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how many people know about your fetish?
Not sure if I answered this before but recently told a very good friend about it, she was super cool about it and I had a feeling she would be! We had such a good talk about it—I was actually lea...
how many people know about your fetish?
Not sure if I answered this before but recently told a very good friend about it, she was super cool about it and I had a feeling she would be! We had such a good talk about it—I was actually lea...
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how to have enjoyable casual sex?
There are a lot of people out there seeking simply casual or feedist-only engagements. However be smart about it: if it becomes a regular thing with someone you must make it a point to check-in and...
how to have enjoyable casual sex?
There are a lot of people out there seeking simply casual or feedist-only engagements. However be smart about it: if it becomes a regular thing with someone you must make it a point to check-in and...
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how to have "the talk" with your partner
After seeing a ton of questions about this, helping friends through these conversations, etc., I finally sat down and wrote a guide about how to have the kink talk with your partner, whether or not...
how to have "the talk" with your partner
After seeing a ton of questions about this, helping friends through these conversations, etc., I finally sat down and wrote a guide about how to have the kink talk with your partner, whether or not...
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female/lesbian feedees. do you exist?
we exist! alas, I may be a smidge old for you though
female/lesbian feedees. do you exist?
we exist! alas, I may be a smidge old for you though

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avoid the topic because it's sexy
no, it doesn't bother me. None of my friends or families know but it's not like it's their business, but talking about eating/getting stuffed/gaining weight is not inherently sexual to me so it's f...
avoid the topic because it's sexy
no, it doesn't bother me. None of my friends or families know but it's not like it's their business, but talking about eating/getting stuffed/gaining weight is not inherently sexual to me so it's f...
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anyone else with this fetish struggle with an eating disorder?
What I think is that it's disgusting and dehumanizing to use feedists who have eating disorders as a mere token of discussion in a sexual conversation. and it's also irresponsible to encourage them...
anyone else with this fetish struggle with an eating disorder?
What I think is that it's disgusting and dehumanizing to use feedists who have eating disorders as a mere token of discussion in a sexual conversation. and it's also irresponsible to encourage them...
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anyone else with this fetish struggle with an eating disorder?
absolutely not. No. NO. This is such an irresponsible question to even consider. Only—ONLY—qualified medical and mental health providers can do this.
a kink is not a treatment for a disorde...
anyone else with this fetish struggle with an eating disorder?
absolutely not. No. NO. This is such an irresponsible question to even consider. Only—ONLY—qualified medical and mental health providers can do this.
a kink is not a treatment for a disorde...
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anyone else with this fetish struggle with an eating disorder?
I've only come to understand in the last 5 years or so that I likely struggled with EDNOS as an adolescent and likely orthorexia in my 20s. It's a story I'm actually not really ready to tell, but f...
anyone else with this fetish struggle with an eating disorder?
I've only come to understand in the last 5 years or so that I likely struggled with EDNOS as an adolescent and likely orthorexia in my 20s. It's a story I'm actually not really ready to tell, but f...
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story ideas for others to use
I looovveee the thriller idea, I have a couple of dystopian novels very loosely in a similar vein. I may very well write something with it
story ideas for others to use
I looovveee the thriller idea, I have a couple of dystopian novels very loosely in a similar vein. I may very well write something with it

rich bosses are always weird
Stephanie has picked up a cushy job with the strangest and most charismatic boss she's ever had. But after a usually-unusual afternoon at the office, Stephanie can't help but accept Alan's invitation to dinner...
New story
Some buttwipe who was fortunate enough to receive this ghosted me but I figured it was too good not to share. My boobs look tiny in this but I promise you they're not :) (lurkers: this is not an invitation for creepy comments or DMs)
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for fat art, do you prefer fanart or original characters?
I feel the same. I think there are some characters and IPs that are basically considered some feedist/expansionist canon one way or another but something completely unrelated, I just can't do. ...
for fat art, do you prefer fanart or original characters?
I feel the same. I think there are some characters and IPs that are basically considered some feedist/expansionist canon one way or another but something completely unrelated, I just can't do. ...
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foods that swell you up "guilt free"
One time I had a feeder pop on and stuff me silly with whatever I was having for dinner, which was rice and steamed veggies like broccoli and cauliflower. It worked like a charm after a couple of h...
foods that swell you up "guilt free"
One time I had a feeder pop on and stuff me silly with whatever I was having for dinner, which was rice and steamed veggies like broccoli and cauliflower. It worked like a charm after a couple of h...
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too rude people on this site...
I wish we could upvote because Elle is 100% correct
too rude people on this site...
I wish we could upvote because Elle is 100% correct
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soft foods?
anything full-fat dairy: yogurt, cottage cheese, ricotta, milk of course. Suuuppeerrr soft cheesees, even better if you can soften/melt them.
Avocados!
Mash up bananas, make smoothies with t...
soft foods?
anything full-fat dairy: yogurt, cottage cheese, ricotta, milk of course. Suuuppeerrr soft cheesees, even better if you can soften/melt them.
Avocados!
Mash up bananas, make smoothies with t...
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what are the best categories for organizing our stories?
Well I did already describe this a bit in an earlier comment: model the AO3 system. Otherwise, this forum really does not lend itself to describing what kind of organization needs to happen and...
what are the best categories for organizing our stories?
Well I did already describe this a bit in an earlier comment: model the AO3 system. Otherwise, this forum really does not lend itself to describing what kind of organization needs to happen and...
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what are the best categories for organizing our stories?
Not library systems, but I do handle data management and this kind of organization a lot for a day job so if you're serious about asking for help I can definitely assist.
what are the best categories for organizing our stories?
Not library systems, but I do handle data management and this kind of organization a lot for a day job so if you're serious about asking for help I can definitely assist.