ScrumptuousSarah wrote:
Is anyone into the idea of being so submissive while being fattened that they allow themselves to be changed? For instance, I l'd like to be so dependent and submissive to a feeder that they could train me with food, and I would slowly be more like an animal who just waddles around and stuffs herself than an actual free-thinking person. Or, at the least have myself be resistant to gaining at first but have myself subtly manipulated and tricked into thinking I love gaining weight.

Belly Admirer wrote:
I think most people in this community do feel alone or alienated at some point or another, onsite or off.

However, I can very much relate to feeling out of place here sometimes as an FFA/female feeder. There seems to be an automatic assumption from many male members that all the women here are BBWs or aspire to be such. Not true!

I get frustrated with all the FAs on this site sometimes. I understand why they are here, as it is the same reason I'm here, but I would say at least 75% of the men I chat with here would prefer it if I was chubby myself.

On the other hand, sometimes I feel I have a lot of common with the FAs and male feeders and have had some great conversations, each respecting the other's current size and disinterest in gaining but enjoying being able to discuss that we like it in others.

At the end of the day, it really comes down to the individual. Some people are jerks. Some people are perfectly nice but have little in common with you. Etc.

I think I've wandered quite off topic. As for real life . . . I can also relate to what the OP said about it being awkward to discuss in real life. Personally, I will admit to preferring chubby guys if it happens to come up, but I've never mentioned the feeder aspect of it all. That's definitely one reason I'm on this site. It feels good to make "friends" (albeit online) I can talk to about all this and know that they relate rather than just thinking I'm strange.

So yeah, if anyone wants a friend (especially if you're another FFA/female feeder who feels out of place sometimes here), I'm open to chatting with most anyone at least once to see if we've got anything to talk about.

Natsuki96 wrote:
I'm a girl feeder and I'm looking for a feedee (around my age)!!^^ I'm a bit annoying, I'm always saying that! haha:$

billedmeup wrote:
Had to post a parallel to the one for girls. I am a straight guy who enjoys videos of young guys getting beer bellies. Not so much in real life, just videos. I think it's because I am fairly thin but turned on by the idea of letting go and gaining weight.

Can anyone else relate?

DMr wrote:
Maybe there are but that still doesn't help the situation. I know there are many guys who have been on here for years, including myself, and haven't come close.

nomorediets wrote:
ok without making it too personal. Crushing,lust,felt soo friggin good. we were messaging on fb exchanged a lot of photos he said he loved me thought wow isn't too soon to b throwing the l word out there. I went on a vacation in the mountains had NO Wi-Fi phone nothing all I did was journal how is was feeling. couldn't wait to get home. I HAD to find out if "moon man" sent me any steamy messages. drove into wifi service. I had no computer to check. So I did the most stupidest thing. I gave my daughter my fb pw. I told her just to check n see if anyone messaged me. there was one message from him. Well...........she clicked on it!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Now,she is disgusted with me. she blocked him from my acct n messaged him (bad stuff) so I get home n rush to my computer hoping to catch him online. I cant accesss his fb acct daughter blocked him (I later unblocked) I am sooooooo mad at her for invading my privacy n starting this mess. I just miss moon man sooo bad. Feel terrible about what happened now he doesn't trust me I don't want this feeling to go away.

onlyagirlafraid wrote:
Thanks Luvhandles. I feel like we have talked before but you were under a different name then. Love your stories by the way. 😊

frootloops wrote:
My biggest overstuffing would have been yesterday when i went out to lunch had a lady walk up to me, rub my belly and ask when i am due. After lunch i went to get cake and while eating i had another lady come up to me and pat my belly and say "maybe you shouldn't eat that", it was awesome
Then went to work and i was eating more there because i work in a bakery my button up shirt was already stretching out to hold my belly in but then after my vanilla slice my shirt popped open and my belly knocked my drink over but my manager saw and asked me to come back to her office for a new shirt. She had the measuring tape out but it was a small one and it didnt fit around my belly and then she grabing my belly from the side and telling me i am getting too big. I had to wear an old christmas shirt but i managed to squeeze more in so the shirt was raised up my belly.
Best day ever !!

onlyagirlafraid wrote:
Seriously got a message that asked if I wanted to be some guy's *** pig, and it only got more vulgar from there. I didn't know this person, never talked to them or commented on their stuff. Days like that, you wanna wipe your account and never come back.

TheStoryteller wrote:
Well, I'm not really on this site for any purpose other than reading stories, but I just kind of feel alone with my fetish. FFAs appear to be the rarest type of fat fetishists, and it feels bad not to have a friend I can share my feelings and thoughts with.
I mean sure, I can tell my friends I really want this ultra-chubby guy and that I think he's sexy, but they can't relate to any of that.
Just felt like sharing this.