I've always had a difficult time with humiliation for the same sort of reason. I don't mind calling a girl "piggy" or the like while being dominant, but it is hard for me to be critical. It feels disingenuous to berate a BBW for the same features I'm turned on by or for getting bigger at the same time I want her to get bigger still.

Already sent you a message. 😉

What a shame you're so far away. Good luck, submissive feedees are real gems.

I would say it all depends on context and what the nature of your relationship is.

Chubby, but with the potential for so much more.

The only situation in which you should not be asking permission if if you have already arranged ahead of time for some sort of consensual non-consent type situation.

Being skinny-ish I definitely prefer to be the smaller one of course. Being with a BBW means having so much more to love, explore, hold on to, etc.



Contrast I get. Having been very nerdy before it was cool and not exactly smooth with the ladies growing up I can recall a time where the thoughts, though, were "why is she with him." I wouldn't want to put someone through that. I rather like the fact the despite her size my girl still turns heads and gets hit on if I'm not around.

Hi there, welcome.

I was wondering, is there a reason you're only looking online? Is that something temporary or is that the only type of D/s relationship you would want?

Sorry to see you're so far away. You sound fun.

Sad but true. With fetish sites like this it is tough enough when you have legit trolls to deal with, but even tougher when a large portion of the population is only interested in online fantasy and is too scared/repressed to live out their kinks.

Good luck. Hopefully your search is easier than mine. Trying to fit multiple kinks together can lead to some very small sections of a Venn diagram, if you know what I mean.