person12670:
My friends don't say anything direct, but I have gotten less direct indications. One asked if I still exercised and another said "I can't believe you ate all that" when we were out for dinner. One friend I hadn't seen in years said she didn't recognize me. And my favorite was when a female friend poked my belly, noticing how fat i got, and then when she was shocked how far her finger went in, she kept poking again and again slowly as if exploring my fatness haha.
I think there are a lot of women as well as guys .....that have a secret fascination with Fat. Not to the degree we all do ....but I definitely think they are intrigued although they might not seek it out for a relationship ....but how many women or Men do you know that don’t seem to care and actually like that there spouse fattened up after being together for a while. Not all the time but they seem to like it a lot more than not liking it.
7 years
Yes friends don’t really say anything unless you have not seen them for a long while ....or it was the initial gain going from thin to fat. But I had a client who I met a year ago and only conversed on the phone after our initial physical meeting ......them met up earlier today. She said Wow....I almost didn’t recognize you. I said “why” and she said “you were so thin before”. So I thought back to when we met and I was at my lowest in a long time....220-225 lbs. I knew for the past 2 months currently I had been eating more than usual and have been gaining again.....and didn’t realize what I weighed when I first met this client initially before we sa each other again. I patted my belly and asked if i was getting to Fat....she laughed and said “you look better....you were to skinny before”. I did have a sudden urge to eat more all of a sudden and stuffed myself at lunch and then went to weigh myself at my gym in my dress clothes 248 lbs. so I guess there was a noticeable difference and my client was right.
7 years
Not sure if Mexican guys like thin women.
I think he may be attracted to you.
7 years
jboabfe:
I was at the store today and i was asked why I needed so much heavy cream by a store associate. I immediately got a little embarrassed and I told a story about how I�m making stroganoff for a family reunion. A small part of me wanted to tell her that It�s all for me to drink. Has anybody ever had something like this happen to them?
Maybe she was your future feeder?
7 years
Yea...this is a great topic.
I love noticing the little things or changes on my wife after a decent weight gain. As you mentioned her feet become a bit chubbier as well as wrists and forearms and a little bit more swelling in the ankles. It actually takes quite a bit of weight for her fingers to swell up fatter.....it has only happened I would say 2 times during her biggest gainings.
A slight different note is noticing certain things like when she sits in the car she seems quite a bit taller from all the extra paddin in her butt and thighs. Also I like her outlook when she is fatter....she is more easy going and tends to not restrict herself with food obviously, drinking, sex.....well everything she is more carefree about and relaxed....not as up tight.
7 years
No...because several have mentioned that others not into it will think it is pretty weird. It seems pretty normal to us....but there are a lot of things that other people might be into which I might think is pretty strange....and I am fairly open minded.
Even within this "fetish" others have way more extremes and other kinks within that others of us don't.....so there are many levels within this "fetish".
I started out liking chubbier girls and liked when they gained some weight.....I never thought I would desire women 300+ lbs. and I would want my wife to be that heavy....when I used to think she would be Fat enough for my at 150-160 lbs......you see what I am saying?
7 years
Adamspet piggy:
Easier said then done. When I first started packing on the pounds I tried everything. Diet, exercise, fad diets. Nothing was working. Maybe loose 5 or 8 pounds then stopped only to regain 10-12 pounds. It�s not easy to lose it especially when you get older. I�m over 100 pounds heavier then when I met my man. I�ve been trying to lose weight but I�m up and down the same 10-12 pounds and I�m miserable dieting. It�s easier to give up and just let the weight go where it may. Bottom line is just cause we say we want to lose weight doesn�t mean we will or can.
I appr coats this input. My wife is trying to lose weight and has succeeded some. I am certainly hoping after she eases up her weight will come back quickly and possibly more. She is so much happier when she is just eating what she wants and isn’t as stressed out about everything.....much better to be around when she is not dieting......and believe me she looks incredible at the weight she was at.
7 years
Yea...my wife when she gained all her weight snores most nights now. Same as you a bit annoying but sexy knowing it as well!
7 years
Hanginglow: I will say that my personal preference has gone up and up with her weight as she has gained. When I discovered this site a long time ago I never knew I would enjoy a partner at 240- 250 but it's amazing.
Bicepsual:
I've had the exact same experience. I only wanted my wife to gain 30lbs max. But then even at +75lbs, I slowly wanted more. I vividly recall some photos from a few years ago where I thought "that's the heaviest I would want my wife to be". And I can chuckle now because I barely even consider some of those girls "fat" now!
I used to never want her more than 200. But it's hard not to get bit by the bug when you see some gorgeous 300lb woman at a restaurant that dwarfs your little wife.
Ditto to all of this!
7 years
I am not quite sure....maybe exposure on the internet or just the way this fetish is wired in me. I don’t know what changed my mind other than just liking more and more weight on women’s figures aesthetically and certainly to the touch.
Sorry...Hope that tells you a bit more.
7 years
