There's a bunch of discord servers where people have created channels in. A few of them are public and if you briefly log back into Tumblr, I'm sure that someone has posted a link to them somewhere if you do a quick search.

Watched Bandersnatch which is fabulous for anyone who likes a bit more of a cerebral watch -- though technically it's an episode of black mirror. You can watch it like a film though -- sort of. It's hard to describe. It's an interactive film.

You probably haven't seen anything like it.

I feel that! Force-feeding and fattening up from it is like the ultimate submission.

As for arranging the event itself, you should be able to find a casino that does private events and it shouldn't really be an issue.

As for clientele -- maybe set up a website or a page on twitter or something where people can RSVP. Assume that only 2/3 of that will actually show up. Maybe you could charge a ticket price (which most Casinos will require you to do as the charge is usually per person).

For women -- Maybe go to fetlife and talk to some of the organizers of events there. Some events are better than others and I get it, a lot of those events are not "our kink" but a lot of those people have been handling questions like that for a long time -- some more successfully than others.

There are ways to make kink positive spaces inclusive for women, but ShakesSphere is right -- many women don't want to go to them. It's not because they're shy, but frequently because being in a kink space inherently means there's going to be a bunch of people that expect sex out of you and can raise the chances of sexual assault and pervy dudes. You can block someone online but in real life people can just keep following you around.

Potential solution: make it a week long event or a few days with different days for different people? Or try to find a way to have workshops or something that specifically women-only spaces? Potentially getting a female organizer onboard might help you out, too.

Women deserve places to exercise their sexuality, too without feeling objectified and that's the key to an event like that being successful, I think.

Have you adjusted your BMR rate? Your basic caloric needs go up as your weight goes up. It's possible you haven't adjusted for your new weight.

Sometimes your metabolism will adjust to your food intake as well, so possibly changing the times of day you eat might help.

Best of luck!

This is an interesting article. I thought it was rubbish at first, or like a title for a story but no. This is a legitimate study done by an NYU professor. Cool stuff man~ Thanks for sharing!

I'd be curious to see actual numbers on this. I've met more male feedees than female personally, but then I'm in the queer community so I guess that skews my experience. Still, it would be interesting to find that out.

On a different note, another misconception is that it has to be a BDSM kind of relationship. In the dynamic I'm in, it's more like we spoil each other and take care of each other. As a feeder I like making them happy and spoiling them and their growing is kind of a by-product of that. Point is, feedism can be fluffy sometimes.

That sounds like a lot of fun tbh~

Personally I yo-yo gaining and loosing 15-20 pounds at a time. Personally I love stuffing and getting stuff and the act of fattening up, but as soon as I feel like I have a hard time climbing (rock climbing is a big outlet for me) then I loose it down again.

I think with different people it's different though.

Bit of a switch--
I do like getting tied down and force fed and fattened though. Having a plump belly from someone else's doing is just the best. I feel like it's a bit like an ownership thing, like a collar.

I enjoy domming others if I'm fattening them, but definitely a soft dom who spoils feedees.