Oh, that one might have had an id check made of them. They tend to run for it if they aren't real.
Also, that could be it. They could be trying to handle 10+ men at once trying to be polite but it's not something that a person can do and it ends up falling to bits.
It's like... imagine what it's like getting bombarded, hour after hour, day after day, week after week with chat requests/etc. Lots of them. It all blurs in together. How can they accept them
As I told one fellow before, it's common courtesy to chat in the General room first. Or whisper, if one wants to be a little more private. Better than hammering a lady with private chat requests o
Women often get many, many, many, many, many, many, MANY chat requests from many men in there.