Probably much more psychological – tied to your kink.

Physically, fat generally leads to a declined libido because fat contains aromatase. Aromatase converts testosterone to estrogen. The more fat you have, the more aromatase you have, the higher your estrogen, lower your free testosterone.

And free testosterone is critical to female libido; why women are the most horny when ovulating or right before their periods. This is also why very obese men develop gynecomastia and often have erection issues: super high estrogen, very low T levels tied to their weight.

Every night my wife makes an entire pan of pizza rolls that she douses with oil to make them super crispy.

Honestly, most obese people do not have slow metabolisms. They simply eat so far over their TDEE that no metabolism could ever keep up and they pile on fat.

Most obese people have super fast metabolisms because their body is accustomed to processing massive amounts of calories. This is why super fat people can drop huge double digit weight rapidly by small changes such as cutting out soda. No exercise involved.

While someone slim at 15% body fat has to brutally cut by 500-1,000+ calories and do cardio 1-2x a day to trim just a couple pounds a week.

We were having our final child and so my wife really wanted to relish that pregnancy, live it up. Do all of the stereotypical prego things like eating a bin of ice cream in a sitting. She didn't care how much weight she gained (she was super strict with her diet with out first child).

And those 9 months were very life changing for both of us. I discovered I was an FA seeing her figure blow up over night. And she implemented habits and cravings that she couldn't simply 'turn off' when the pregnancy was over.

She loved her figure after the pregnancy and gave away all of her old clothes. But she's basically continued to gain ever since. Everything from her job, medications have all led to more pounds.

She's in territory she never thought she would be in, which can be uncomfortable at times. But her love for food always seems to outweigh everything else in the end.

My son had a fat young kindergarten teacher who had arguably the best 350lb figure I've personally seen in real life. It was almost like a BBW comic style her proportions were so aesthetically exaggerated.

She went through a divorce late in that school year. The next time I saw her she had lost 200lbs! It was so depressing to see, she looked like your average blah soccer mom bod. Totally unnoticeable in a crowd.

She gained a ton of weight from Oct to Dec. Probably one of the quickest mini-gains she's ever had. And a lot of was driven by her idea that she would try to diet in January (so might as well pig out while I can!).

She's moved to a Keto diet. But she cheats all weekend, every weekend. So it really hasn't been all that effective. And she's simply out of control ravenous on her cheat days - her weight has generally plateaued for the time being.

One thing that really broke through plateaus with my wife is just hanging out in a restaurant longer. Just letting that overly stuffed feeling settle and nurse another beer or two over another 30-60 min.

That also gives her ample time to notice the 'wasted' food on the table, she'll actually start finishing all of the kids' uneaten dinners or the little leftover from the appetizers. Just a good way to stretch the stomach, enjoy that stuffed feeling and condition her that you can always fit in another little drink or few more bites.

"A good mom gets her money's worth and doesn't waste food. A good mom always finishes her kids' uneaten meals and leaves every plate clean for the waitress".

I prefer double bellies. But I like how the giant inflated single bellies make you stand more erect to adjust your center of balance which in turn makes you walk around sticking your giant belly out.

It's hot when a girl is clearly dressing to hide it but she's forced to walk sticking her gut out as much as she can.

Bacon, fried foods, cream, oils, cheeses, nuts, peanut butter. All high in fat, super calorically dense.

Carbs are fine. Just don't smash sugar. There's really no need. And you're playing with fire. These people chugging 2L...diabetes is no joke.

Eat fat and not highly-glycemic simple carbs.

Fat is more than double the calories of carbs/sugar anyways. So it's the easiest way to add calories.