Size comparison who prefers to be bigger than their partner and why?

My feeder (wife) has been very fit for the last several years - she is a gym rat who ran a few marathons, that sort of thing. For the last few years she has fattened me up to my current size. (I've written the full story in the story section here on FF - "My gaining story - reversal of roles" and in "My gaining story vol. 2" if you're interested.)

We've both loved the contrast - her getting stronger and more fit, me getting fatter and weaker.

Last month she was in Calgary, and was inspired by something that I think will take this comparison to the next level - she wants to start training for the Canada's Strongest Woman competition next year!

She saw it, and was so inspired by the women competing and now she wants to do it! So I think the contrast between fitty and fatty is going to get a little more pronounced! smiley
7 years

Do weight limits ever work?

Not for me... I think I have put on about 30 lbs since I stopped gaining, lol!
7 years

Excuses for overeating

PinkyDear:
At my size?!?
They expect me to overeat!


Same goes for me. If I just got a salad, people would be shocked.
7 years

Anyone have trouble stopping or slowing down?

For me, once my stomach was stretched out by force-feedings and stuffings, it became inevitable. Eventually it took so much food to fill me up, I almost never felt "full."

So, yeah, it gets hard to turn it off and stop!
7 years

Increasing capacity and waistline?

voluptuouslover:
After that all of a sudden you will notice that you need as much food as you were stuffing with to even feel full or satisfied and the belly will grow and the Lbs. will show up....


This is very true. Once you go through the effort of stretching out your stomach, increasing its capacity, you just won't feel full until you eat enough to fill it all up... and you no longer have to TRY to eat a lot, you start to become a slave to it!
7 years

Muscles going soft

TheWhipHand:
It reminds me of when I took my bf hiking. It was an easy hike, and he used to be able to do it. But he's growigrowing fatter, and he was so hot, sweaty, and miserable after barely a mile I told him to go back down and cook something up for us instead.


Very hot... definitely one of the hazards of becoming a fat, doughy butterball.
7 years

Fupa questions

So nice to see another male who is interested in talking about fupa. This is a topic that I find even other really big men are reluctant to talk about (some refuse to let the "p" in fupa = "pubic," and insist they have a "fat pad" not a fupa... which I think is just silly).

Expatbhm:
At what weight did your fupa really begin to develop?


Mine started about mid way between 300-400 lbs, but it was just a minor roll or fold. After 400 it started to really be a "fupa."

At what weight did it cover your penis up when not erect? Erect?


When not erect, it covered my penis probably around 400 lbs, maybe even before? It's kind of hard to tell. Not sure when it happened, but at 500 it covers it when erect as well.

How is your sex life, if you have a large fupa?


The fupa isn't a big issue regarding sex, it can be lifted easily enough. However, the amount of general fat & padding around my penis has made things more challenging, for sure.

What does your partner have to do to achieve insertion or to give you a blow job?


My feeder still can pleasure me orally, but it's just tougher to get to. Not so much due to the fupa, but my thighs are very thick, and the flesh around the penis itself buries it pretty well. We can achieve insertion with a few different positions. Reverse-cowgirl works well, because she can bear down on me with her weight. Biggest thing I miss is doggy style, which just isn't possible anymore. smiley

Can you orgasm by just thrusting into your fupa?


No, although I would love it if I could learn how to do this!
7 years

Question for all

Cascadianjiggle:
I started off only liking fat women, but that changed as I got older and more self confident. Secure in my self image, I had a whole new world open to me.

The idea of, "what if the fat was on me instead of her," as childish as it may seem, was what made me loosen my habits.


My experience was the same... I started out as a thin guy who loved fat girls. It wasn't until much later, when I put on a little weight myself (accidentally), that it occurred that I could enjoy being fat.

Time/age/experience/whatever has opened my eyes to sooo much. Wish I knew all this when I was 25!
7 years

Muscles going soft

Cascadianjiggle:
Gaining is not good for that tight body of yours. As discipline unravels so to do the muscle fibres.

