=< *hugs carol* Don't worry there's like a bajillion and one people out there. Someones gotta be right for yah.

*sends all the chinese food to carolin*

buffetroll* *rolls everyone into the next buffet*

*reveals all the things*

It doesn't mean that it's a site where you treat people like shite/ objects.

But putting it up in public view if it isn't guaranteed true does nothing good.

If you believe someones a fake report it and let the mods handle it. I can see why people are somewhat hesistant to trust and it's good to hold some skepticism. -

come on dude don't be rude. They put up what they are comfortable with.

surgery?

*lends jamanda the dream I had last night* it was weird but not a nightmare.

When you wake up with the grace of a bowl of jelly.

"I don't always like doughnuts, but when I do I eat Dunkin Doughnuts."

*pushes all the doughnuts fawkses way* you can take em I hate em.

While I understand that frustration it's usually when they are burnt out of messages trying to contact someone.

Or he was one of the ***s that continually come back after getting banned for that specific behavior.

hm? Honestly the only thing you need to do to not frighten women off the site generally falls under personal space, and being respectful of that person as a person.

putting in the effort to stand out against the crowd that's usually fawning for their attention helps.

Read the profile, look at the interests, think about message usually around a paragraph long based on the subjects they mentoined that also pertain to you aswell even then it's not guaranteed but

I can understand being a little bit hurt but when you only get ten messages and a slew of messages you need to reply to the ones that stand out.

And here we go with the bloody gender shit... Girls don't owe you anything They get bloody landslides of messages.