fad diet to lose weight and this messed with her metabolism later on. When we became serious I shared my desire of likin it when she gained weight. Which she seemed to still try and diet to lose after she first gained it. She all of a sudden began to keep gaining and playing into my love of her extra fleshy figure. It only did she tease me seductively with her gaining but she seemed to get into it as well.

It kind of makes sense early when someone posted that most have always had the fetish but they need some stimuli to bring it out. I think that is certainly true....I also believe there are varying degrees of the fetish. My wife as well as other women I have met seem to have the attitude “if you can’t been them why not join them” or on another phrase if I can’t lose weight easy enough why not just enjoy myself and the great food I want and have an appetite for and just eat it. My man likes me heavier and then we are all happy. My wive has done this over the years and just doesn’t fight it anymore and she also has seemed to not only accept her extra 50 Lbs. But she even seems like she likes her heavier figure better than her thinner figure now.

Has anyone else seen this happen?

This is definitely true!
My wife was already plumper and heavier and I decided to I tentio ally gain myself after an accidental gain to start. I have a weight gain fetish but I didn’t think my wife did. As I got a big Fat gut my wife couldn’t stop having sex with me.....we had sex almost every night as opposed to once a week or every two weeks. She seemed to love my new big fat gut and she seemed more relaxed about throwing her weight around in the bed. She climaxed harder and constantly was holding onto my fat belly and even talking directly about us getting to fat for certain positions while she manipulated our bellies to get better penetration. Having both of our bellies getting in the way during sex made us both that much more sexed up.

Yes fat sex is so much better

I experienced this as well....and it has been discussed in another HC thread somewhere on here. It definitely is true...just when you think after not drinking it for several weeks you continue to see effects and growing. The other thing is it develops in areas where you may have not gained before....I happen to be a muscle chub build with a big ball gut when I was intentionally gaining but the HC made me gain in my butt, hips and back like never before.....as well as making a lower soft layer of Fat on my bottom belly or under belly. Still today i have much softer Fat on my lower belly now. Women I am sure get really soft Fat eventually with the HC gaining.

This is pretty damn hot...I never thought about it like that....but it is pretty arousong!

That is pretty insightful. I knew a few girls in high school that were beautiful and ended up gaining a lot of weight....probably in the 250-280 lb. range.

I thought it was interesting that you mentioned “blissfully aware”....you must have had a lot of fiends and we’re pretty cool and self confident (which I would assume was the case). I am sure you had your overwhelming male attention even then. I honestly believe there were other guys that liked heavier prettier girls even back then that were to imitate to admit it. It would be great to hear a few stories of guys that you could tell that were like that.

Yea....I like pregnancy...and when my wife was pregnant and gaining three times in a row....it was very intimate and sexy.

Even better was after she delivered all our babies/kids.....she maintained her big appetite and started gaining more weight even a year plus after....and that was even better having her get bigger, softer and fatter

Not sure how strange.....but these things do it all the time for me:

First weight gain and seeing my wife not fitting into her current clothing ......followed by her feminine but over weight gestures and movements.....next the smell of bath soap on her skin.

I don’t know maybe they are strange but those three things will get me so aroused all together every time.

Your wife plays around but I am sure she likes the extra lbs. same thing happened when I was intentionally gaining not only did my wife seem to like it .....she was piling massive fattening meals on my plate and giving me seconds before I even finished. There are so many theories why women like to see there men fatten up over time.

More and more good insights and replies on this thread.

Not to change anything to much....but how many people have had this fetish take on new life.....meaning do you like more and more weight gain as you have become older? Do you find you not only like weight gain on others but now like it on yourself where as you didn’t really think about it a while before? Any other forms that this fetish has taken on and expanded ....(no pun intended)?