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WideJuan76
4 years
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what was the most memorable teasing about your weight that you enjoyed?
I remember when I first started to gain and my ex teased me about how I grew a belly apron and I overheard her talking to some of her friends about how it was to be with a fat man and her friends w...
what was the most memorable teasing about your weight that you enjoyed?
I remember when I first started to gain and my ex teased me about how I grew a belly apron and I overheard her talking to some of her friends about how it was to be with a fat man and her friends w...
WideJuan76
4 years
WideJuan76
4 years
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likelihood of someone re-gaining weight back?
WideJuan76:
Either way, sooner or later we will give in. The truth is, for most if us it is a matter of time
NYCBellyBlimp:
it is harder to put in the rear view mirror long term, the further d...
likelihood of someone re-gaining weight back?
WideJuan76:
Either way, sooner or later we will give in. The truth is, for most if us it is a matter of time
NYCBellyBlimp:
it is harder to put in the rear view mirror long term, the further d...
WideJuan76
4 years
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likelihood of someone re-gaining weight back?
Either way, sooner or later we will give in. The truth is, for most if us it is a matter of time
likelihood of someone re-gaining weight back?
Either way, sooner or later we will give in. The truth is, for most if us it is a matter of time
WideJuan76
4 years
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how do you deal when you feel unattractive to the general population?
WideJuan76:
THIS IS SOLID ADVICE. I would only add that with our obesity we have to like being obese compared to how other people see us because I don't pay attention to them anymore. I know that ...
how do you deal when you feel unattractive to the general population?
WideJuan76:
THIS IS SOLID ADVICE. I would only add that with our obesity we have to like being obese compared to how other people see us because I don't pay attention to them anymore. I know that ...
WideJuan76
4 years
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being cut out of your home.
I wholeheartedly would like the same but every situation that I have encountered in which the person got so obese that they had to knock out a wall to get them out most never wanted to go into ...
being cut out of your home.
I wholeheartedly would like the same but every situation that I have encountered in which the person got so obese that they had to knock out a wall to get them out most never wanted to go into ...
WideJuan76
4 years
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likelihood of someone re-gaining weight back?
WideJuan76:
I recently had to switch up and my doctors wanted me to lose weight and I am doing it slowly but when you have food and fat addiction like I do then anything will trigger me and I will...
likelihood of someone re-gaining weight back?
WideJuan76:
I recently had to switch up and my doctors wanted me to lose weight and I am doing it slowly but when you have food and fat addiction like I do then anything will trigger me and I will...
WideJuan76
4 years
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likelihood of someone re-gaining weight back?
I recently had to switch up and my doctors wanted me to lose weight and I am doing it slowly but when you have food and fat addiction like I do then anything will trigger me and I will be house...
likelihood of someone re-gaining weight back?
I recently had to switch up and my doctors wanted me to lose weight and I am doing it slowly but when you have food and fat addiction like I do then anything will trigger me and I will be house...
WideJuan76
4 years
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how do you deal when you feel unattractive to the general population?
THIS IS SOLID ADVICE. I would only add that with our obesity we have to like being obese compared to how other people see us because I don't pay attention to them anymore. I know that I am gros...
how do you deal when you feel unattractive to the general population?
THIS IS SOLID ADVICE. I would only add that with our obesity we have to like being obese compared to how other people see us because I don't pay attention to them anymore. I know that I am gros...
WideJuan76
4 years
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how do you deal when you feel unattractive to the general population?
Both Ditzy and NY37 are spot on and what I can add is this. Not paying folks attention is both a skill and a muscle and what you have to realize is that we are way harder on ourselves than othe...
how do you deal when you feel unattractive to the general population?
Both Ditzy and NY37 are spot on and what I can add is this. Not paying folks attention is both a skill and a muscle and what you have to realize is that we are way harder on ourselves than othe...
WideJuan76
4 years
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the mental allure of 300 pounds and up
I have always been bigger and even during my sports days my weight was around 220 playing basketball and around 260 playing American football so 300 was always a reachable weight so for me going to...
the mental allure of 300 pounds and up
I have always been bigger and even during my sports days my weight was around 220 playing basketball and around 260 playing American football so 300 was always a reachable weight so for me going to...
WideJuan76
4 years
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how fat would you like to be?
Yeah, it was a completely different mindset there. It was way slower than what it is up here and they have an almost absurdist mentality with how they see things in which they kept telling me h...
how fat would you like to be?
Yeah, it was a completely different mindset there. It was way slower than what it is up here and they have an almost absurdist mentality with how they see things in which they kept telling me h...
WideJuan76
4 years
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flaunting belly
But this is why I approach them first. Before Covid here in my area, after years of getting over the idea pathogen that folks were actually paying attention to how my gut sways and hangs as I w...
flaunting belly
But this is why I approach them first. Before Covid here in my area, after years of getting over the idea pathogen that folks were actually paying attention to how my gut sways and hangs as I w...
WideJuan76
4 years
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flaunting belly
Here is the truth, no one cares anymore. I remember in the nineties, if you were obese and had your gut showing then people would say something but not today. I see people with their guts hangi...
flaunting belly
Here is the truth, no one cares anymore. I remember in the nineties, if you were obese and had your gut showing then people would say something but not today. I see people with their guts hangi...
WideJuan76
4 years
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eating for free at restaurants.
My ex and I would travel during the Summer to the South and we took those type of places on as a challenge but she was more of a stuffer than I ever could be. I can eat large quantities of fo...
eating for free at restaurants.
My ex and I would travel during the Summer to the South and we took those type of places on as a challenge but she was more of a stuffer than I ever could be. I can eat large quantities of fo...
WideJuan76
4 years
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how fat would you like to be?
I am from the North East near DC but raised between there and NYC so I had no idea about how southern women treated their male counterparts and I am talking about in traditional middle class to...
how fat would you like to be?
I am from the North East near DC but raised between there and NYC so I had no idea about how southern women treated their male counterparts and I am talking about in traditional middle class to...
WideJuan76
4 years
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how fat would you like to be?
WideJuan76:
I don't know why but there are plenty down there. To them, the fatter that they could make their husband proved to other women from other families that they could take care of their me...
how fat would you like to be?
WideJuan76:
I don't know why but there are plenty down there. To them, the fatter that they could make their husband proved to other women from other families that they could take care of their me...
WideJuan76
4 years
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30 lbs and still gaining the
I wholeheartedly agree. Some of us have always like getting fat while others grew it. However you waddle "out of the kitchen" doesn't matter if you really dig deep and realize that you would ra...
30 lbs and still gaining the
I wholeheartedly agree. Some of us have always like getting fat while others grew it. However you waddle "out of the kitchen" doesn't matter if you really dig deep and realize that you would ra...
WideJuan76
4 years
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how fat would you like to be?
I don't know why but there are plenty down there. To them, the fatter that they could make their husband proved to other women from other families that they could take care of their men the bes...
how fat would you like to be?
I don't know why but there are plenty down there. To them, the fatter that they could make their husband proved to other women from other families that they could take care of their men the bes...
WideJuan76
4 years
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how fat would you like to be?
WideJuan76:
It isn't nor do they call it what they call it online. I didn't even know down south that it was sort of like a tradition for some families
NYCBellyBlimp:
Just smh as I know about ...
how fat would you like to be?
WideJuan76:
It isn't nor do they call it what they call it online. I didn't even know down south that it was sort of like a tradition for some families
NYCBellyBlimp:
Just smh as I know about ...