After a month of excess that lift is now too much. With the decline of ability comes the reluctance to participate in that thing which you were so good at.
As old habits new ones rise to take their place. Instead of crunching that core you stuff it. Those legs that once took you all over the place now only lift to go to the store. Those arms lift only to shovel in more food.

Two months go by and habits are once more ingrained in your mind. Those habits could not be more different from your old ones. When people look at you and the things you do, they likely think that your once olympian regime was as mythical as the gods themselves.

A year later goning up that hill you used to sprint up during a HIIT session is a workout even a at snail's pace. Those tree tunks, so disfurged by your excess lumber forwards. In part you go so slow because your thunder thighs rub together from your receding genitals too your knees. Naturally this does nothing but motivate you to stay off your weak and swollen feet.

Each titanic step sends shockwaves through your hanging fat. The abdomen which once resembled an elite athlete's now hangs far past that constricting belt. No longer do you have a core, now you simply have an androgenous sack of lard called a belly. The chasm you call a belly button is no longer where a proper human's should be but instead rides below, resting on your fupa.

And what a sight that fupa is. Below that unmistakable sign of your greed is the fupa: a ring of meat that stretches from thigh to thigh and props up the bottomless pit of hunger that has made you what you are. This fat pad bulges out, like a smaller belly underneath the much, much bigger one. This pad seals all it touches and signals a creature so committed to gluttony that it is willing to sacrifice it's sexual independence so it can eat. What most people would consider the pinnacle of pleasure is being buried alive under a mound of fat. You don't care do you though? You have trained yourself so well that you only respond sexually when food is involved. Your inhibitions so long forgotten that you climax without handling yourself downstairs. All you must do is stuff your pig face and fondle your fat.

Those firm chest muscles atrophied so long ago that you have forgotten what it feels like to flex and feel the muscle react. Now you only know soft fat. As you walk up this hill, you feel these globular mounds shake up and down. Your sensitive nipples push so hard against your tight shirt that you start to get aroused. These innumerable pounds you have put on have made your body weak and sluggish, but so much more sensual. The friction against your bouncing chest makes you want to hurry home fast so you can stuff your fat face, but it is all you can do to manage the pace you are going at.

The two slightly deflated beachballs you carry around behind probably don't help. One of the first things you noticed at the beginning of your metamorphosis was the loosening of your butt. Within a month the tone was gone. Within two months you could feel it shake about of its own volition. It was the burgeoning booty that kept you gaining in the first months. You couldn't help yourself, you had never felt anything like this before. You laughed at your vain attempts to grow your butt by increasing the muscles in it when fat was so much easier and sensual. That love affair has born bountiful fruit. Those firm little cheeks now resembled two loose beanbags that flop around and are only held in place by the restrictive pants you outgrew a month ago.

You have to stop for a moment and catch what breath you can. You also take a moment to stretch your over burdened muscles and as you stretched out your back you feel the fabric of your tight shirt get stuck in your back fat. When you were young you saw a fatty at the water slides and marveled at the way the fat on their back rolled together into a valley. Now that is yours, plus extra. Where your shapeless arms meet your torso is a roll. Where the fat of your chest grows around onto your back and meets the rising sphere of your belly is a roll. This roll runs much further and goes much deeper than the other. If you follow it to the bottom you think you may still able to feel your ribs. That's wishful thinking though isn't it? At the bottom of this gelatinous wilderness is the shelf of your butt. You often struggle to keep the top of this shelf from pushing up your shirt and exposing your long, deep crack. You always noticed fat people could never keep their shirt down and pants pulled up. Now their reality is yours.


Loved reading this! Thank you for posting it!
7 years

Extreme size contrast?

voluptuouslover:
Very cool to find someone that was into this fetish....was it a search or did it just luckily happen?


It actually developed along with our relationship - it wasn't something either of us was seeking out. In fact I was a little surprised by it all, because I like fat people. I was worried that it wouldn't be attractive to me. But it is! I love it!
7 years