Blame the ***s that use this kinda shit as leverage against someone. It's one thing to be accepting and appreciative of it. It's different being a feedee doing this to yourself.
keep body and face pics seprate and do everything you can to make photo's diffrent from ones you would post normally elsewhere, like use a diffrent room/background and mirror etc..
judgmental about sexuality/ women. we'll eventually get those resolved and start having fights about something else we never should have fought about anyway.