Right luluvzalula, you kick us off on the next subject...

Can't fault us for lack of variety

LOL Jasmina

No need to be embarrassed!

Yours look good too pillow, they probably look smaller than they are cos of your tum!

Artist247 doing a skilful job of stopping us getting too serious

LOL

Which suggests to an outsider that it's YOU he loves and not just your outer shell!

Did you have a good holiday pillow?

Everyone changes. If we love the person, we deal with it. Looks change, looks go, all kinds of things happen eh

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Well it made sure your message got across Shepherd

Proper debate. Good stuff.

Looks are the icing on the cake not the cake itself

Change is the only constant in life Mike! Lots of us find it difficult to adjust but I think the prospect of it is scarier than actually doing it... when the time comes we have to just get on with it.

I think if you ended a good relationship over this you will regret it

Hang in there Mike - it took me a while to get used to the idea but great people don't grow on trees! If you love her give it a chance surely?

It wasn't easy for me to deal with when my gf decided to have surgery, but I loved her to bits so I decided to stand by her no matter what, as Sarge says people last looks don't

So were you in it for her or for her size? I know it's a big change, but still...

Couldn't agree more Sarge