But yes. They should remember they're dealing with a real, living, breathing person and ask first. It's not about their enjoyment alone, lol.
Yeah, they can go the other way easily too alright. Whatever happened to a happy medium? *chuckles*
And the guys do often get rather... 'excited' and forget their manners, it would appear, which is a shame.
Depends on the hours one is in chat and if someone's got enough fire to bring it alive at the time.