Does your gainer eat separately from the family?

Finally Fat:
We eat large fattening meals together.

We also sneak food a lot too. Our secret fattening when around others. We even eat secretly from each other- hidden treats, drive-throughs after meals, leftovers in the night.

Of course there's nothing secret about it our increasing fatness. Gluttony is a very evident in it's practitioners. Whoever sees us knows we are gluttons.

We surprise each other with the extra fatness our hidden eating creates!

So our gluttonous fattening is no secret at all. Our secret is that we're willing piggies- we love swallowing all this food into our insatiable fatness.



Wow....you two are the most gluteneous couple that I hear on these boards. Does your wife share the same enthusiasm for food but you have her beat in the weight gain fetish department with enthusiasm?
Expand how out of control your wife has gotten with her eating and how much she can consume?

How much has both of your appetites been growing or has it tappered off?

How much do you both weigh currently?
7 years

Being fattened up for a woman’s pleasure

Yea....it is definitely exciting....when I was intentionally gaining a while back....all of a sudden my wife started feeding us both way more fattening meals she prepared and giving me seconds and sometimes piling the rest on my plate before I was done with my second helping. She was definitely trying to make me even bigger. Although nothing was ever spoken about. It was kind of a don’t ask and don’t tell situation. She could clearly see I could t fit into any of my dress shirts, slacks or T shirts for that matter....it was pretty obscene and I would kind of throw it right in her face....an XL t shirt that use to fit fine and loose in my middle Bowen the evening after a shower I would put it on before bed in front of her and my huge distended bloated gut would hang out below a good 4-6 inches standing up and I looked like I was 9 months pregnant.....and as I sat do n my huge gut would ball up and the bottom of the shirt would rise up above my navel leaving a good 10” of bloated flesh showing .....my wife said nothing. When I hit new XXL shirts I was surprised that my gut still would squeez out the bottom still when I sat down. She said nothing still kept feeding me more and more....so yea it was pretty arousing but I just don’t know what to do or get a reaction.....at this pace I was going to go past 300 lbs. Before she said something. I was really craving for her to tease me or scold me for getting so big......but I guess she was trying to get me bigger and didn’t want to bring anything up like d of like I do to her when she gains a bunch of weight......like maybe she doesn’t notice and if I don’t say anything she will just keep getting bigger.
7 years

High calorie food?

Yea....they are definitely a lot of over fed pretty Fat Indian women. They always seem to have nice pear shaped and fat lower bellies. It’s kind of accept d in the culture ......Indian Men like their women Fat.

I wonder if I am part Indian?😂
7 years

High calorie food?

There are many large chain restaurants that serve massive portions and typically they are seasoned, buttered and plenty of salt all in one. I think it may be a more costly option than fast food but a lot of more dense and better calories as well as teaching yourself to clear your massive portion rather than ordering multiple fast food items which do have a lot of calories....but I think you would be surprised if you ate at one of these types I mentioned and see after 1-2 times a week how much you will be gaining not only because of the calories but stretching your stomach and continually eating more. Also....they typically have a wide variety of items to choose from....even the salad bar will get you Fat in not time with how much dressing I tend to put on....coupled with the high calorie huge muffins etc.
7 years

What was the moment that made you think, "damn, i'm fat?"

My wife while shopping will hold up a XXL T shirt at the store while we are looking around.....and it look's just huge her holding it up....like a tent next to her and when I decide to try it on even after saying that is way to big.....it fits perfect.....then my wife will say I told you so.
7 years

Telling my girlfriend about me desires?

I think you are in a very good spot.

She is chubby and has a fat belly already and loves to eat, shown signs after belly rubs by later discussing what and how much she has been eating probably after you have given subtle hints not knowing of admiration of eating and or her belly when stuffed.

Like previously mentioned ....great idea about having an all day eating day. Also, you may start going out for ice cream or deserts directly following every meal. I would just keep centering all your time together around fattening g good food, deserts and even bring her big boxes of candies or her favorites as cute endearing presents .......these are cute things that women love.....and she will be eating these when you are not together.

If you do over do it or she does.....you will probably now because she will either bring up that she needs to go on a diet because she has gained to much or she will comment about herself gaining weight.....partly to test the waters with you to see if you still like her even though she has gotten heavier.

