Also true.

And Ditto.

90% of the people here aren't really interested in the fetish as a whole.


This is a gathering place for BBW and big people in general. So when guys say they are feeders, they are just trying to get the attention of the body type they like.


They really don't know anything about the fetish. Not really.


When women say they are feedees, most of the time they are just looking for people who like big women in general and hope the person they attract isn't, you know, too hooked with the idea in the first place.


Finding someone into the fetish AND into some of the same things you are is nearly impossible.


Also, Ghosting is a terrible epidemic of a thing on this site.


I've been ghosted literally thousands of times. People say they want a thing but they don't understand the full depth of the thing they want.



They can't handle it and leave with no warning.


This place will break you. It's mean, unforgiving and the people on it call themselves a community, but anyone who's been here any amount of time knows this place is just a meat market.


No one is out to actually help anyone else. We're all just looking out for number one. What can I get for me with the least amount of effort is the mindset of most people on here.


Communication is near impossible for an extended period of time.


The core of this place is evil. The deeper you go, the worse it becomes.

34 boxes of noodles.

I have all the ground, we come in a lot of different flavors and most of them taste like "Ruined by the internet"

There is nothing natural about what you're doing.

Tell your wife about what your doing. Don't encourage anyone to follow in your footsteps.

Encourage honesty instead. Give it a try.

Fantasies are one thing but if they cross the line into reality and you still can't open up....you've got a problem.

Just gaslighting, man. Mind games. So much for trust in a relationship eh?

This sort of thing ends in self hatred. I guess if you can live with that result, then...cool.

Far be it from me to try and stop you from jumping into the fire.

She's not a character in one of your stories. Stop treating her like one.

Just like every other secret feeder I've ever encountered. Spineless coward.

If you're not man enough to tell her, maybe you picked the wrong woman.

Your actions represent us all. Newbies come on to the site and see this and think stuff like this is okay. Other people looking for a reason to hate us even more use posts like this as a great source of ammo.

You do a disservice to us all.

All I got out of that whole post was "She's not dumb"

You could use a lesson in morality. Just because you can do something doesn't mean you should.

Invite her to the site. Tell her everything. Be a real man. See what happens. I dare you.

Just run lots of hot water through it, should do the trick. Or just use a shorter funnel. That's a thing too.

So you're pushing your fetish on to her and trying to manipulate her into gaining weight over time.

Classy.

No, Faireshade.

It's not too much to ask. You'll get it someday.

So uh...who'd run said camp?