I basically agree, though I think there are exceptions.

I think Weetabix is somewhat right, though, in that there are some people (of any gender) who are so down on themselves they won't res...

Been reading about the "soft girl" trend. I know it's not "soft" in the sense that fat bodies are soft, but I wonder if there's any overlap between soft girls and feedees. Anyone?

You'd think so, but I've definitely read statements by BBWs saying they don't want guys who have a thing for fat women (let alone gaining women!). I guess such women fear being fetishized.

Here I just mean people who are so fat they have trouble holding down a job. Like the cab driver Tom Wolfe wrote about, who ate doughnuts all day until he was too fat to fit into his cab.

It seems to me that people who become extremely obese must have challenges when it comes to holding down a job.

How do they do it?

Or do they not have a job? Are they supported by their fam...

It seems to me that people who become extremely obese must have challenges when it comes to holding down a job.

How do they do it?

Or do they not have a job? Are they supported by their fam...

Just added "Shlaraffenland"https://www.deviantart.com/drfeeder/art/Schlaraffenland-by-Dr-Feeder-1143897066

Thanks for the kind words.



Just haven't got around to it!

By popular request I have just posted some stories I wrote a long time ago:

https://www.deviantart.com/drfeeder/gallery

Starts out not wanting to gain at all but has to diet and hates it.

Then she meets a feeder who encourages her to quit dieting and gain some. She's very conflicted at first, maybe goes back to d...

I don't know, but I do know some men get off of the change, whether it's a gain or a loss.

Apologize and help him get healthy. Feeling guilty is not a priority.

One of the best parts of being a feedee is never having to diet.

It seems to me if that's your motivation, your goal should be to get fat enough to qualify for bariatric surgery but not _too_ fa...

I remember having thoughts and feelings about feeding and gaining when I was a child. Maybe these feelings were sexual, but I didn't recognize them as such and it seems to me now they were differen...

A feeder might help. For example, a feeder can edge you towards orgasm, denying you stimulation to get you to eat more. Eventually you might associate overeating with sex and the very idea of it wi...

I've heard of people making large orders that sound like they're ordering for two or three people. They'll order, say, three small cokes, three burgers, and three orders of fries to make it seem li...

Weight-gain (and weight-loss, for that matter!) can be a symptom of depression or other health problems. It is natural for your loved ones to be concerned about that possibility; if you can put...

Just say "I realized I'm happier if I just eat what I want."

This is not a lie and should be a sufficient explanation. If they say something like "But you're getting fat!" just say you're okay w...

Some people fantasize about gaining for years. Then one day they just don't want to put it off any longer. They jump right in with both feet and start eating a lot more and gaining.

They don't ...

Once you're fat you don't have to worry about getting fat. It'll be a fait accompli.

Has anyone ever used this rationale to ease their doubts about gaining?