I would suggest to try step by step increasing her ability to do daily stuff.
I know this is hard for her, but with her weight she definitely can have better mobility

This is a problem with lack of exercising I would say. My girlfriend did the same. She was laying down on the couch all days long snacking and not moving any more than she needed. Being around 200lbs she was struggling to climb the stairs. It was really insane how out of shape she was. Now she is able to do daily stuff, maybe not easily but it's way better than it was when she was extremely lazy.

Cake, but I like all sweets 😁 my girlfriend too 🤤

Glad to hear that everything is ok ❤️ finger crossed for you, your body and your feelings be yourself, thin or fat ☺️

My girlfriend just realised that she is not able to put any of her shorts at all...
Her swimsuit needs to be replaced too.
She puts around 30lbs since last time she wear them. Now her belly is really too big for it

She was definitely in denial back then. Dietician was very right. My girlfriend realized that she gained some weight and because of that went there. But in fact she gained around 25kg already that time what she was even more in shock. But she stopped exercising and her eating habits degraded completely. You know, all day snacking, daily fast foods, sweets, cakes or sweet drinks. It all comes with really high number of calories 🙈

My girlfriend was surprise when she visited dietician once.
She calculated that my girlfriend is consuming around 8-10k calories per day when she should no more than 2.5k
My girlfriend really was in shock. She was really angry that the dietician is lying that she is eating too much and that her eating habits are not the healthiest 🙈

The biggest I had 33 but I went down to 23 nowadays.
My girlfriend has 40 right now at her biggest.

@Otherday99
How is it going? Did you stop junk foods and snacks? Finger crossed for you! ☺️

It reminds me when my girlfriend realized what she did to her body.
She was thin with her 165cm and 115lbs, quite fit. She stopped to exercise and slowly addicted to fast foods and in no time she was visiting McDonald's almost every day. She also started to crave sweets like cakes, coke etc. everyday to the coffee at work then at home.
When somebody was telling her and her habits and her growing figure she was always surprised and denying, then telling that it's nothing and she can lose it in a week.
First months she was not gaining, probably good metabolism. But later on she went up few sizes, started to struggle in daily things. When she finally realised what she is doing she was almost 200lbs and obese. She was freaking out but it was to hard to stop and change bad habits so she still doesn't start dieting. She is always moving it to next month finding good reason why.
Even today she stuffed her face at McDonald's and went home with few pieces of cake for dessert. I think it's super hard to stop because it's real addiction like drugs. My girlfriend has the same as you, she needs to eat something sweet before going to sleep to feel calm and it's not just piece of chocolate, more like big bar or so.
Like you can imagine she is still gaining more instead of losing her weight, being obese now with around 240 lbs.

If you want to lose weight you need to stop eating fast food today and maybe join some joga group or other sport to have motivation to exercise with others ☺️

I have exactly the same experience.
We started to be together when she was 21y and weight around 120 lbs. Sex was amazing but now it's different level.
Now she is 25y and almost doubled her weight, 230 lbs. Of course she lost all her fitness and stamina, so during sex she is laying down because she is out of breath immediately when we start. But it's amazing to feel her soft body and try new positions. Her tits are still super small, the same as it was when she was fit, so we can't try Spain sex, but with growing ass,.she started to like anal sex and I love it. She just sticks her ass and I'm doing the job playing with her belly.
It's really different level now. But of course it was always amazing to love with her 😊