fatchance:
I agree, but isn't it interesting how acceptable it is in our society to say "if you don't LOSE weight I don't think I can love you anymore"
They are both equally bad when they are put that way, if you want your partner to change something about themselves it shouldn't be put in the form of threats and ultimatums.
3 years
Well I found this gem
3 years
I LOVE it, when professional guys in heir 40-50 just embrace the chub and give up the fight against their inner fatty, something about either the late revelation in life, or about the idea of feederism just wearing them out make it very sexy to me!
The world needs more fat people
3 years
As a very gay man who's not fat and identify as a feeder, I started looking at straight porn of BBWs and Feedees and I enjoyed them alot, I guess I get off on that dynamics rather than the person itself, I would never have sex with a woman, just because it feels unfair of me to experiment on unsuspecting people, also because I prefer to have an active/dom role when it comes to sex so I need to be 100% in it. But still, I take a double look whenever I see a big lady in the street, and I always wondered what do big lady boobs feel like
I guess what I'm trying to say is that sexuality is fluid, especially in a community like this, where I see more and more people who constantly blur the line between genders, sexuality and conventional roles.
I guess fat conquers all
3 years
I think the general consensus is that if you kept your blood sugar down (by reducing sugar and highly processed white flour) your blood pressure down (by staying away from salt and drinking water) and cholesterol down (by staying away from trans fats and doing cardio) you'll be okay! you'll be taking the scenic route with your gaining, but who cares, as long as you're enjoying the process)
3 years
this interview that was conducted with a gainer for a mainstream publication:
metro.co.uk/2020/08/12/meet-gainer-bull-500lb-13117251/- How go you feel when people from the community go mainstream with feederism?
- My personal opinion is that they do more harm than good by oversensualising the subject, and realistically, even if the world started to become more accepting of fat and fat people, it would always be harsher on people who try get fat on purpose, portraying it like some sort of extreme mental manipulation. That's why I prefer for kinks to stay within kink communities.
3 years
So, I've been browsing some feederism Porn (quarantine life) and I've noticed something... there is a very noticeable lack of male feedees in the industry, and the ones who exist usually are fake feedees and almost all of them cater to gay audience!
I understand that Porn in general targets men over women (doesn't mean I agree it should be that way) .. but how about straight make feedees, how do they get off?
3 years
wanttobefat600:
I've never been typically attracted to men, however, I find myself taking interest recently in obese men. I would never want a serious relationship witb a man, however I have been recently considering sex with obese guys and find their bellies cute in their own special way from a cute female belly
Well your profile says that you're very much into being as big as possible, so maybe you're projecting, you're turned on because you want to be them, not because you want to be with them ... some straight identifying guys are even turned on by the idea of being fed and fattened up by other male feeders fat or thin, I suppose they just love the dynamics of that relationship no matter who's on the other end of it.
But sexuality is fluid and is changing all the time, I encourage you to try new things as long as you feel comfortable and safe.
3 years
