Sophie do you have a candid picture of You in that bikini last year that you could crop and post here? The comparison with 40 new lbs would be Amazing.
The Bored thing is certainly not new here Ditzy. Actually I have seen it much Less the last couple years. So Much So that I was surprised someone said it.
AFK I have friends here that I have corresponded with for 5 years. And of course like you I have had many that disappeared as well. Stop griping. It will work out for You if you're patient.