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WideJuan76
3 years
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do you ever really notice how far you've gotten?
I nothing it all the time. I just noticed today that my calf fat jiggles as I waddle so that is a new sensation
do you ever really notice how far you've gotten?
I nothing it all the time. I just noticed today that my calf fat jiggles as I waddle so that is a new sensation
WideJuan76
3 years
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is there a massive gender imbalance in this community?
Truth is, our society does teach folks to be overtly narcissistic and solipsistic but one has to have an abundance mindset when dealing with this. I work as a stage manager for artists like G H...
is there a massive gender imbalance in this community?
Truth is, our society does teach folks to be overtly narcissistic and solipsistic but one has to have an abundance mindset when dealing with this. I work as a stage manager for artists like G H...
WideJuan76
3 years
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is there a massive gender imbalance in this community?
The truth is that for some this life is something to be hidden, others it is just a passing fetish and the truth is that most are just pretending because they have that right to pretend so we ...
is there a massive gender imbalance in this community?
The truth is that for some this life is something to be hidden, others it is just a passing fetish and the truth is that most are just pretending because they have that right to pretend so we ...
WideJuan76
3 years
That moment when your hanging gut slaps your thighs as you walk up to order three orders of chicken from Royal Farms
WideJuan76
3 years
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is there a massive gender imbalance in this community?
Well said, and those are all valid points. My anecdotal experience has shown me that in my particular situation that the more that I focused on me and gaining the more attention that I got. I h...
is there a massive gender imbalance in this community?
Well said, and those are all valid points. My anecdotal experience has shown me that in my particular situation that the more that I focused on me and gaining the more attention that I got. I h...
WideJuan76
3 years
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is there a massive gender imbalance in this community?
I think that more dudes have the kink than we realize but the truth is that they miss some key points. One, they can express this fetish online but not in real life. I have come across so many ...
is there a massive gender imbalance in this community?
I think that more dudes have the kink than we realize but the truth is that they miss some key points. One, they can express this fetish online but not in real life. I have come across so many ...
WideJuan76
3 years
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fat or thin faces?
You are not an outlier; there are plenty of us who like that contrast. Most of the young lovely ladies that I have dated have that exact same contrast and they owned the fact that their obese b...
fat or thin faces?
You are not an outlier; there are plenty of us who like that contrast. Most of the young lovely ladies that I have dated have that exact same contrast and they owned the fact that their obese b...
WideJuan76
3 years
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conflicted about gaining
My sentiments exactly. This gift as I call it effects each of us differently. I have always liked bigger women and my ex introduced me to this life. Over time, she introduced me to what if I st...
conflicted about gaining
My sentiments exactly. This gift as I call it effects each of us differently. I have always liked bigger women and my ex introduced me to this life. Over time, she introduced me to what if I st...
WideJuan76
3 years
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too fat for sex - anyone experienced this?
For most of us this is the inevitable conclusion and what happens is that eventually eating becomes your only way to get off. Unless you can find a mate to help you out; you will be stuck in a loop...
too fat for sex - anyone experienced this?
For most of us this is the inevitable conclusion and what happens is that eventually eating becomes your only way to get off. Unless you can find a mate to help you out; you will be stuck in a loop...
WideJuan76
3 years
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dating non feedist people
This whole statement is spot on. Every female that I dated after I gained hated the fact of fetish and yet they partook of the food and libations and as they saw themselves as fatter they came in...
dating non feedist people
This whole statement is spot on. Every female that I dated after I gained hated the fact of fetish and yet they partook of the food and libations and as they saw themselves as fatter they came in...
WideJuan76
3 years
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snacking & not knowing when to stop
Anytime playa, those of us who have waddled into the obese sunken place have to realize that at the core of this; we are addicts. We are addicted to the taste of food, to how the flavor sets of...
snacking & not knowing when to stop
Anytime playa, those of us who have waddled into the obese sunken place have to realize that at the core of this; we are addicts. We are addicted to the taste of food, to how the flavor sets of...
WideJuan76
3 years
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conflicted about gaining
You don't have to ruin your life. You are self conscious about liking fat and that is normal. If you don't want to get too fat then don't; you can always dream about it through visualizations.
conflicted about gaining
You don't have to ruin your life. You are self conscious about liking fat and that is normal. If you don't want to get too fat then don't; you can always dream about it through visualizations.
WideJuan76
3 years
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snacking & not knowing when to stop
We all have had those feelings and that is why most of us are fat because we surround ourselves with comfort foods and they release dopamine and serotonin so our brains just go on autopilot and we ...
snacking & not knowing when to stop
We all have had those feelings and that is why most of us are fat because we surround ourselves with comfort foods and they release dopamine and serotonin so our brains just go on autopilot and we ...
WideJuan76
3 years
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how much do you bumb into objects/chairs in your daily life?
I had no issues with that until I kept bumping into things and I have never been the clumsy type. But when it kept happening then I had to face the fact that I take up way more space and I have to ...
how much do you bumb into objects/chairs in your daily life?
I had no issues with that until I kept bumping into things and I have never been the clumsy type. But when it kept happening then I had to face the fact that I take up way more space and I have to ...
WideJuan76
3 years
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conflicted about gaining
Then you might have to start seeing a future with someone who is into it. That is easier said than done but your frustrations will only get worse.
conflicted about gaining
Then you might have to start seeing a future with someone who is into it. That is easier said than done but your frustrations will only get worse.
WideJuan76
3 years
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conflicted about gaining
Try it for yourself. Just imagine what it would look and feel like to be exactly how you see yourself in your imagination. Wouldn't that feel amazing not having to hide that ?
conflicted about gaining
Try it for yourself. Just imagine what it would look and feel like to be exactly how you see yourself in your imagination. Wouldn't that feel amazing not having to hide that ?
WideJuan76
3 years
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conflicted about gaining
You have to train your mind into slowly becoming that. I used meditation to help with that. Every day, I would lay back and visualize myself in that newer way until my brain had no choice to evolv...
conflicted about gaining
You have to train your mind into slowly becoming that. I used meditation to help with that. Every day, I would lay back and visualize myself in that newer way until my brain had no choice to evolv...
WideJuan76
3 years
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conflicted about gaining
You have to reframe it in your mind that you have a hanging gut now. You have to keep reminding yourself that you can feel your back fat grab your shirts as you wear them and that you move way ...
conflicted about gaining
You have to reframe it in your mind that you have a hanging gut now. You have to keep reminding yourself that you can feel your back fat grab your shirts as you wear them and that you move way ...
WideJuan76
3 years
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when did you start to waddle?
I didn't start waddling until I started to feel my thighs fully touch and my gut dropped into my lap and the fuda didn't help either but the transitional sensations were the best
when did you start to waddle?
I didn't start waddling until I started to feel my thighs fully touch and my gut dropped into my lap and the fuda didn't help either but the transitional sensations were the best
WideJuan76
3 years
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conflicted about gaining
Don't be so hard on yourself; you are still young and you are starting to realize that this is a part of who you are. You are just at a crossroads; it is the anxiety of getting obese and how yo...
conflicted about gaining
Don't be so hard on yourself; you are still young and you are starting to realize that this is a part of who you are. You are just at a crossroads; it is the anxiety of getting obese and how yo...
