Honestly, it isn't any different from regular check ups. Once or twice a year is fine usually. Maybe more if they're monitoring meds.
My current doctor is very weight friendly. He brought it up my first visit but because I was up front that I didn't mind my weight and didn't have money for a gym membership he's fine with that. As long as my other numbers stay good he's happy to ignore my weight.
My previous doc would have lectured me, but he was also on my case from the point I passed 200. There was a reason I avoided going to the fat shaming bastard.
4 years
Honestly, I do very little about it. You just have to remember to uncover it before use. It isn't uncomfortable for me except in the cases where you get hard and are still buried. In those cases you either reach down and free yourself or let it build til it pops free, which feels amazing. This is just another part of getting super fat in my eyes so I'm not actively trying to change it.
4 years
The video is set to private, we can't see it.
4 years
I've been as high as 405.
Currently I'm back up to 385-390 but I hit a plateau around here and I have to really work at getting back up to 400+
4 years
For everybody:
1. Are you a: gainer, encourager, mutual gainer or all of the above?
Primarily a Gainer, but definitely an Encourager as well.
2. Sexuality?
Asexual
3. Are you on grommr, feabie or any other gaining related websites?
Not enough to be worth noting.
4. What brought you to fantasyfeeder
The fiction section originally
5. online crushes ?
Nope
6. Best gaining and FA blogs or websites?
Mostly here, some Tumblr.
7. Are you in a relationship? If yes is it a feederism relationship?
Nope, I'm Aromantic, it's why I identify as a Gainer and not a Feedee
8. What did you think about your “urges” before you discovered that gaining was a thing (we’ve all been there)
I've always wanted to be fat, never really worried about it.
9. What do you like most about this community?
At least the parts I interact with are pretty chill.
10. What do you hate most about this community?
Some of you all take this into some really dark places.
11. What is your earliest memory about this scene?
The scene specifically? Probably finding the Dimensions Library.
12. What is your weirdest memory about this scene?
The first time finding people in a Yahoo Group talking about fattening someone without consent in real life.
For gainers:
13. Are you now or have you been actively gaining before?
Yep
14. How long have you been actively gaining?
Off and on for 21 years
15. What is your current weight?
Between 385 and 390
16. What are you current measurements?
61-65-57 lol, be more specific if you want more than 3 sizes.
17. What size clothes you’re wearing?
4-5xl
18. What is your goal in gaining (physically)?
I want a belly that hides my bits. Eventually I want it reach my knees.
19. When it comes to relationships you prefer: a thin encourager, a fat encourager or another gainer?
If I have an encourager I want a fat one who has tried what they're recommending.
I'd prefer a mutual gainer, even if they're smaller than me.
20. When it comes to encouragers do you prefer: forceful, pushy, teasing, handsy, romantic, submissive, good cook? (multiple options are permitted)
In person, good cook is a must.
In general, teasing or a bit pushy. Don't want romantic. Handsy is fine.
21. Would you date a civilian? If so would you tell him about you gaining wishes?
No, as mentioned earlier I'm Aromantic.
22. Have you had casual feeding sessions? Would you like to (or more)?
Yes, and I would love to do more.
23. Being fed by another person or nom by yourself?
I prefer by myself. Nothing wrong with feeding as long as the feeder doesn't get carried away.
24. Eating while fucking (or being fucked)?
No, unless while masturbating counts.
25. Forcefeeding?
Not interested
26. Being teased?
Depends on the setting, it can be fun
27. Being humiliated?
See 26
28. Being worshipped?
Haven't experienced it, could be fun
29. Bossing around an “obliging” encourager?
Not my thing
30. Are you: Dominant, submissive, switch or doesn’t apply?
Doesn't apply
31. Your biggest fantasy gaining wise?
Mutual gaining, any scenario.
32. Your most intense fantasy gaining wise? Would you like to go for it IRL?
A couple fattening each other to supersized, like 500-600 pounds. I'd definitely be up for it.
33. What is something you think you did right when it comes to your gaining lifestyle?
Optimized my living space for minimum movement.
34. What is something you think you did wrong when it comes to your gaining lifestyle?
Picked jobs that didn't mesh with it well.
35. Describe your perfect partner in 3 to 5 sentences.
Don't really have one.
For Encouragers:
36. Are you now or have you been actively encouraging anybody before?
I have before, not currently.
37. For how long?
A couple years
38. What is your goal in gaining (physically)?
I've helped 2 ladies get to the 350-400 range.
39. When it comes to relationships you prefer: an already obese person, a new gainer or it doesn’t matter?
Doesn't matter as long as they're determined to gain.
40. When it comes to gainers do you prefer: Dominant, shameless, proud, submissive, romantic, a lifter or shy? (multiple options are permitted)
Shy is a cute starting place, but shameless and proud is where they're headed.
41. Would you consider fattening up an unsuspecting partner who’s not into gaining?
Never. It's all about consent.
42. Would you consider gaining for your partner?
Yep.
43. Would you date a civilian? If so would you tell him about you feederism wishes?
Nope, still aromantic
44. Have you had casual feeding sessions? Would you like to (or more)?
Yep, if I had someone who wanted to try it.
45. Feeding someone or let him
4 years
Honestly it really depends on your toppings. A meat lovers pizza is probably less healthy, but there are a lot of veggie options on pizza that can help redeem it.
I'd keep an eye on your salt intake, but that's good advice if you're eating out a lot.
4 years
Doesn't help in the least.
The issue is that when I'm looking for recently updated stories I'm getting ones showing up that haven't been updated.
It only effects authors I'm following. When they post a new story I suddenly see their whole catalog as if they updated everything they've written.
However when I look at my notifications or their profile I'm only getting seeing the new story.
There is an issue with the recent additions filter.
4 years
Don't know if anyone else is getting this but when a writer I follow posts a new story I get all of their stories showing up with the recently updated filter.
It's not bad for a lot of writers, but if someone like fanedfox posts a new story I've got pages of his stories showing up.
The notifications don't show any activity with the older stories so I don't know why they're showing up.
4 years
Honestly I always wanted to be huge. Several of my parents friends were quite fat and I wanted to look like them.
The end goal was originally 300 and it's become bigger over time, but I always intended to be huge.
4 years
BigFox:
Ya I'm at the point that my member is fully buried when soft. And just the head will stick out past the fat pad wile standing. But is buried when setting down when hard.
I'm right there with you, but I stay buried while standing too. It's got to be hard to stick out anymore.
4 years