I can remember back to my wife when we were dating and she first started gaining weight.....which was brought on by me telling her she should stop working out so much so we could spend more time together. She mentioned if she didn’t work out so much she would get fat....her words....I said I would t mind if she gained weight....in fact I welcomed it. She did gain weight after she slowed her workouts and I realized I had afoodie and a sweet tooth” for a beautiful girlfriend that the minute she didn’t work out the weight piled on. I loved the changes and she actually turn d into a different person that was very exciting to me from the stand point that she wasn’t so strict with herself in all ways after she stopped working out she became more vulnerable and relaxed and would lounge around snacking and more affectionate toward me the more weight she gained until she got to the point where she couldn’t fit into amy of her clothes and she complained to me and put her foot down so to speak that she has to go on a diet because she became to Fat again. I said again....and she told me a couple years before we met she was much heavier and it took her that lon to lose all her weight. I told her she was more Beautiful than ever to me with the weight she has gained....she called me “strange” for liking her Fat....but she still was insistent that she was going to lose weight. Even though she had a minor “Fat moment” I would come home from work and find her at my condo being she had a key I gave her.....snaking away on the couch...fretting me with a big Fat hug and warm kiss as she hurried back to the kitchen to grab a box of cookies to munch on while we talked sitting on the couch....and then anxiously asking where we should go for dinner. Ot’s Such a Beautiful thing when the women we love get huge appetites and desire for eating and snacking and ultimately become fatter and fatter.

Good luck ....keep us posted!
7 years

What is the heaviest man you have dated?

Has anyone been in a relationship where you are both gaining?[/quote]



Yea....I have! I started doing all the grocery shopping in the house. I decided I was bummed my wife lost most of her weight with being her heaviest and decided to start buying her favorite ice cream, chocolates, cookies and all her favorites. She would thank me for getting her favorite treats and after a while she started to gain a little weight back. I would continue buying more and more of her favorites to satisfy her sweet tooth. She continued to Thank me.....I guess she did t feel as guilty if I was the one buying all this and she wasn’t. I began to look for her gains week by week and she was creeping up the scale but not nearly as fast as I would have expected. Before I knew it she was shopping one day and when she got gone she said to me “I got your favorites”.....I said “my favorite’s?” She said yeah such and such flavor Ben n Jerry’s, Oreos & snickers. I thought to myself for a second and didn’t even realize I had been settling in almost every night with her on the couch after dinner eating these snacks she deemed as my favorites along with her. Without even realizing I gained around 20 lbs. and couldn’t believe I didn’t even recognize the gut I had put on......at that time I was so aroused all I could think about was intentionally stuffing myself and gaining a lot more weight .....mostly to get teased by my wife, scolded or reprimanded for getting so Fat. I began intentionally gaining .....but still no comments from my wife......weeek after week I would try and stuff more throughout the day just to look huge and bloated when I came home to her....still no comment the weeks turned into months and I was totally fixated on how big my but was getting on a weekly basis I didn’t even notice how much she was gaining as well.....although not as much as me because she wasn’t intentionally stuffing and trying to gain.

So it was mutual gaining but only I was intentionally doing it but I think she not only allowed herself to continue gaining herself because she felt so relaxed with me getting so Fat and I think she actually liked me getting so big.....or at least I tho k she thought she was the one making me Fat.....whatever where all the reasons it was pretty exciting while it lasted.
7 years

Does your gainer eat separately from the family?

We usually all eat the same meal together while at home. It is really kind of fun to watch my wife’s appetite get close to mine as far as finishing as much food as I do. Being almost a foot taller than her and knowing she probably has eaten more than I have throughout the day already and probably had more snacks.

One thing that is kind of a tough thing that I have to reprimand the teenage kids....primarily my daughter is when I do the grocery shopping g and buy an obscene amount of Ben n Jerry’s pints for my wife......making sure that my daughter knows they are only for Mom. She sometimes complains and say’s “but there are 8 of them”.......I say don’t eat those please. And they are usually done easily in a week and a half to two weeks. The daughter doesn’t touch them. When they are in the freezer my wife just can’t resist them......”the girl loves her some Ben n Jerry’s”
7 years

Secrete gainer

Yep....Closet gainer myself the two times I gained a lot. It was a secret from my wife and kind of what drove me to intentionally gain was feeling so aroused by the thought of my wife teasing me, scolding me or even having an intervention as I got pretty big and into it at the end. Turned out she only commented twice near my fattest and it was after she was slightly intoxicated and it was flirtatious and endearing as if she liked it. In fact I think she definitely liked me Fatter.....but I don't now for sure the reason or the combination of reasons. She ended up over feeding me and I just ate it all trying to prove to her I was a good fatty trying to get her to comment....instead my seconds turned into her stuffing thirds on my plate and making huge bowls of ice cream for me when I didn't even ask for them etc etc.

