Congratulations! How many years are you planning to do?

Please don't self harm. I've done it, it solves nothing. Things CAN get better. You're not alone.

@missfatty I think you look fantastic - and those new pics - pre-stuffed? *goes lightheaded*

I'm not having a moan as such, more an observation. I'm smiling actually. Tbh I know that being 39 that rules me out agewise for lots of people anyway!

@Eve: Well, call me old-fashioned but it's a bit difficult to ask someone out when they won't even reply to a first message lol

Well Eve, obviously I wouldn't you the lady's name, but I'm sorry to hear that - I've only been asked out on here by 'taken' people too! x

Lol well I've pretty much given up emailing anyone - doesn't matter how polite, interesting or funny I make the messages, I guess I'm just too old/not attractive enough!

@Windycitygainer: Me too

@dragorat: thanks for your response. So does that mean that if too people want to communicate off-site they're not allowed to? I mean, this was via email, not the shout box.

Why is that if someone emails me their messenger ID, FF changes the messenger name to ***?

@MarshmellowBaby: Happy Tuesday to you too! Any particular reason?

Well I think that would only be the responsible thing to do, Ruby x

Starting to get a plump, are we @Chubbycat?

@curvycuddlesarethebest: Definitely x

Yes you are @kitten22

@chubbygirl2627 thanks, I got through in end, great stuff... damn, I wish was your photographer!

@chubbygirl2627 how do we use the link? I tried copying and pasting it but it doesn't work like that

Does anyone know why Softly left again?

Hey Iona x

Hey Sparkle