I'm going to cheat a little bit. While I have been hovering at the 210, I was quite ill for a while back in early November and dropped to 200. Since mid November I've gained 22 pounds. And I'm loving it.
3 years
I'd have to say it's about the gaining for me. I do enjoy eating, and the two go hand in hand for me. I do set goals for myself. When I first started trying to gain I was 160, so I set a goal of 180. After that I set my sights on the big 200. As I grew larger I started to appreciate how big my gut was getting. Now I love watching the numbers on the scale go up and seeing my body getting fatter.
3 years
BradyG:
I am totally in the closet and I’m very embarrassed about my huge wait gain. But in private I try on all of my clothes because I literally do not have one item of clothing that fits even my old sweatpants that used to be huge or skin tight in my belly just rolls over it. So while I don’t show it it’s pretty noticeable I guess to my family seeing as I can barely drive as my belly jams into the wheel
You're thinking is all backwards on this. If you like being fat don't be embarrassed by it, be proud of it and enjoy yourself.
3 years
Zora:
I used to, but it was mainly due to the fear of what others would think. I eventually got past that, and am now fully committed to just gaining. I have had some setbacks, and lost a lot of weight earlier this year, but it was not intentional. Life just got in the way.
I agree with you Zora. While my weight went up and down over the years I never wanted to be thin. It was what family would think or fear of never dating or getting married because I was fat.
3 years
I prefer looser fitting shirts and T's. I just find tight fitting clothes a bit uncomfortable. What I do like is a shorter fitting T-shirt that leaves my belly hang exposed.
3 years
KnightOfCupcakes:
I am, as of right now, skinny. about 140-130 in weight, last I weighed, and this despite many attempts to gain. Being 19 and jobless, it's hard for me to work around my parents and their food budget, so I was wondering what any tips or tricks might help me either
A: get gluttonous enough to not care and just eat what I want, or
B: fatten up without leaving a dent in my parents pantry
It's tough being a gainer without disposable income, that's for sure. I suppose you could look at it as a challenge though. Perhaps you could find some local feeders to help out.
3 years
Spookss:
I have had alot of the spam profiles message me recently
I get a lot of that stuff, especially on Feabie. Usually it's it's a pic of a hot young woman who's not even a bbw and a message saying "Hi". I'm 65 so I know what they want, but I'm surprised they don't make more of an effort.
3 years
I don't have any issue with them, but to be honest it's not a word that appeals to me.
3 years
TheRebeliousGainer:
Same here! It's hard to find a serious feeder to stuff someone with no limits, and when someone says they're going to make you huge, chances are they don't, (at least from the experiences I've had personally)
It's not cheap being in a feedee/feeder relationship. The serious feedee's here or any site say it costs a fortune to buy enough food to steadily gain. Probably why so many make it a business to raise the kind of money they need. So that could be one reason it hasn't work out. Some guys just chicken when it becomes real. Mostly cuz they'd have to explain to friends and family why their girlfriend/boyfriend keeps getting fatter and fatter.
3 years
Great post. I'm the same. The desire to gain goes away for a day or two after sex, then builds back up again. Weight gain fantasies and sexual release are completed tied together. It seems like this is pretty normal going by the reactions
3 years
