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snacking & not knowing when to stop
Anytime playa, those of us who have waddled into the obese sunken place have to realize that at the core of this; we are addicts. We are addicted to the taste of food, to how the flavor sets of...

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conflicted about gaining
You don't have to ruin your life. You are self conscious about liking fat and that is normal. If you don't want to get too fat then don't; you can always dream about it through visualizations.

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snacking & not knowing when to stop
We all have had those feelings and that is why most of us are fat because we surround ourselves with comfort foods and they release dopamine and serotonin so our brains just go on autopilot and we ...

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how much do you bumb into objects/chairs in your daily life?
I had no issues with that until I kept bumping into things and I have never been the clumsy type. But when it kept happening then I had to face the fact that I take up way more space and I have to ...

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conflicted about gaining
Then you might have to start seeing a future with someone who is into it. That is easier said than done but your frustrations will only get worse.

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conflicted about gaining
Try it for yourself. Just imagine what it would look and feel like to be exactly how you see yourself in your imagination. Wouldn't that feel amazing not having to hide that ?

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conflicted about gaining
You have to train your mind into slowly becoming that. I used meditation to help with that. Every day, I would lay back and visualize myself in that newer way until my brain had no choice to evolv...

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conflicted about gaining
You have to reframe it in your mind that you have a hanging gut now. You have to keep reminding yourself that you can feel your back fat grab your shirts as you wear them and that you move way ...

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when did you start to waddle?
I didn't start waddling until I started to feel my thighs fully touch and my gut dropped into my lap and the fuda didn't help either but the transitional sensations were the best

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conflicted about gaining
Don't be so hard on yourself; you are still young and you are starting to realize that this is a part of who you are. You are just at a crossroads; it is the anxiety of getting obese and how yo...

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any ladies who want to become "ugly" ?
Yeah, I have dated women in the past who wanted the experience of what it would feel like to get fat and not be seen under the typical societal viewpoints of being "attractive"

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anybody else feel shame/embarrassment?
I used to but I recently read this book by Dr. Gad Saad called The Parasitic Mind and it dealt with Idea Pathogens and how culture and our gullibility to believe fantasy based concepts comes from a...

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do you get embarrassed?
I was an ex athlete and I used to show off to the crowd but that in and itself becomes its own addiction so eventually as I gained I started to realize that it was the shame and embarrassment that ...

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over or under?
Truth is, either way I still look like Fat Albert so I will put it in when being formal while letting it hang when going to the store to let the gut breathe. Lol.

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the awareness you gain once you have arrived as a fat person.....
But such is the benefits of this "gift"; your vantage point changes and when you were smaller the main goal was to become intimate with someone body to body and when you date ssbbw's like I do now....

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tell me, how do you cope with negative reactions due to your weight?
It depends on whom you are referring to giving you the negative comments. I could care less what some random person thinks and says because I used to get upset when I first started this but eventua...

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can’t stop
I call what we have the gift because it germinates in people differently. I live the food but my addiction came with the getting fatter and building subcutaneous fat (the flabby kind). I had always...

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i don’t know what to do with myself anymore
Ask yourself if this lifestyle is something that you truly want and can you practically do it. So many people want the lifestyle without fully knowing what comes with it. You will have to choos...

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i sometimes wanna weight 500 lbs
Yeah, there is an addiction there. Whether it is the addiction to eat non-stop or the addiction to seeing yourself ballin; it comes with it when you cross that bridge to eating yourself into ob...

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the awareness you gain once you have arrived as a fat person.....
Added to the fact that most won't tell you that they get off to the embarrassment of it. It shows to them that you have become a creature so intent on your addiction that you have traded the de...