Bella8belly:
My S/O who is also obese started bringing up losing weight. They’ve now lost 20 pounds since saying that, and I’ve put on nearly 20. They keep encouraging me but I can’t help but stuff my face when they aren’t around. Like filling my face and feeling my tummy stretch until I fall asleep and let all those calories build their way into more fat. They eat a lot but work out, it’s been working for them. I tried working out but I’m tired and lazy and like eating a lot. I want to lose weight because I’m so young and technically morbidly obese. Everyday I’m getting new stretch marks and my s/o doesn’t seem to mind much. But I want to be healthy for them, but again I love overeating and fattening myself. I like it a lot but I need to get healthy.
So conflicted. I know there is a bias on the site, but should I keep gaining for a few more years or start losing while I’m this low? I’ve always wondered what it would be like to be 450pounds. I always said if I pushed 500lbs I’d just keep going there would be no going back. But I’m under and I’m afraid if I get to 450 it’ll be hard to go down and I’ll just keep gaining and gaining. I love my expanding waistline and my blubber that I’ve worked on from years of overeating but I need to be healthy.
I dont understand. do you want to loose weight for him or yrself? if a guy wanted you to b fat against yr will you would tell him to ***. well, it's the same thing
5 years
does anybody want to meet in Sydney?
5 years
TheWhipHand:
This Thanksgiving saw some truly heartwarming moments.
First, we had a Feeder / Feedee dinner on Friday night, and someone complimented the little butterball on some additional gains, which didn't seem to embarrass him this time.
That whole week he really seemed to have tucked in, polishing off not only a big dinner Wednesday night in addition to the actual holiday, but eating two casserole dishes full of macaroni and cheese whilst preparing for our Friday night dinner, for which he made four pies.
I invited the Gelato maiden, who is plumping up nicely for some very kinky food fun that night. She and the little husband got on perfectly and it was all in all the perfect weekend.
I hope everyone had a suitably gluttonous holiday.
Lucky you! How did you get in touch with the feeding community? It is very hard to find ppl sharing the same interests
5 years
Mikeyp37:
Hi all
I’ve been with my wife for a few years now and we have both gained weight over that time. When we met I was 14.5 stone and now I’m 18 so gained a little. My wife was around 9 stone and is now pushing 14 stone.
I love the fact we’ve both gained and not on purpose but she hates it and has even said if I like fat women she’s not the woman for me.
Help I don’t know what to do!
Mike
you have to respect what she wants. having said that, I have met a lot of guys, both here and irl, who claim to be into fat women but end up with a skinny one. how come? are you afraid of social stigma? or do you think it's just a coincidence?
5 years
Zelda64:
So It’s almost impossible to find a relationship with someone who’s into this detail. I don’t think it’s wrong to feed someone and have them gain weight if they are into this fetish’s because they would be miserable being thin.
Do u think it’s wrong or immoral to be in a relationship with someone and have them gain weight if they aren’t a feedee but just a normal person who consented. Like they could be in a relationship that would be healthier as the alternative.
Would you spank someone who is not into that?
5 years
Big bouncy belly lover:
My favourite fantasy is having a girlfriend I tie up and feed, make her go out in clothes that are too small, fat bulging everywhere. Carry on feeding her until she's unable to move.
Gradually I'd start eating poorly too, my stomach drooping over her as I sat on her face. People would start to notice. I'd meet another girl who'd comment on my gain, jiggle my fat and ask where my girlfriend was. I'd tell her she was too fat to be out and about.
Id take the new girl to my appartment to show her my girlfriend's fatness, she'd over power me, tie me up and fatten me.
Eventually my girlfriends and my fat would touch from our separate beds, we'd both be helpless. People would pay to feed, jiggle and fuck us and they'd be nothing we could do.
Anyone else have similar fantasies?
so hot... as long as it stays a fantasy
5 years
Victor1993:
I want to become a gainer in the next month and gain about 10-12 lbs as an experiment. But I have doubts about all this. If I will have desire to be thin again? Feedee's lifestyle is very addictive, isn't it?
Yes it is possible, depending on how hard and for how long you try. People who have significant health problems are usually more motivated. But most importantly, people succeed when they want to change for themselves as opposed to people who want to change for others. It's all about motivation really. We often think that external circumstances may affect us but... not really
5 years
Proxlterio:
The Boost and Ensure are also used for helping underweight patients gain weight, I don't know where the weight loss thing came from, as they're pretty much just liquid candy.
ILuvChubbyChix:
Probably because of SlimFast drinks.
I think the idea is to have perhaps just one, in place of a meal. That it would be all the calories you have.
Of course that's never gonna work. You'll probably go mad from hunger and binge.
Basically every diet will make you gain weight long term bc of all the hunger and frustration and overcompensating
6 years
me you another chick
6 years