Early on when I was only dating my wife I let her now that I wouldn't mind her gaining some extra weight....and then I took it a little deeper as she gained.....and then when she became what she called "FAT" she called me crazy for liking all the Fat she gained....and I stood up for all us FA's and said I wouldn't mind you gaining even more. Obviously this was all very little in the big picture in my eyes......meaning even though she knows I like her to be heavier or the look of heavier women.....I think she probably thinks it is way less than I would desire for her to get......I mean she thought she was absoutely huge at 200 Lbs. .....where I would love to see her at 300 or even 350 Lbs.
7 years

Lower sex drive from weight gain?

boundandfeed:
I think there are Domme feeders, that would love this expect of control. Know any?

TheWhipHand:
The only time when my little Butterball seemed reluctant, I was able to tilt him over and make him change his mind.

Butterball had grown more loving and sweet, but also more passive in bed, but I enjoy that

GrowingLoveHandles:
I think you hit upon the dynamic that many enjoy as they gain weight -- the giving over of control to someone else.

As someone who has experienced this, it is absolutely wonderful -- and perhaps a great relief -- to just let the feeder decide everything for you.

And I don't agree with the premise that weight gain leads to less sex drive. There are several studies which show quite the opposite, in fact.

Plus, the nature of just becoming a hedonistic glutton also opens one up to more overindulgence in all things.

Gluttony and lust are the powerful twins in the "deadly sins". One feeds the other (pun intended). Together, they just increase one's appetite for all decadent pleasures.



Ok....I am chi I g in late to the party....7 months late.

My wife as she gains Weight seems not only more enthusiastic about sex but doesn’t mind throwing around her weight more in bed. I remember back when she was dieting and felt very thin to me... (she wasn’t really thin but definitely a lot thinner) while on top she would hold her belly from bouncing or jiggling even though it was so much smaller in size. As she gained back all her weight and then some .....her belly was actually big enough to get in the way and she seemed to be much more comfortable with it bouncing, jiggling even slapping into me (with clapping sounds) as she really started going at it. It was almost as if her dieting made her more concerned, reserved and overall less confident in bed. While she is heavier it’s almost as if she is allowing herself to just enjoy anything she wants and not be reserved.....and that certainly goes without saying her appetite and eating. Big appetite for food makes her nicer, happier, more vulnerable in such a cute way and less reserved and much more sexed up.

I myself as I gained weight because I am so into this fetish.....found that it only increased my sex drive. I pretty much was horny all the time. Whether I was surprised by how fat my gut was getting or how much I Could actually eat.....both of those things fed off of each other just making me even more horny. I did however become more submissive which I didn’t ever think I would be.....but I actually liked it because I had always been the initiator of sex between my wife and I. At this time not only I was gaining Intentionally as mentioned several times in other posts.....at first to get done reaction from my wife...either teased, humiliated or scolded for gaining a big gut....but then I became fixated on myself gaining almost more than my wife gaining. Which by the way during this time she was gaining along with me.....it was tough for her not to...it was a mutual gaining relationship except I was intentionally gaining and I think she was actually trying to make me get fatter as well without really ever saying so.....and she was fattening g up pretty good herself. The fate I g meals she was cooking us were doing a number on both of us.

She was so sexed up and initiated sex almost 4-5 nights a week as a opposed To once a week before we both were getting Fat together. Like I said she Became accustomed to me not doing as much missionary (not only because our bellies started getting in the way quite a bit) but I was lazy and submissive and after giving her oral I was usually so bloated, fast and stuffed I would roll over on my back and she would climb her huge ass, big thighs and bloated belly on top of me and start riding me while she palmed my huge gut....which she s need to love.....what she thought she created all on her own.
7 years