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oh, that delicious apron gut🥰
I had this issue back when I was around two fifty but now with a low hanging gut it makes it really obvious and I have the 5XL shirts and still it hangs lower than my shirts but when I was in t...

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dominant slob feedee and feeder slave fantasy
I have always been the chill type of guy but I met a young lady in North Carolina when I moved there to fulfill my feedee fantasies I met a guy who had started a group of dom feedees and he bec...

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being cut out of your home.
When I got to over four hundred, I had to come to grips that if I just stop caring that I am within reach but I have to admit that being that obese that I would need to be cut out of my room wo...

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expecting pants to fit - and they don’t
I only wear jogging type pants now anyway but since March I had to start using suspenders for my slacks but I was so self conscious about them at first but now I have to concede because when you gu...

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quarantine weight gain
About 40 pounds since March and elbow and knee rolls

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humiliation & submission
Growing up, I had always identified with being the jock but I was always chubby but when I graduated and moved away that was when I learned about the life. When I started to gain, I didn't lik...

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when did you realize you wanted to be fat?
I have to concur. It is based on genetics

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why do you think so many feeders become feedees?
I think that it mostly comes from the realization that you can't find alot of feeders that are in your area so you eventually turn that inward. I have always had feeder tendencies because I was tau...

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when did you realize you wanted to be fat?
Just wait until you go through the transition and notice the changes that people never talk about like the first time like how you feel you gut hang below your shirt so you will love the new fe...

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how do you know if you like fat on others only or if you like fat on yourself?
There are so many gems in this whole statement but the biggest truth is that fat is a major commitment being obese. I can't put on my gut and get a nice ego boost; this gut not only took effort...

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how do you know if you like fat on others only or if you like fat on yourself?
Yeah, I totally concur with what LilRascl said; you have time to explore this life and see what is practical for you and then adjust accordingly.

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what could be done to stop so many from leaving the community?
Yeah, that dude from the other night was beyond crazy but folks just have to take this site for what it is and note and log in got intel when you get it, store in the contact information of tho...

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how do you tell a close friend or a significant other that you might want to get fat on purpose?
There is no easy nor simplistic answer to this and it actually depends on whom you are dealing with and their temperament as far as friends and family are concerned. Some will get it while most...

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what could be done to stop so many from leaving the community?
Thanks sir, I just try to keep things as chill and be as real as can because I know some of the philosophy of this life and I just try to give it freely

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what could be done to stop so many from leaving the community?
But this is why I tell folks that they must be their own feeder because too many folks just use this site to jerk off to the fat talk or beg you to give them money so you must become the fulles...

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what could be done to stop so many from leaving the community?
There is nothing much you can do to stop folks from leaving until you can make this lifestyle of ours mainstream and it might never get like that because we live in a consumer society and they know...

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what could be done to stop so many from leaving the community?
Agreed, I have been with several women like this and at first it is very off putting because you don't think that they are being real about your attraction until you catch them playing with you...

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what could be done to stop so many from leaving the community?
There are women out here who love and get our life and most of them I have met were from the south. I moved to North Carolina and South Carolina and the ladies were competing to see how fat the...

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what could be done to stop so many from leaving the community?
But that is why I keep telling folks that most are just here to jack off in front of their computer screen and that is just the nature of the beast with this site and this life. That is why I j...

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what could be done to stop so many from leaving the community?
Here is the truth, some folks on here can be weird and will just block you just because they were in the chat talking to someone who ghosted them and then they will block you just for looking o...